THE MAGIC WORDS!!

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    Apr 12, 2009 5:12 AM GMT
    What could a guy say in a first email that would make you want to respond back, especially if you've had no previous interaction, such as in a forum post, etc? *Thank you Matt45710*
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    Apr 12, 2009 5:15 AM GMT
    if a guy said:


    come to the darkside, we've got cookies....

    Im freaking there....
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    Apr 12, 2009 5:31 AM GMT
    Has to be more than 2 words.

    Has to be from a VGL guy, preferably Martian, with 3% body fat, masculine, and doesn't eat fish.

    j/k icon_lol.gif

    Seriously though, I try to reply to everything. As long as it's not spam or a request for camsex.
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    Apr 12, 2009 5:42 AM GMT
    hmmm

    ideally it would be something alone the lines of

    "Oi, we are forming a militia to overthrow onslaught and take his camera, wanna join*

    I'd be sssssssssssssssooooooooooooooooooooooo *flaps wrist* right there
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    Apr 12, 2009 7:34 AM GMT
    Someone who is a bit goofy and is able to maintain a train of thought aside from sex or saying something about looks. One thing that really drives up response is when you can use something from the about me section of the person's profile...says you've read their info and want to know more.
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    Apr 12, 2009 7:44 AM GMT
    I respond to everyone since they said SOMETHING in the first place, but I dilly-dally in maintaining a conversation by keeping it flowing. Oh well....Hi, everybody!
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    Apr 12, 2009 7:47 AM GMT
    Chaaxwvn saidI respond to everyone since they said SOMETHING in the first place, but I dilly-dally in maintaining a conversation by keeping it flowing. Oh well....Hi, everybody!


    Hi Chaaxwvn,

    Well said. Have a good one.
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    Apr 12, 2009 5:02 PM GMT
    i should not be: a one liner, a two liner, empty flattery, a bad pick-up line that makes me cringe a bit, a blunt request to see my 'privates,' or to cam, or the very worst: "hey."

    it should be: unique, intelligent, genuine; something that makes me feel interested in hearing more- makes me feel good and thus inclines me to respond.

    nothing magic about it- just conversational common sense.
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    Apr 12, 2009 5:13 PM GMT
    Problem is, some guys´ "about me" is so thin or vague that all you are left with is saying how hot they are....

    sigh

    For me, say something interesting, or be absurdly hot. I´m not ashamed: Hot is fine for me to reply and chat to you. Hell, if you are really hot* I´ll even show you my boxer briefs on cam.

















    * I maintain the right to define "really hot", and there is no possibilty of appeal. Deal with it.

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    Apr 12, 2009 5:16 PM GMT
    Czarodziejit should not be... empty flattery


    Hahaha, this normally works with me though.
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    Apr 12, 2009 5:22 PM GMT
    I must be far too easy, if they aren't a jackass, and look good I always reply
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    Apr 12, 2009 5:52 PM GMT
    If they seem nice and i'm attracted to them on some level...i reply.
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    Apr 12, 2009 5:53 PM GMT
    No magic words, just an opening note that applies to me, and not to thousands of other guys on here as well