putting others down...

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    Apr 12, 2009 6:55 AM GMT
    So I'm just gonna rant a bit. I know the reality of the real world and that it can suck but I'm tired of people putting others down. I lost almost 30 pounds, put on some muscle and yeah I feel pretty confident. I'm 165 and 5'9/10 but apparently I'm still fat and hearing that makes me feel like all I did was for nothing.

    I just dont understand the point of being mean, unless your a sadist I suppose. If no one is being mean or rude to each other than why start, what do you honestly get from hurting others? Sometimes I wish I had that remote from "Click" with Adam Sandler and beat the shit out of people that hurt and put others down for no legitiment reason.

    I'm sorry if this was a wasted thread but maybe you fellas can use this to rant about pissy stories too because if I didnt do this I'd be patching holes in my drywall.
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    Apr 12, 2009 9:01 AM GMT
    erm.. your fat??

    Crap...

    I'm a fucking blimp in comparison

    *runs away crying*
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    Apr 12, 2009 9:02 AM GMT
    some people don't like that you succeed while they fail.. some people don't like others to be happy, some people are just cunts..

    If someone aims to bring you down... Step on them to get higher up icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 12, 2009 9:18 AM GMT
    yeah i think its in ur head. don't go Calista Flockhart on us. U look fine, really.. good job on losing the weight BTW.
  • Bunjamon

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    Apr 12, 2009 3:30 PM GMT
    People only put other people down to deal with their own insecurities. People who are comfortable with themselves don't feel the urge to make other people feel smaller than themselves. So, even though it's hard, try not to let it bother you. Those assholes aren't worth worrying over.
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    Apr 12, 2009 3:36 PM GMT
    A lot of the time people do it because they are insecure, or not in their own minds good enough to be what they think is the ideal, so they lash out at others in defense.

    A lot of times they are ignorant...

    and sometimes they really are just a waste of space... on a high horse...

    example:

    From Member: twentysixpoint2[cite]


    you are not adept at argument as your body is obviously your main currency in life. I'd be very surprised if you don't have issues yourself, given your preference for tattoos and exhibitionism. It speaks to a need for constant approval and dissatisfaction with one's self. That's my arm chair analysis. I'd bet that as you get older you'll have a terrible time, if not already, in accepting yourself.

    good day to you.

    Clearly has his own issues with himself... and is probably pretty close to ignorant.
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    Apr 12, 2009 3:38 PM GMT
    GNR7600 saidSo I'm just gonna rant a bit. I know the reality of the real world and that it can suck but I'm tired of people putting others down. I lost almost 30 pounds, put on some muscle and yeah I feel pretty confident. I'm 165 and 5'9/10 but apparently I'm still fat and hearing that makes me feel like all I did was for nothing.

    I just dont understand the point of being mean, unless your a sadist I suppose. If no one is being mean or rude to each other than why start, what do you honestly get from hurting others? Sometimes I wish I had that remote from "Click" with Adam Sandler and beat the shit out of people that hurt and put others down for no legitiment reason.

    I'm sorry if this was a wasted thread but maybe you fellas can use this to rant about pissy stories too because if I didnt do this I'd be patching holes in my drywall.


    LOL! Are you making this up?!? I don't know how anyone can say that you are fat!! You look fantastic now. It's great that you are no longer fat, that's for sure.
    Whomever said that you are fat, go kick the jealous idiot's arse!
    You are a really great looking guy, who is certainly on the road to having an amazing muscular physique! Keep up the training!
    Cheers,
    Keith
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    Apr 12, 2009 4:08 PM GMT
    Who is it in your life that's telling you that you're fat?
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    Apr 12, 2009 4:18 PM GMT
    GNR... I think you´re hot icon_redface.gif

    And GO ROCCO ;)
  • CAtoFL

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    Apr 12, 2009 4:29 PM GMT
    This reminded me of when I lost weight.

    I discovered the Gay Rule that five people will compliment you when you've lost twenty pounds and twenty people will tell you when you've gained five.

    I have no idea why, but I presume it's based in pure old jealousy.
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    Apr 12, 2009 4:35 PM GMT
    StripperRocco saidA lot of the time people do it because they are insecure, or not in their own minds good enough to be what they think is the ideal, so they lash out at others in defense.

    A lot of times they are ignorant...

    and sometimes they really are just a waste of space... on a high horse...

    example:

    From Member: twentysixpoint2[cite]


    you are not adept at argument as your body is obviously your main currency in life. I'd be very surprised if you don't have issues yourself, given your preference for tattoos and exhibitionism. It speaks to a need for constant approval and dissatisfaction with one's self. That's my arm chair analysis. I'd bet that as you get older you'll have a terrible time, if not already, in accepting yourself.

    good day to you.

    Clearly has his own issues with himself... and is probably pretty close to ignorant.


    OMG I didn't see him post that!
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    Apr 12, 2009 4:45 PM GMT
    Just tell 'em...."Well, I can still lose weight. You're obviously stupid and there is no getting over that."
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    Apr 12, 2009 5:00 PM GMT
    StripperRocco saidA lot of the time people do it because they are insecure, or not in their own minds good enough to be what they think is the ideal, so they lash out at others in defense.

    A lot of times they are ignorant...

    and sometimes they really are just a waste of space... on a high horse...

    example:

    From Member: twentysixpoint2[cite]


    you are not adept at argument as your body is obviously your main currency in life. I'd be very surprised if you don't have issues yourself, given your preference for tattoos and exhibitionism. It speaks to a need for constant approval and dissatisfaction with one's self. That's my arm chair analysis. I'd bet that as you get older you'll have a terrible time, if not already, in accepting yourself.

    good day to you.

    Clearly has his own issues with himself... and is probably pretty close to ignorant.


    So how about you now go back and post the full transcript of what you said to 26.2 that resulted in him making this remark -just so that we can have the full story
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    Apr 12, 2009 5:07 PM GMT
    If you have the mind control to lose 30 lbs icon_eek.gif you have the mind control to ignore stupid people .. or at least not let them get to you. There is nothing wrong with learning that putting people down for no good reason is for losers though .. good for you if you can learn to be a better person.
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    Apr 12, 2009 5:26 PM GMT
    yeah [long exhausting sigh]... thanks everyone. I really really needed to vent and something about letting others know how I feel in a public way eases my stress. I didnt want this to turn into a sympathy thread and I feel it did. Its great though, I really appreciate and value everyones opinion.

    btw Happy Easter everyone! Cheers..icon_biggrin.gif
  • dannyboy1101

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    Apr 12, 2009 7:55 PM GMT
    StripperRocco saidA lot of the time people do it because they are insecure, or not in their own minds good enough to be what they think is the ideal, so they lash out at others in defense.



    From Member: twentysixpoint2[cite]


    you are not adept at argument as your body is obviously your main currency in life. I'd be very surprised if you don't have issues yourself, given your preference for tattoos and exhibitionism. It speaks to a need for constant approval and dissatisfaction with one's self. That's my arm chair analysis. I'd bet that as you get older you'll have a terrible time, if not already, in accepting yourself.

    good day to you.

    Clearly has his own issues with himself... and is probably pretty close to ignorant.


    Wow, is he charging you by the hour? I didn't know that realjock had realtherapist inside it, too.
  • dannyboy1101

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    Apr 12, 2009 8:02 PM GMT
    Gays are assholes and dicks hence why that's mostly what they concern themselves with. Do your self-improvements for you and aim for achieving the body that YOU would say looks awesome. If you watch any model reality shows, you can clearly see that relying on others' opinions of "hot or not" is a hopeless venture. We can say you look good or bad, but the only thing that matters is how you feel about yourself. The boys that matter will be drawn to you if you have the confidence that says they should be.
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    Apr 12, 2009 8:09 PM GMT
    I looked at your gallery and those abs tell my eyes that you are WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY for from being fat. Simplest reason: Jealousy. While I have no doubt that you will be one of the RJ gods one day, as long as your confidence gains strength and you develop the ability to laugh at yourself, I guarantee you will be one of the most hotlisted and sought after guys on the planet. Chin Up! always.

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    Apr 12, 2009 8:17 PM GMT
    Because when others suffer from low self-esteem they suddenly feel better when they attack others without provocation. It happens A LOT on this site.

    It's lunatic!

  • jgymnast733

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    Apr 12, 2009 8:43 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]lilTanker said[/cite]some people don't like that you succeed while they fail.. some people don't like others to be happy, some people are just cunts..

    AMEN brother lilTanker, Preach!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Tell the truth and shame the devilicon_exclaim.gif
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    Apr 12, 2009 8:47 PM GMT
    Time to close this thread. Now you know the men from RJ are 100% on your side. Keep up the good work!icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 12, 2009 8:47 PM GMT
    lilTanker saiderm.. your fat??

    Crap...

    I'm a fucking blimp in comparison

    *runs away crying*


    I concur!
    I think it was Oscar Wilde that said "Better to be talked bad about than for my name to never pass their lips at all." Or something like that.
    Anyways. Remember that just because someone says something doesn't make it a fact. Consider the source. It is you who should feel pity for these people that have nothing better to do.
    Intelligent people talk about ideas.
    Dumb asses talk about other people.
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    Apr 13, 2009 6:37 AM GMT
    First, Congrats on you success!!! Very inspirational achievment.

    Can't wait till I can be "fat" like you icon_lol.gif . I'm so happy when I lose even a few lbs, and I have NEVER cared what people who are not a part of my life think about me.
  • brianstephens

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    Apr 14, 2009 1:58 AM GMT
    GNR7600 saidSo I'm just gonna rant a bit. I know the reality of the real world and that it can suck but I'm tired of people putting others down. I lost almost 30 pounds, put on some muscle and yeah I feel pretty confident. I'm 165 and 5'9/10 but apparently I'm still fat and hearing that makes me feel like all I did was for nothing.

    I just dont understand the point of being mean, unless your a sadist I suppose. If no one is being mean or rude to each other than why start, what do you honestly get from hurting others? Sometimes I wish I had that remote from "Click" with Adam Sandler and beat the shit out of people that hurt and put others down for no legitiment reason.

    I'm sorry if this was a wasted thread but maybe you fellas can use this to rant about pissy stories too because if I didnt do this I'd be patching holes in my drywall.


    Lol Eric that has gotta be a fucking joke.

    You're hella defined and you were never even fat to begin with before you started hitting the gym.
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    Apr 14, 2009 5:55 AM GMT
    Short Explanation: Because they suck.

    Long Explanation: Because they are weak and petty and they know it. They loathe themselves for their own fears, and they avoid it by inflicting pain on others.

    You know how it helps to calm yourself from worrying about your own problems when you help someone with theirs? Well these dickwads are the same difference.

    Short Reply: Fuck off.

    Long Reply: No, seriously: fuck off.