I dont get it...

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    Apr 13, 2009 8:01 AM GMT
    I got an email from this guy, he seemed to be nice and everything. He asked me if I was interested in making friends....

    All I could answer was: For sure, I dont see how making a new friend would harm me in any way, my name is Carlos, hope to hear from you soon...next thing I got was: Im (name comes here) top...have msn?

    I dont judge him or anything but I didnt feel like talking to him anymore. Did the word "friend" evolved to a new meaning I didnt know of? I just kinda felt insulted on the way he continued the conversation. I dont mind to talk sexually to some guys as long as the conversation categorizes under the right "label". But asking me if we could be friends and then switching to a sexual context kinda makes me wonder if thats the impression I give off to people. It makes me wonder if my profile does really give way such a shallow feeling that could have possibly made him think thats what I think a "friend" stands for.

    I might be wrong with my interpretation and overall analysis, but i just couldnt find any other way around it.

    thoughts?

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    Apr 13, 2009 8:09 AM GMT
    na mate, you don't give that sort of impression..
    Some people are just "odd" I suppose, behave in ways you wont understand sometimes..

    I tend to give that sort of impression being very sexual, comments of a sexual nature and so on, but I tend to keep people at distance because of my personality, I'm always surprised at how many guys tell me I'm intimidating on these forums some how.. anyway.. not about me gotta remember that hahaha

    I think you just need to shrug and brush them aside, people do weird things, they are people after all.
  • Delivis

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    Apr 13, 2009 8:13 AM GMT
    Do you give off a sexual impression? Perhaps. But i don't think that is what is going on here.

    It is very common for people to message others on here under the guise, the facade, of wanting to just be friends when they are looking for a sexual escapade of one kind or another.

    Don't take it out on yourself. Sounds like he was just being a tad dishonnest about his intentions.
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    Apr 13, 2009 8:17 AM GMT
    charlitos give off about as much of a sexual impression as you do Delivis...
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    Apr 13, 2009 8:17 AM GMT
    He was just feeling horny and saw the word "friends" as a way in. Nothing personal.
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    Apr 13, 2009 8:23 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidcharlitos give off about as much of a sexual impression as you do Delivis...


    Hrm. That is disturbing to the highest degree. Must go make my wall-of-text profile more dense and impassabe.
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    Apr 13, 2009 8:25 AM GMT
    redheadguy saidHe was just feeling horny and saw the word "friends" as a way in. Nothing personal.

    Oh please.. nothing personal my arse.. he was being underhanded.. you wanna fuck.. you tell'em you wanna fuck, you wanna giggle over some hot bloke together while sipping thick shakes and talking about fashion you say friends..
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    Apr 13, 2009 8:26 AM GMT
    Delivis said
    lilTanker saidcharlitos give off about as much of a sexual impression as you do Delivis...


    Hrm. That is disturbing to the highest degree. Must go make my wall-of-text profile more dense and impassabe.

    yeah.. just what your needing.. icon_eek.gif
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    Apr 13, 2009 8:26 AM GMT
    Well, it was the internet. It wasn't like he was trying to pick him up in a bar.
  • Delivis

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    Apr 13, 2009 8:27 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    Delivis said
    lilTanker saidcharlitos give off about as much of a sexual impression as you do Delivis...


    Hrm. That is disturbing to the highest degree. Must go make my wall-of-text profile more dense and impassabe.

    yeah.. just what your needing.. icon_eek.gif


    It does help fend people off..icon_smile.gif

    But yeah...back on topic...underhanded it was indeed.
  • Delivis

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    Apr 13, 2009 8:31 AM GMT
    redheadguy saidWell, it was the internet. It wasn't like he was trying to pick him up in a bar.


    So what? The medium one is using is hardly a good excuse for dishonesty.
  • cbrett

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    Apr 13, 2009 8:31 AM GMT
    charlitos i will be your friend
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    Apr 13, 2009 8:35 AM GMT
    Delivis said
    lilTanker said
    Delivis said
    lilTanker saidcharlitos give off about as much of a sexual impression as you do Delivis...


    Hrm. That is disturbing to the highest degree. Must go make my wall-of-text profile more dense and impassabe.

    yeah.. just what your needing.. icon_eek.gif


    It does help fend people off..icon_smile.gif

    Na mate, it puts them to sleep, I know, I read it, had the best nights sleep I've had in years, I meant to write and thank you, but oddly, I had another awesome nights sleep and totally forgot to tell ya icon_razz.gif
  • Delivis

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    Apr 13, 2009 8:37 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    Delivis said
    lilTanker said
    Delivis said
    lilTanker saidcharlitos give off about as much of a sexual impression as you do Delivis...


    Hrm. That is disturbing to the highest degree. Must go make my wall-of-text profile more dense and impassabe.

    yeah.. just what your needing.. icon_eek.gif


    It does help fend people off..icon_smile.gif

    Na mate, it puts them to sleep, I know, I read it, had the best nights sleep I've had in years, I meant to write and thank you, but oddly, I had another awesome nights sleep and totally forgot to tell ya icon_razz.gif


    Always happy to help.
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    Apr 13, 2009 8:44 AM GMT
    Delivis saidDo you give off a sexual impression? Perhaps. But i don't think that is what is going on here.



    I said I dont mind to talk sexually with some guy I might like on here. My concern is if I really look like all i want is a "friend" to f*** with.


    lilTankerna mate, you don't give that sort of impression..
    Some people are just "odd" I suppose, behave in ways you wont understand sometimes..


    good to know man, still delivis classifies the comparison as disturbing...once he took a picture of himself(smiling) topless in front of a mirror, he was not longer any better than I am. They say one picture worths 10 000 words icon_twisted.gif

    redheadguyHe was just feeling horny and saw the word "friends" as a way in. Nothing personal.


    im not sure if I took it too personal, but I just didnt like it for some reason.
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    Apr 13, 2009 9:03 AM GMT
    charlitos saidgood to know man, still delivis classifies the comparison as disturbing...once he took a picture of himself(smiling) topless in front of a mirror, he was not longer any better than I am. They say one picture worths 10 000 words icon_twisted.gif.

    as a man who can pick up on sexual crassness from a thousand paces in a blizzard, I can assure you, Delivis being shirtless and a smile doesn't say sexual, it says shirtless with a smile, I mean, his pants are hitched correctly, its a genuine smile from what I can tell, but there is no sass there, its just like a guy on the beach, shirtless with buddies having fun and being happy..

    Your photos are funner to an extent but not at all overly sexual in any way.. actually more goofy.. nuffin more..

    Relax, it was just a freaky dick head..
  • GQjock

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    Apr 13, 2009 10:54 AM GMT
    This is the internet .....
    Where you have most guys
    follow up What's up? with what's your dick size? icon_confused.gif

    If you're that hard up? I need to pass
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    Apr 13, 2009 3:45 PM GMT
    GQjock saidThis is the internet .....
    Where you have most guys
    follow up What's up? with what's your dick size? icon_confused.gif

    If you're that hard up? I need to pass


    ya probably probably i made a big deal out of nothing. I guess its just one of those days
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    Apr 13, 2009 3:52 PM GMT
    I´ll still be your friend Charlie icon_smile.gif

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    Apr 13, 2009 3:59 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidI´ll still be your friend Charlie icon_smile.gif



    icon_razz.gif thanks icon_redface.gif


    i know you are
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    Apr 13, 2009 5:13 PM GMT
    You've got a nice face, a good body, and you pose half-naked in some of your profile pics, Charlitos. Puh-lease -- it's painfully obvious you're nothing more than an over-sexed, vapid harlot looking for a good time....






















    ...to anyone without a brain, or who hasn't noticed that you also have a fairly descriptive profile, some downright goofy 'I just love having fun' photos, and that the persona that comes across through your plethora of forum postings paints you as anything but a notch-seeking sexaholic (not that there's anything wrong with notch-seeking sexaholics, mind you!). Sometimes men - especially horny men - read what they want to see into something. Don't let it bug you -- it's not you, it's him.