does anyone else NOT enjoy insertion anal sex?

  • rnch

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    Apr 13, 2009 12:51 PM GMT
    i have come to the conclusion that i am neither a top or a bottom.

    i don't really enjoy inserting my condom covered penis inside another guy's rectum. i get no more pleasure from topping than i do from masterbating in private. judging from the verbal and visual feedback i get from a few carefully chosen repeat offender between the sheeters; i can top adequately if not skillfully. i just don't "get off" on doing so.

    so, i finally found a patient, kind, skillfull, sensitive man (my current bf) who took the time to "break me in" properly in bottoming. (thought it would never happen!)

    no thrill in bottoming, either. we have tried numerous positions, angles, and toys. i get no prostate pleasure from bottoming. the pleasure (in anal sex) is all my bf's.

    what i do enjoy is getting to the insertion point. hugging, caressing, kissing, stroking, rubbing up against each other, cuddleing after we both jizz, sleeping nude wrapped up in each other's arms and legs...this i enjoy/desire want.

    i definately find my current bf appealing and desireable. i love his smile, his dimples, his blue eyes, his naked, hard body, the sound of his voice, his slightly off center goofy personality, his sense of humor......

    anyone else like me?





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    Apr 13, 2009 3:52 PM GMT
    rnch saidi have come to the conclusion that i am neither a top or a bottom.

    i don't really enjoy inserting my condom covered penis inside another guy's rectum. i get no more pleasure from topping than i do from masterbating in private. judging from the verbal and visual feedback i get from a few carefully chosen repeat offender between the sheeters; i can top adequately if not skillfully. i just don't "get off" on doing so.

    so, i finally found a patient, kind, skillfull, sensitive man (my current bf) who took the time to "break me in" properly in bottoming. (thought it would never happen!)

    no thrill in bottoming, either. we have tried numerous positions, angles, and toys. i get no prostate pleasure from bottoming. the pleasure (in anal sex) is all my bf's.

    what i do enjoy is getting to the insertion point. hugging, caressing, kissing, stroking, rubbing up against each other, cuddleing after we both jizz, sleeping nude wrapped up in each other's arms and legs...this i enjoy/desire want.

    i definately find my current bf appealing and desireable. i love his smile, his dimples, his blue eyes, his naked, hard body, the sound of his voice, his slightly off center goofy personality, his sense of humor......

    anyone else like me?

    I am very similar. Get no prostate pleasure from being a bottom, just the satisfaction of pleasing the top. I can cum as a top myself, but I still enjoy other forms of sex more, once again doing anal mainly for his pleasure, not my own. Not everyone is into anal.

    Like you I also enjoy the romantic aspects of being with a man, and cuddling and sleeping naked together is an essential part of my relationship. Not sure if you & I are in the minority in our preferences, but they are not unique.
  • rnch

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    Apr 13, 2009 6:39 PM GMT
    good to know i am not the only one......
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    Apr 13, 2009 7:23 PM GMT

    you're a g0y!!! icon_eek.gificon_surprised.gificon_lol.gif
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    Apr 13, 2009 7:29 PM GMT
    ZiMsTeR said
    you're a g0y!!! icon_eek.gificon_surprised.gificon_lol.gif


    i dunno zim, calling him g0y means he frowns upon anal. this guy just plain doesn't like it.
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    Apr 13, 2009 9:10 PM GMT
    I'm in the same situation actually - both me AND my bf prefer not to, instead we enjoy exactly the same things you do - your not alone!
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    Apr 15, 2009 1:02 AM GMT
    I definitely enjoy working up to the point of anal sex. It's a lot more enjoyable than actually having it. I strictly bottomed with my last partner (he couldn't get used to it regardless of how patient I was), and my main pleasure there was seeing how much he enjoyed fucking me.

    Having said that, I still enjoy having someone finger me. Probably because it's a lot more sensual...and nimble fingers can work wonders on a prostate icon_biggrin.gif