straigts suck

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    Oct 30, 2007 7:52 PM GMT
    and not in the good way hehe. well this is more of a rant than a opinion post but its kinda like rekindle the flames post, well theres a guy i really like, hes hot, in shape he used to be a stuntman. and everytime i see him i just wish we could get together, im not one neccissarily for sex but a relationship, the major prob, hes straight. and he lives two rooms down from me, so i cant just try to avoind him. which i wouldnt want to. hes cool, great guy to be around. but thats bout as far as it goes. well thanks for listening sometimes it really sucks.
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    Oct 30, 2007 9:04 PM GMT
    GET OVER IT! Haha no seriously, we've all been there icon_wink.gif

    That really sucks, man...
  • zakariahzol

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    Oct 30, 2007 9:09 PM GMT
    What can you do?. He straight. His born that way. Just like you wont be attracted to some girls. So I guess he will not be attracted to you. Find some good looking gay /bisexual guys to fall in love with.
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    Oct 30, 2007 9:23 PM GMT
    Go to a gym with a punching bag and kill it. That's what I'm gonna do. I'm right there with you.
  • imbrad

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    Oct 31, 2007 12:06 AM GMT
    do what i did and hang out with him for a while... then you realize that he isn't really that great of a person and you are better off just being friends... haha, unless the opposite happens, in which case... sorry icon_sad.gif then you can go to the gym. not only will you get your frustrations out but you will get even hotter for the hot gay guy that is waiting for you... somewhere icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 31, 2007 12:20 AM GMT
    Heh, it'll take a while for you to realize the same thing I did back then (it took me 2 and a half years) -- it just isn't meant to be.

    Focus on working on YOURSELF. Do the things that make you feel good. I, myself get that feeling when I workout very early in the morning and when I pretty much push myself to work hard everyday. Being in that position sucks the life out of you and fills you up with self-doubts but I'm glad at this point in my life that I'm not in that zone anymore because it made me realize that there are better things in life than dwelling on things that could never be.

    If you have passion for something, may it be art, singing, horseback riding(there's a horse on your main picture LOL!) or ANYTHING -- do them. You will get to the point where you'll realize that your passion for something is something no one could ever take away from you.
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    Oct 31, 2007 12:55 AM GMT
    I'm amused of how naive people can be... but that just me. Ya'll go on wit ya silly rants.
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    Oct 31, 2007 3:53 AM GMT
    feel your pain...think I might be doomed to eternal single status. I always like the wrong guys.
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    Oct 31, 2007 12:55 PM GMT
    Oh man. I'm right there, right now. There has never been a time when I had a crush and he was gay, or that he was open. There is a really smart nice guy in my class and he's straight. fuck. Being gay is often tough.
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    Oct 31, 2007 1:15 PM GMT
    I just remind myself that the chances are pretty good he's not clean back there. Prolly not squeaky clean up front, either.

    Dust your hands and go find one of the kajillion homos moping over how they can't find a decent guy.
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    Oct 31, 2007 1:25 PM GMT
    Maybe invite yourself over with a six pack? I always hear that strait is just a six pack away from bi. It's even been my experience, though not my intent. Try dropping hints that you are interested in being friends and possibly friends with benefits. It's up to him to either open up to you or shut you down. Whichever happens go with it. And remember, there are more guys out there.
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    Oct 31, 2007 1:39 PM GMT
    Hey bud..... he may not be totally str8..... hit him with the line that these gay guys got it pretty good.... they come home from work with a pizza and a box of beer and everybodies happy....
  • jarhead5536

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    Oct 31, 2007 2:40 PM GMT
    I thinks it's safe to say that the first man any of us fell in love with was straight. That kind of experience gives us all some, uh, issues, dontcha think?
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    Oct 31, 2007 10:44 PM GMT
    yeah it sucks, i aint got a gym around anywhere that i know of. i have hung out with him a bit and hes very attractive both physically and mentally, and i have gotten drunk with him. he pretty much keeps to himself. oh well. this aint the first time ive been attracted to a straight guy and i know it wont be the last. oh well. thanks though.