hot listing

  • joarky123

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    Apr 14, 2009 4:12 PM GMT
    hey guys. so i tried to do a forum search but came up empty. so apologies if this topic has already been discussed.

    so recently i noticed something very interesting that begged me to ask the question: what is it about a profile that makes you want to hot list a guy?

    now, i know that people go about 'hotlisting' very differently. i, am one who appreciates all things beautiful...from the bouncy bosoms of a hot girl to the chiseled chest of a good looking stud. so when it comes to hot-listing, i tend to be pretty loose with my clicking.

    anyways, i tend to be on here a lot, and i've racked up a long list of people who i think are hot be it their pics, their words, or even the songs they choose.

    at the risk of sounding a bit conceited (which I am not, and trying not to),recently, as in within the past month or 2 or so, i've noticed that i've recently been getting hotlisted quite a bit. i have to first say thank you to all the guys that have done so. the comments are much appreciated and they definitely are a great confirmation of the appreciation of all the work that i do. however, when it comes to my profile, i haven't changed anything much besides the addition of two or three new pictures. none of them are rather new or indecent. nor do they show anything more or 'better' than previous pictures.

    so once again, that begs the question:

    What is it about a profile that makes you want to hot list a guy?
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    Apr 14, 2009 5:02 PM GMT
    Depends. I'll hot list someone if i think they're hot (duh), or if I've had a good conversation with em, or a bookmark to come back to....

    I dunno, I would rather have someone gimme an email saying "very nice" or "keep up the good work" than being hotlisted... just seems more substantial. Which is why I try and keep my hotlist #s down and if i like what a guy has to say (or their pic) in their profile, I'll usually let em know.

    But whatever floats your boat!
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    Apr 14, 2009 5:18 PM GMT
    If I like looking at them, or they have something in their profile that catches my eye, or we have some conversation going.

    If someone has all three they get buddy listed icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 14, 2009 5:31 PM GMT

    Once I receive a promise in writing that I'll bear his offsprings within a year or two, he instantly gets hotlisted. *cough*Tapper*cough* icon_wink.gificon_cool.gif
  • HndsmKansan

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    Apr 14, 2009 5:34 PM GMT
    It goes beyond a good picture or photo, its who they are by the way they communicate in their profile. Its make or break it for me. There may be some here who have hot pics, but their personality (via written profile or the lack of it even) may shoot it down.
  • junknemesis

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    Apr 14, 2009 6:06 PM GMT
    For me it's mostly the profile and their posts on the forums. Sure a good pic might help me to look at the profile in the first place, but then again, so will a smart and well thought out forum post.

    If I find the person interesting and I want to talk with them I'll put them on my hotlist. If we do talk more and I enjoy talking with them then it's the buddylist for them!
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    Apr 14, 2009 6:11 PM GMT
    i usually hot list the guy if he hot lists me first... just to be nice.

    This profile shit means nothing to me... Some guy deserve being on hot list but most are just guys that i mutually did so to get them excited lol
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    Apr 14, 2009 6:19 PM GMT
    ZiMsTeR said
    Once I receive a promise in writing that I'll bear his offsprings within a year or two, he instantly gets hotlisted. *cough*Tapper*cough* icon_wink.gificon_cool.gif


    el oh el
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    Apr 14, 2009 6:21 PM GMT
    I like getting candy.
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    Apr 14, 2009 6:41 PM GMT
    I hot list people whom I find attractive. I think it's good to have an understanding of what kind of guys someone else is into. For example, if I went to a guy's profile and he sounds cool, but I check the hotlist and they're all 40+ and ripped, I won't be all that surprised if I don't get a response. Lol. icon_cool.gif


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    Apr 14, 2009 6:45 PM GMT
    usually if i admire someones physique, or maybe I have talked to them and loved their personality, or it could be because something about them makes them very unique. But I have to admit its usually the nice tight booty that gets me every time. haha.
  • imperator

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    Apr 14, 2009 6:54 PM GMT
    To me, hotlisting someone is pretty totally superficial, based simply on "this guy's gorgeous (or at least really cute)-- next time I want to look at something beautiful to brighten up my day I want some kind of shortcut to his profile." If I learn after the fact that he's a great person too, then great, but the hotlisting is all about visual stimulation. Flash a pretty picture and birdy taps the button.

    I have, however, un-hotlisted people before for reasons having nothing to do with their pictures. A couple of times I've read forum posts that I found repugnant and thought "what the hell kind of person could say such a thing?" So I'll go to the offending poster's profile to see if I can find some hint there as to why they'd say what they did (because if it was said out of ignorance, that can sometimes be redeemed), or whether they might have just been lampooning awful people (since sarcasm can translate poorly online). And a couple times, upon investigating their profiles I found that I'd previously hotlisted them, and that now I'd seen something of their attitudes in action I found them much less attractive.

    Long and short of it: a great personality might not make me physically attracted to a guy I didn't already find hot, but a lousy personality can utterly sour even primo eye-candy. icon_razz.gif
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    Apr 14, 2009 6:55 PM GMT
    I hotlist a guy if he has a great face,a great body or both.I could care less what his mission in life is all about.
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    Apr 14, 2009 7:01 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]joarky123 said

    What is it about a profile that makes you want to hot list a guy?[/quote]

    In the vein of another thread....I gotta say a headless torso really gets me going! LOL


    I'm kidding, joarky. You do have a great torso...and unlike some others I could care less if you show your face or not. Just the same as I cared whether Red Vespa ever showed his other scooter or not! {grin}
    I've hot listed guys with varying body types and skin tones and even some that had faces. I've hot listed guys sometimes (rare) just for their personality or opinion. (even rarer) But what I do not do is hot list a guy under 25. Just about anyone under 25 who would have a profile on RJ will easily have a great body. If you're 25 and over, you know you have to start working to keep that body, so then I'll applaud you.
    If you are over 50 and have a really great body....call me! LOL
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    Apr 14, 2009 7:21 PM GMT
    For me its visual. Maybe the eyes or smile.... A hot chest or great abs. Something different every time.
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    Apr 14, 2009 7:29 PM GMT
    McGay saidI like getting candy.
    I have some in this old van. Why don't you get in?
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    Apr 14, 2009 8:57 PM GMT
    See, I just don't find men attractive...so I don't hotlist

    {lol icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif }
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    Apr 14, 2009 9:27 PM GMT
    I used to hot list guys that I thought were hot but I deleted all or most of them. Now my hot list are people that I either have talked to, saw something in their profile I liked, would ask them out if I were in their area, and some that have me on their hot list. Which reminds me that I need to put a couple of posters on their.

    My buddy list has a whole different set of criteria.
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    Apr 14, 2009 9:35 PM GMT
    a random bunch of guys I like for what ever reason, either hes got an admirable body that I'd like to have for ma self.. hes made me laugh, said something nice, made me think or what not... rarely does anyone make it onto my hotlist for being just hot
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    Apr 14, 2009 11:38 PM GMT
    Superficial silly bullsh*t!!!!

    My "hotlist" is empty. If i think youre hot ill tell you.
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    Apr 15, 2009 12:09 AM GMT
    joarky123 saidso once again, that begs the question:

    What is it about a profile that makes you want to hot list a guy?


    A minimal use of capital letters?

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    Apr 15, 2009 12:23 AM GMT
    bare nipples, good personality, bubble butt, uniforms, nice eyes, face pix, and a intelligent postings.
  • dreamer121

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    Apr 15, 2009 12:48 AM GMT
    If the guy is drop dead gorgeous and is an inspiration for me to hit the gym... or even if he's not the hottest, movie star good looks, but has a good look going and what he has to say in his profile wins me over and makes me think "there are still good guys out there"