MY BEST FRIENDS HOT!!

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    Apr 15, 2009 6:02 AM GMT
    i think i have the hottest best friend ever... how do i change this? he's straight and i feel bad that i have a crush on em, but i can't help it. help me out fella! like i'm even starting to have wet dreams about em lol (no i'm not a male whore).
  • RITS

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    Apr 15, 2009 8:34 AM GMT
    Nothing you can do. Just need to get over it and deal with nothing will ever happen.

    A) You tell him and he will most likely be weirded and stop talking to you.

    B) You don't tell him and just realize hes something to look at.

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    Apr 15, 2009 8:52 AM GMT
    pics or it didn't happen
  • Little_Spoon

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    Apr 15, 2009 8:53 AM GMT
    It's raping time.
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    Apr 15, 2009 8:56 AM GMT
    Your screwed.. your life is over.. settle into a life of SAD
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    Apr 15, 2009 8:59 AM GMT
    Rhule08 saidCOLORED TEXT GOES HERE

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  • Delivis

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    Apr 15, 2009 9:05 AM GMT
    Be a friend and dont let it get in the way.
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    Apr 15, 2009 9:20 AM GMT
    DanielH saidIt's raping time.
    Absolutely, take him out, get him roaring drunk, and just take fucking advantage of him. Alternatively, why did they invent date rape drugs anyway if not for socially useful purposes such as this anyway?
  • GQjock

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    Apr 15, 2009 9:56 AM GMT
    Get over it or start lobbying Bravo for a new reality show icon_cool.gif
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    Apr 15, 2009 10:20 AM GMT
    totally have the same problem - well except for the wet dreams - but thats fun too icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 15, 2009 11:59 AM GMT
    Two of my best friends are ridiculously hot, and both are straight (though I think one is confused...but that's another thread). They're both very comfortable with their bodies, and with themselves, and I just enjoy the eye candy, and their company as friends. Not much else you can do... Unless you want to end the friendship. And I'd rather be maddeningly horny, and in lust/love over them, than lose the friendship....
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    Apr 15, 2009 1:32 PM GMT
    If you try something be prepared for intense awkwardness and the end of the friendship, although if he's your best friend sexing him up shouldn't be the reason you're hanging with him anyways.
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    Apr 15, 2009 2:41 PM GMT
    My best friend in college was hot, and over the years a few guys I've worked with too... Don't mix fantasy with reality - and remember to lube your palm so you don't wear mini-you out. icon_wink.gif
  • calibro

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    Apr 15, 2009 2:47 PM GMT
    I used to have the same problem with my fraternity brothers. Funny thing is, the closer you get with a guy, the less appealing he becomes. I mean, once you live in a house of 80 college boys that only drink and walk around in their boxers... wait, was my point again?

    Actually, a situation like that seems quite appealing, but seriously, once you know a guy's burp from two doors away any sense of attraction is lost.
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    Apr 15, 2009 2:48 PM GMT



    Perhaps this will help. When you think of him, remember that for a straight guy, kissing or making love with you or any man is about as exciting as him rimming his grandfather.
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    Apr 15, 2009 5:39 PM GMT
    IMO:
    We have a little group of guys where I live that will get together for a cookout or dinner and maybe pool parties. It all happens at my friend's place because it's private and on 50 acres so we can swim nude or sunbathe nude if we want.
    We're all encouraged to bring our straight friends if they want to attend.
    Several straight gals and more than a few lesbians have been there from time to time. My Dr. brought his straight friend who seemed a bit uncomfortable with the guys naked in the hottub and pool, but everyone was discrete and put on towels whenever they go out.{We don't go nude when mixed company is there} Everybody left Levi alone, sexually, and he has come back to several events and loves our company.
    Yes, he IS straight. I've met his fiance. He has told me that he was up for just being friendly with gays at first, but now he considers us some of his best friends, gay or straight. His fiance has even come up and had a great time.
    Long story short: Admire from afar. Keep your hands to yourself unless you get a clear, definite signal that more is wanted! Or you may risk losing that friendship or worse!
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    Apr 15, 2009 5:57 PM GMT
    Seb26 saidpics or it didn't happen


    bahaha! you beat me to it!!! i wanted to say it sooo bad!! arrrr! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 15, 2009 6:05 PM GMT
    You must not be that good of friends if you can look at him and think sexy thoughts...

    The thought of having sex with my friends, straight or gay, is, frankly, gross. It doesn't matter how attractive they are; they're like brothers. There is no circumstance I could ever be sexually attracted to them, even if I wanted to be.
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    Apr 15, 2009 6:13 PM GMT
    rezdylan saidYou must not be that good of friends if you can look at him and think sexy thoughts...



    True, to a certain extent!


    However, did you JUST figure this out about your supposed BFF?!?!?!?!? I mean, you MUST have realized this a long time ago???

    I don't know, but this thread is annoying!
  • TadPohl

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    Apr 15, 2009 6:14 PM GMT
    You must ask yourself if this "crush" comes from a place of love or lust. If it's LUST you can go ahead and make a fool of yourself because he doesn't really matter that much. Rub one out, try to seduce him...whatever...it's inconsequential because he's just an object that you're physically attracted to, BUT if it's coming from a place of LOVE you must ask yourself if you love him enough that you want his happiness above your own....whether it's with you or not. If he likes women or other types of guys.....could you stand in the way of what he wants for himself? Do you want to "own" him for a moment in time or do you want to be in his life indefinitely as a friend? Is his love for you as a "friend" enough or do you have to have him in your life as a boyfriend or a lover?
    Either or...if he's straight it's near impossible to change him and not worth it. I used to be one of those guys who turn straight friends gay momentarily....and though those stories are great to get your rocks off, they're heartbreakers because they never last and they ALWAYS end poorly. You must realize that you deserve more than a quick romp. You deserve someone who loves you as much as you him, has an equal crush on you as you do him. That works.
    I dunno....my only motto is to live your life with no regrets as long as you don't hurt anyone in the process. If you can do that...then you're golden. Good luck!
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    Apr 16, 2009 3:24 PM GMT
    Man up , get over it and realize that just because he gets your jets going it doesn't mean you have to act on it.......you CAN get over the wet dream syndrome if you allow yourself to see him as a PERSON rather than an object.... and I bet that person has good qualities of freindship that is worth much more than a quick rumble in the hay and the possible loss of your friendship.

    He's trusting you......It hurts to find out later, sometimes years, that your "friend" has been secretly hoping and wanting a sexual thing.