do you bottom guys get/stay hard while your top guy is inside you...

  • rnch

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    Apr 15, 2009 12:56 PM GMT
    "doin da wild thang" with you?

    i see bttms in porno movies with full hard on, even cuming while being sexed up by their top partners...

    doesn't happen for me! i usually go limp while he's inside me. icon_sad.gif

    only if i am on top of him, sliding back and forth on his wood, can i get an erection. icon_smile.gif

    tawkamongstyoselves.....icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 15, 2009 1:48 PM GMT
    i typically go limp while im getting fucked. not that im not enjoying myself. i just typically don't get hard until im about to cum. i do like the top to tug on my limp dick and squeeze my nuts, though.
  • MichVBPlayer2...

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    Apr 15, 2009 2:01 PM GMT
    rnch said

    i usually go limp while he's inside me. icon_sad.gif

    only if i am on top of him, sliding back and forth on his wood, can i get an erection. icon_smile.gif

    tawkamongstyoselves.....icon_lol.gif


    I completely agree. I have the exact same reaction you do. So trust me, you're not alone.
  • JayneCobb

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    Apr 15, 2009 2:42 PM GMT
    Whenever I bottom I'm hard as a rock. Once I've even came from bottoming, it was amazing. icon_redface.gificon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 15, 2009 4:29 PM GMT
    My buddy and I take turns as top/bottom. We both stay hard, when the other is inside.

    Guess we are just "lucky"icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 15, 2009 5:22 PM GMT
    I usually stay hard the entire time my boyfriend is topping me. It's always been that way for me. Of course, both he and I stroke me on and off while we're fucking. Depending on what you're into and how long you plan to fuck, I can only see a problem if it's preventing you from having an orgasm. icon_sad.gif
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    Apr 15, 2009 7:43 PM GMT
    Oh laws yes...

    I am never harder, in fact, than when I'm bottoming. And the only problem it causes is this: my tops always want to stroke me off, but I have to stop them because if they do, I'll blow. Immediately.
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    Apr 15, 2009 9:38 PM GMT
    Oh I'm so happy I walked into this thread icon_smile.gif They know why... icon_smile.gif

    anywho.. yeah I stay hard, even came a few times with the right guys and not help from either of us hehe now there is a mind blowing erm.. ejaculation icon_razz.gif
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    Apr 16, 2009 10:24 AM GMT
    Im versatile, but when i bottom i stay hard...actually Im hard all the time during sex
  • NickoftheNort...

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    Apr 16, 2009 5:01 PM GMT
    It could be the stress (I've had a similar problem). Get yourself a toy (a replicock of an acceptable size) and practice with it while masturbating. You can, with regular practice, get used to the split focus of enjoying both dicks simultaneously.
  • rnch

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    Apr 16, 2009 5:15 PM GMT
    charlitos saidIm versatile, but when i bottom i stay hard...actually Im hard all the time during sex
    hell boy, u r 22! u should get/stay hard just from the friction of your underwear, lolol

    just wait until u r in your 50's.... icon_sad.gif
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    Apr 17, 2009 6:41 AM GMT
    As a bottom, I get hard after my asshole stops hurting, hehe.
  • torontoguy222...

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    Apr 17, 2009 12:33 PM GMT
    I stay hard as a rock when I bottom icon_biggrin.gif. I'm sort of a horndog, and get aroused pretty easily. In a sexual environment there's no way I'll go limp lol.
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    Apr 19, 2009 11:26 AM GMT
    rnch said
    charlitos saidIm versatile, but when i bottom i stay hard...actually Im hard all the time during sex
    hell boy, u r 22! u should get/stay hard just from the friction of your underwear, lolol

    just wait until u r in your 50's.... icon_sad.gif


    is that a suggestion to have sex more often while I still can?
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    Apr 19, 2009 7:25 PM GMT
    Last night I bottomed for the first time in months and I stayed hard the whole time and even cum while he was still fucking me. Man was that intense. Best sex I can remember.icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 19, 2009 7:39 PM GMT
    I stay hard when bottomed, and can cum that way. Though I need one of us to be stroking me (I always finish with my own hand), I can't pop solely from his being inside me.
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    Apr 19, 2009 9:13 PM GMT
    Most of the time I go limp, especially if I spasm upon first entry. By the time the pain is gone so's my hard-on.icon_sad.gif
    But sometimes I stay hard the whole time and I'm in paradise. Being in the middle of a sandwich is the best.icon_biggrin.gif
    I can come while being fucked but need stroking.
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    Apr 19, 2009 11:00 PM GMT
    kscott6671 saidLast night I bottomed for the first time in months and I stayed hard the whole time and even cum while he was still fucking me. Man was that intense. Best sex I can remember.icon_biggrin.gif


    thats hot!
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    Apr 19, 2009 11:04 PM GMT
    I dont bottom very often but i remember one time being topped and I had an orgasm without anyone touching my penis....... it was hot...
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    May 05, 2009 5:28 PM GMT
    depends on how its done.
    learned this trick from a guy overseas.
    start with external and shallow internal rimming and massage, staying at fairly light pressure for awhile.
    move deeper to prostate massage with a light touch.
    add light cock stroking while barely increasing pressure on the prostate.
    then add gradually more vigorous thrusting, stretching and more rimming, but stay light on the prostate.
    don't penetrate until he's hard, and start that out gentle as well and build that up as he heats up.

    supposedly this causes nerves and blood vessels to do some of the work necessary to stay hard and cum before hitting them hard too soon for that magic to happen. it also does something to stimulate the gland beside the prostate that generates semen. once that gland puts a round in the chamber, the rest of the rifle is switched on to fire.

    if i'm relaxed enough i can fire off a round with almost no cock stimulation both solo and when pegging with a chick.

    geez! now i gotta get the kleenex box - fast!
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    May 05, 2009 5:42 PM GMT
    versatile here and stay hard both topping and bottoming
    sometimes I cum while getting fucked without any hands
  • rnch

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    May 05, 2009 5:44 PM GMT
    charlitos said
    rnch said
    charlitos saidIm versatile, but when i bottom i stay hard...actually Im hard all the time during sex
    hell boy, u r 22! u should get/stay hard just from the friction of your underwear, lolol

    just wait until u r in your 50's.... icon_sad.gif


    is that a suggestion to have sex more often while I still can?
    like u need any suggestions to do that? icon_lol.gif
  • Raymond1973

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    May 05, 2009 6:24 PM GMT
    I'm usually hard when I'm being topped. One time this guy was fucking me so good in his car that I came all over the place while he was in me and no one was touching my cock. It came all by itself! I will never forget it.icon_lol.gif
  • ajw18

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    May 06, 2009 1:47 AM GMT
    I need some physical encouragement in order to remain hard while bottoming. I am new at it, and I guess the guy I was with failed to find the prostate. I guess I should...uh...keep exploring??
  • rnch

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    May 06, 2009 12:44 PM GMT
    UPDATE: after some strong margarittas @ my local watering hole's cinco de mayo celebration, my bf and i were goin' at it, hot, heavy and sweaty. (at my house, not on the bar, lolol)

    i tilted my ass up slightly and started getting...sensations...that i had never felt before! icon_surprised.gif

    just as i realized what was goin' on down there, my bf jizzed. icon_sad.gif

    looking forward to our next time together for more ...exploration. icon_cool.gif