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"doin da wild thang" with you?

i see bttms in porno movies with full hard on, even cuming while being sexed up by their top partners...

doesn't happen for me! i usually go limp while he's inside me.

only if i am on top of him, sliding back and forth on his wood, can i get an erection.

tawkamongstyoselves.....

i typically go limp while im getting fucked. not that im not enjoying myself. i just typically don't get hard until im about to cum. i do like the top to tug on my limp dick and squeeze my nuts, though.

rnch said

i usually go limp while he's inside me.

only if i am on top of him, sliding back and forth on his wood, can i get an erection.

tawkamongstyoselves.....

I completely agree. I have the exact same reaction you do. So trust me, you're not alone.

Whenever I bottom I'm hard as a rock. Once I've even came from bottoming, it was amazing.

My buddy and I take turns as top/bottom. We both stay hard, when the other is inside.

Guess we are just "lucky"

I usually stay hard the entire time my boyfriend is topping me. It's always been that way for me. Of course, both he and I stroke me on and off while we're fucking. Depending on what you're into and how long you plan to fuck, I can only see a problem if it's preventing you from having an orgasm.

Oh laws yes...

I am never harder, in fact, than when I'm bottoming. And the only problem it causes is this: my tops always want to stroke me off, but I have to stop them because if they do, I'll blow. Immediately.

Oh I'm so happy I walked into this thread They know why...

anywho.. yeah I stay hard, even came a few times with the right guys and not help from either of us hehe now there is a mind blowing erm.. ejaculation

Im versatile, but when i bottom i stay hard...actually Im hard all the time during sex

It could be the stress (I've had a similar problem). Get yourself a toy (a replicock of an acceptable size) and practice with it while masturbating. You can, with regular practice, get used to the split focus of enjoying both dicks simultaneously.

charlitos saidIm versatile, but when i bottom i stay hard...actually Im hard all the time during sex

hell boy, u r 22! u should get/stay hard just from the friction of your underwear, lolol

just wait until u r in your 50's....

As a bottom, I get hard after my asshole stops hurting, hehe.

I stay hard as a rock when I bottom . I'm sort of a horndog, and get aroused pretty easily. In a sexual environment there's no way I'll go limp lol.

rnch said

charlitos saidIm versatile, but when i bottom i stay hard...actually Im hard all the time during sex

hell boy, u r 22! u should get/stay hard just from the friction of your underwear, lolol

just wait until u r in your 50's....

is that a suggestion to have sex more often while I still can?

Last night I bottomed for the first time in months and I stayed hard the whole time and even cum while he was still fucking me. Man was that intense. Best sex I can remember.

I stay hard when bottomed, and can cum that way. Though I need one of us to be stroking me (I always finish with my own hand), I can't pop solely from his being inside me.

Most of the time I go limp, especially if I spasm upon first entry. By the time the pain is gone so's my hard-on.
But sometimes I stay hard the whole time and I'm in paradise. Being in the middle of a sandwich is the best.
I can come while being fucked but need stroking.

kscott6671 saidLast night I bottomed for the first time in months and I stayed hard the whole time and even cum while he was still fucking me. Man was that intense. Best sex I can remember.

thats hot!

I dont bottom very often but i remember one time being topped and I had an orgasm without anyone touching my penis....... it was hot...

depends on how its done.
learned this trick from a guy overseas.
start with external and shallow internal rimming and massage, staying at fairly light pressure for awhile.
move deeper to prostate massage with a light touch.
add light cock stroking while barely increasing pressure on the prostate.
then add gradually more vigorous thrusting, stretching and more rimming, but stay light on the prostate.
don't penetrate until he's hard, and start that out gentle as well and build that up as he heats up.

supposedly this causes nerves and blood vessels to do some of the work necessary to stay hard and cum before hitting them hard too soon for that magic to happen. it also does something to stimulate the gland beside the prostate that generates semen. once that gland puts a round in the chamber, the rest of the rifle is switched on to fire.

if i'm relaxed enough i can fire off a round with almost no cock stimulation both solo and when pegging with a chick.

geez! now i gotta get the kleenex box - fast!

versatile here and stay hard both topping and bottoming
sometimes I cum while getting fucked without any hands

charlitos said

rnch said

charlitos saidIm versatile, but when i bottom i stay hard...actually Im hard all the time during sex

hell boy, u r 22! u should get/stay hard just from the friction of your underwear, lolol

just wait until u r in your 50's....

is that a suggestion to have sex more often while I still can?

like u need any suggestions to do that?

I'm usually hard when I'm being topped. One time this guy was fucking me so good in his car that I came all over the place while he was in me and no one was touching my cock. It came all by itself! I will never forget it.

I need some physical encouragement in order to remain hard while bottoming. I am new at it, and I guess the guy I was with failed to find the prostate. I guess I should...uh...keep exploring??

UPDATE: after some strong margarittas @ my local watering hole's cinco de mayo celebration, my bf and i were goin' at it, hot, heavy and sweaty. (at my house, not on the bar, lolol)

i tilted my ass up slightly and started getting...sensations...that i had never felt before!

just as i realized what was goin' on down there, my bf jizzed.

looking forward to our next time together for more ...exploration.

kscott6671 saidLast night I bottomed for the first time in months and I stayed hard the whole time and even cum while he was still fucking me. Man was that intense. Best sex I can remember.

When are you gonna top me and bottom for me???

I *always* stay hard when I'm getting fucked, and -- with some guys -- I cum most of the time without touching myself.

Love it!!

Depends, I'm usually hard from start to finish. But once in awhile I find a top that can go for about a good hour. I'm impressed with tops that can stay hard and not cum for a good long time. But since I'm getting a lot of vigorous work done on my bum I may lose my erection but that doesn't mean I'm not having fun.

Generally, when I bottom I'm hard, though initial penetration will usually make me go soft. Once he gets going though, if he's doing it right for me, I get rock hard and stay that way and can even cum without touching my cock if he lasts long enough.

Generally, I'm stimulated by wetness, slipperiness, or warmth ... so I can see where proximity to any of those would be enough to ' set a person off. '

as with anything, a guy's command of ' the subject matter ' is enough to keep me interested.

hard as a rock...stay hard after i cum...then i fuck him...if he will let me LOL

guess i never thought about it much. think maybe the first time i got fucked i initially lost my erection at the beginning. though once i got into it i was rock hard again. can't imagine not staying hard. feel of a guys cock working over my prostate like that. instant boner. even came that way once hands-free.

If you want a hands free repeat, I´m more than willing to help you achieve your goal.

Egyptians Never Lose it, tops or bottoms!!

hard before, hard during, hard after I cum.
I don't get soft for 10mins usually. Keeps me versital.!

rnch said

charlitos saidIm versatile, but when i bottom i stay hard...actually Im hard all the time during sex

hell boy, u r 22! u should get/stay hard just from the friction of your underwear, lolol

just wait until u r in your 50's....

I'm 50 and I would be hard bottoming for Charlitos.

I only bottom, and, yeah, pretty much stay hard the whole time. Esp when riding penis

Depend. I like to masturbate while bottoming. I usually ask my top to let me go first. But most guy cant , hold long enough and leave me to finish by other mean, like kissing me or sucking my nipple. I have one Chinese guy top me so good, and I cum while he is in me. That are the most earth shattering pleasure I have ever feel . He come over another time and I get fuck again and I cum again. However, he have a boyfriend and can only come over when he is outside the country.

TheIStrat saidI only bottom, and, yeah, pretty much stay hard the whole time. Esp when riding penis

yes, with him on his back and me riding him and facing him i can sometimes get hard and jizz on his chest (or in his mouth, if he requests)..but any other position not much happens for me.

now that i am recovering from meniscus knee surgery THAT postition isn't happening for some time...

I never knew that guys werent getting hard while being banged. Isnt it suppose to be feel good and get you all hot and bothered.

Lostboy saidIf you want a hands free repeat, I´m more than willing to help you achieve your goal.

Hey, those overzealous offers to help so many RJ members reach sexual rapturousness are typically made by very desperate old and foul looking men.


What's your story? Why are you being anomalous? Or are you just horny? Or as we say in the hood....HAWNEEEE!

Rujock saidI never knew that guys werent getting hard while being banged. Isnt it suppose to be feel good and get you all hot and bothered.

Same here... I didn't know that guys didn't stay hard while being banged either.... I've been a complete bottom (but I'm also top-curious), and everytime I've managed to stay hard the entire time... I don't think it would be possible for me to even go limp with a guy inside me... unless he was like horrible or something!

Maybe you guys have just had LOUSEY tops???

It's half for me. If you use your brain while you do bottom, you lose the erection I found out. It's mind over matter for most. Some it's the physique, sex appeal, and the moment. It really depends.

That's why I find most Bel Ami and most other Eastern Euro porn uninteresting despite how pretty some of the guys may be. The bottoms usually go all floppy the moment they're penetrated.

yea,,, I don't get this either,, I am hard from beginning to end.. no matter if I am topping as usual or bottoming... love to cum when being plowed,,, or have someone play with my meat as he's in me. Twin jets is my favorite.

Yea, I stay hard from the moment I got to take off my undies until I cum. My issue is that once I blow my load, he needs to get out. I really wish I could stand it for my husband to keep going but it is too overwhelming and uncomfortable.


I could use some advice in that area.

I stay hard while my man is in me. In fact I have to fight from blowing my load. I never stayed hard with any other man though. He is just that good and we can't get enough of eachother.

The chemistry with the top and the quality of the 4-play matter, as does the tops attention to your other erogenous zones when he's going at it. I respond really well to stimulation of multiple zones on my body at once, but get relaxed and under-stimulated when it's just one thing. How long has it been since my last ejaculation can matter as well. How little sleep or how much alcohol can make a difference too. I also like to have some verbal action going as well - silence isn't golden.

I think if you're limp, you haven't got the right set-up or execution - be it the wrong guy, someones just not good in bed, too tired, too drunk, too nervous.

mattyrec said

kscott6671 saidLast night I bottomed for the first time in months and I stayed hard the whole time and even cum while he was still fucking me. Man was that intense. Best sex I can remember.

When are you gonna top me and bottom for me???

Would someone please help mattyrec and kscott6671 get together and have them go at it like rabbits..... oh and please video it for xtube. Mercy!!

TheGuyNextDoor saidyea,,, I don't get this either,, I am hard from beginning to end.. no matter if I am topping as usual or bottoming... love to cum when being plowed,,, or have someone play with my meat as he's in me. Twin jets is my favorite.

Oh my... tell us more....about the twin jets...

I don't know I've never did it

TheGuyNextDoor said

Bear321 said

TheGuyNextDoor saidyea,,, I don't get this either,, I am hard from beginning to end.. no matter if I am topping as usual or bottoming... love to cum when being plowed,,, or have someone play with my meat as he's in me. Twin jets is my favorite.

Oh my... tell us more....about the twin jets...

Well,, it goes a little something like this,,, baby,,, I'm gonna Cum,, Oh man, I'm cumming and BOOM,,, I'll shoot a load in an instant and hit my own open mouth almost everytime.. Hope that gives you A sweet little visual..

OR,,, I also love to take the guys cock and mine in one or 2 hands and jack us both off,,, when he shoots or I see, hear or sense he's about ready to cum I usually can shoot with him at the same time and that so damn hot seeing both cocks make a fountain of cum all over the place...

I don't believe I've read a post that could be more raw then this one.

I'll agree with some and say its a mix of both. Sometimes when the dick is big or long enough, it'll stimulate my cock to stay hard. Other times its a mental thing. I'd have to stay focused on what's going on to stay hard cause if my mind wanders to something else it would stay hard.

GuerrillaSodomite saidThat's why I find most Bel Ami and most other Eastern Euro porn uninteresting despite how pretty some of the guys may be. The bottoms usually go all floppy the moment they're penetrated.

Kristen Bjorn is where it's at if you want non-stop hardons and hands free cumming!!!

hmm for me i am usually hard as soon as i feel resistance in my ass. i guess i also practice on my own too. sometimes tho if i notice that my dick has become a little limp i just touch it for a second and that usually makes me regain the feeling of the cock inside me. but i have to be careful because if i touch to much its hard to maintain the control of me cumming lol.

My god, it been so long since I had sex with a man I cant remember.

does a top with longer and/or thicker than average penises make a bottom become erect more than an average/smaller than average penis will?

My experience has been that bottoms appreciate it more if you find their prostate before getting your fucking them. Yes- this means going manual, but it also gives the top a chance to gauge the tightness etc of the bottom. 300 Spartans agree!

I agree with OHhiker's comments. I love the feel of a cock in my ass, even though often have trouble finding that G-spot and I lose the hard-on. My prostate usually gets more action when I'm cowboying. Otherwise, it helps when the top stimulates me in other ways... nipple work, spanking, whatever.

Of course, some tops respond better to gentle "correction" and "tips" than others.

charlitos saidIm versatile, but when i bottom i stay hard...actually Im hard all the time during sex

Ditto, and I've never topped a guy who wasn't hard - I thought that was just in pornos when it's gay-for-pay guys that aren't into it!