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Won't this causes more cheating in our relationship?

If your OWN bio says you're looking for 'hookups' or 'online chat', your relationship is already in trouble.

Well?...did you talk to him about it?

Have you ever heard the expression: The Pot calling the Kettle BLACK. Get with the program.

His profile also says he is hiv and 'sometimes' practices safe sex....I think there are many programs he needs to get with!

I think it does. I had a "boyfriend" once and when I came over to his place so we could leave to go out he was on the m4m website and he showed it to me. I was PISSED, my feelings were hurt because once I'm in a relationship no other man matters to me. When we first started dating I couldn't even watch porn to get my mind off of him, I was so crazy over him. LOL, oh well, ya live and ya learn.

There comes a point in a relationship when you both take down your profiles from sites. It's a big step.

Personally I don't have a problem with anyone I'm with surfing the net for eye candy because it's just harmless fun and I trust them not to take it any further, but I'd have major problems if they were surfing m4m ads on craigslist or something where there the only purpose is to hook up.

wc2boy saidThere comes a point in a relationship when you both take down your profiles from sites. It's a big step.

good answer

wc2boy saidThere comes a point in a relationship when you both take down your profiles from sites. It's a big step.

Personally I don't have a problem with anyone I'm with surfing the net for eye candy because it's just harmless fun and I trust them not to take it any further, but I'd have major problems if they were surfing m4m ads on craigslist or something where there the only purpose is to hook up.

I don't believe in secrets. I told my partner I come on this site. It's just the right thing to do. Would you all agree?

I've always had a thing for going online and exchanging pics. My bf always knew this and claimed to not have a problem with it when we became serious. One day he voiced his concerns about it so I stopped completely. Its was all harmless and innocent really, but it was important that he spoke up and let me know that he didn't like it.

So if you aren't speaking up, maybe you should start. And don't leave it open ended. Dont' say its up to him but you rather he didn't. Just be blunt and honest and say you don't like it and you don't want him surfing ads.

I would talk to him about it. I look on Craigslist, but only because I find it amusing. It makes for good water cooler talk.

chicagorealjoock, you're on here looking for hookups, he's on M4M likely doing the same thing.

So, where's the problem....?