Oral Sex

  • Little_Spoon

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    Apr 19, 2009 3:12 PM GMT
    I want to be able to service my partner well, when I meet someone.

    Anything I should know?
    How do you like it done?
    Thoughts about rimming?
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    Apr 19, 2009 3:15 PM GMT
    It helps to practice on yourself, or with a friend.
  • rnch

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    Apr 19, 2009 5:42 PM GMT
    Chaaxwvn saidIt helps to practice on yourself...
    IF i could....i would! icon_lol.gif
  • silverfox

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    Apr 19, 2009 6:00 PM GMT
    Chaaxwvn saidIt helps to practice on yourself, or with a friend.



    ROFL!

    (trying it now)

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    Apr 19, 2009 6:02 PM GMT
    DanielH saidI want to be able to service my partner well, when I meet someone.

    Anything I should know?
    How do you like it done?
    Thoughts about rimming?

    In my view, a good BJ is all about holding your jaws wide APART, while using high suction and tongue pressure to apply a gripping pressure to the penis. This minimizes scraping from your teeth, while keeping the tight squeezing needed to stimulate his cock.

    You can move your head up & down in the classic manner, but pulsating sucking action also can feel great to him, while your tongue strongly massages him. You can actually keep your head almost motionless, his dick deep in your mouth the whole time, while still giving him s wonderful stroking sensation through tongue & suction actions alone.

    That also helps keep your teeth from hurting him. Learn to suck so hard your ears almost pop. It's also a good technique if he's still soft, and you're getting him hard. Your tongue can work his soft dick all around your mouth, feeling it grow hard until it fills you. It's one of my favorite things, though some guys will already have a throbbing boner from the moment you start to undress.

    Oral foreplay can include the ordinary tongue licking up and down the shaft, and around the head with the foreskin retracted (if uncut), plus kissing and head-bobbing with nothing more than gentle lip pressure. The most sensitive spots for most men for good tongue work are the flared edge all around the head (corona), and the underside where the cleft head meets the shaft. (Its Valentine's-heart-like shape is the inspiration for this lover's symbol, which is always artistically portrayed from an inverted view)

    This spot is where the frenulum is located in men with a foreskin (a skin bridge like the underside of the tongue has), and even cut men tend to remain sensitive there. Gently caressing his balls with your free fingertips in feathery touches, while strongly sucking him, is often the final trigger that will send him over the top.

    This will also allow you to sense his balls start to tighten & draw up, a tell-tale prelude to ejaculation in many men (but not all), in case you want him to cum outside your mouth, finishing him with your stroking fist. Also tell him beforehand if you don't want him to pop in your mouth, but that's difficult for some men to anticipate exactly, who will squirt a little before they really feel their main release.

    And of course, never hesitate to ask a man what he wants, and invite him to make his wishes known throughout. BTW, if you have him wear a condom, either use the plain unlubricated kind, or wipe it down with a damp washcloth once it's on him, to avoid unpleasant tastes that may cause gagging. There are also flavored condoms available.

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  • jlly_rnchr

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    Apr 19, 2009 10:08 PM GMT
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    Apr 19, 2009 10:20 PM GMT
    Very funny, loved that idiot's referring to Romulus and "Greek mythology" -- it's Roman. And those women inadvertently demonstrated why most women give poor blowjobs. They slide their mouths back and forth like licking a popsicle. You gotta SUCK it girls, SUCK it! Like you're trying to turn the guy inside-out! LOL!!

    Actually, HBO's Real Sex TV series once had a good segment about how to suck and stroke a dick. This woman would give these "house parties" to other women, in little groups just like in that video. Except she did know what she was doing, and brought assorted dildos, not vegetables. ("Pick one closest to your man's size, ladies." Of course none of the women wanted to pick the smaller ones in front of the others.)
  • jgymnast733

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    Apr 20, 2009 12:03 AM GMT
    MMMmmmmm
    Suck it soft and long
    Lick it, hit your face with it
    Kiss it, moan while you suck it.
    Let your partner know how much you love sucking him,,and
    ask him how he wants it..
    Keep it moist... and just play with it...
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    Apr 20, 2009 1:27 AM GMT
    i suddenly feel a tad nauseated. and here i thought i had no gag reflex left...
  • Tyinstl

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    Apr 20, 2009 7:43 AM GMT
    I disagree with Red Vespa. Suction hurts when guys do it on me...the whole idea of a blowjob in my opinion is to move your lips up and down on the shaft without catching him with your teeth.

    Apply pressure with your lips both on the way up and on the way down too. Go slow and make super sure that your teeth are behind your lips, grandma style, at all times.

    The difference between a good BJ and a fucking awesome BJ, though? The ability to make them cum--that is, to use your hand properly.

    After you've been going for a while, make the "okay" sign with your index finger and thumb and follow your lips with it. He'll like that. After a while, start using your whole hand, making twisting motions once you reach the head if you want. Pay special attention to the head here--that's the part that's stimulated the most, I think.

    Anyway, that's what I learned in my adventures in mansluttery.
  • silverfox

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    Apr 20, 2009 9:59 AM GMT
    Jeez I have wood just reading these suggestions.

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  • GQjock

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    Apr 20, 2009 12:32 PM GMT
    Haha .... that's like trying to tell someone how to ride a bike
    or surf a wave

    CawaBunga Dude ! icon_biggrin.gif

    Just go with the flow .... Make believe it's a big bad Tootsiepop
    and you're trying to get the the rich creamy center icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 20, 2009 6:34 PM GMT
    Tyinstl saidI disagree with Red Vespa. Suction hurts when guys do it on me...the whole idea of a blowjob in my opinion is to move your lips up and down on the shaft without catching him with your teeth.

    Apply pressure with your lips both on the way up and on the way down too. Go slow and make super sure that your teeth are behind your lips, grandma style, at all times.

    The difference between a good BJ and a fucking awesome BJ, though? The ability to make them cum--that is, to use your hand properly.

    After you've been going for a while, make the "okay" sign with your index finger and thumb and follow your lips with it. He'll like that. After a while, start using your whole hand, making twisting motions once you reach the head if you want. Pay special attention to the head here--that's the part that's stimulated the most, I think.

    Anyway, that's what I learned in my adventures in mansluttery.

    Of course suction hurts on you, if they aren't using their jaw muscles to keep their mouths OPEN, as I said above, to resist the suction that's trying to close their jaws. If they do that, their teeth won't bite you.

    And I can make men cum in my mouth without ever using my hands at all, entirely with my mouth. My fingers are for their balls. And I hardly move my head at all, it's entirely tongue and strong suction, and I never bite. Most men tell me it's the most intense BJ they've ever had in their lives.

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    Apr 20, 2009 8:38 PM GMT
    Red_Vespa said
    Tyinstl saidI disagree with Red Vespa. Suction hurts when guys do it on me...the whole idea of a blowjob in my opinion is to move your lips up and down on the shaft without catching him with your teeth.

    Apply pressure with your lips both on the way up and on the way down too. Go slow and make super sure that your teeth are behind your lips, grandma style, at all times.

    The difference between a good BJ and a fucking awesome BJ, though? The ability to make them cum--that is, to use your hand properly.

    After you've been going for a while, make the "okay" sign with your index finger and thumb and follow your lips with it. He'll like that. After a while, start using your whole hand, making twisting motions once you reach the head if you want. Pay special attention to the head here--that's the part that's stimulated the most, I think.

    Anyway, that's what I learned in my adventures in mansluttery.

    Of course suction hurts on you, if they aren't using their jaw muscles to keep their mouths OPEN, as I said above, to resist the suction that's trying to close their jaws. If they do that, their teeth won't bite you.

    And I can make men cum in my mouth without ever using my hands at all, entirely with my mouth. My fingers are for their balls. And I hardly move my head at all, it's entirely tongue and strong suction, and I never bite. Most men tell me it's the most intense BJ they've ever had in their lives.



    But how do you not get lockjaw if you keep that up for over 15 minutes? Surely you need to move a bit?
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    Apr 20, 2009 9:43 PM GMT
    Ghen saidBut how do you not get lockjaw if you keep that up for over 15 minutes? Surely you need to move a bit?

    I admit it takes some practice, and you are absolutely correct: I can get muscle cramps if continued for too long. So I take quick little breaks, going back to more conventional oral techniques until the cramping eases, but not long enough that my man loses the build-up I'm creating for him. Over time you'll be able to continue the method I describe for 5 to 10 minutes solid, which is all many men can withstand before cumming anyway.

    I consider the practice of oral sex to be an art form, that I take very seriously. It helps, of course, that I simply love cocks, with balls a close second. My lovers always all tell me the same thing after I bring them off in a shattering orgasm: that I get the most naughty "cat that ate the canary" grin on my face, cause I know how really good I just was. I am VERY proud of my work. icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 21, 2009 1:58 AM GMT
    Keep your the teeth out of the way. About every third thrust hold his cock in the back of your throat and make a motion like gargling.