If someone wanted to get to know you better, fess up to 3 things you should tell him about yourself BEFORE he takes the plunge.

  • silverfox

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    Apr 19, 2009 5:00 PM GMT
    Well we can probably all say I spend way too much time on RJ....icon_biggrin.gif

    Can be deep, can be trivial. Should be things that are not obvious from your picture of your profile.....

    Here are my 3:

    1. Don't talk to me before I have my coffee in the morning.
    2. I am a big time procrastinator.
    3. I cannot keep peanut butter in my house because I will eat the whole jar whatever size it is in one sitting.


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  • HndsmKansan

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    Apr 19, 2009 5:06 PM GMT
    Well Michael.. if you eat peanut butter like that .. .I just can't be your friend!!!!! LOL

    btw, outstanding pic you have posted...


    I would say the following:

    1. I can be very anal about specific things, like my lawn, my fitness routine and even my teeth. Very structured

    2. Enjoy time being very social and enjoy time to my self

    3. I ask alot of questions (law school does that to you)...

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    Apr 19, 2009 6:07 PM GMT
    1) When I'm stressed or something's bothering me, I really just need to be left alone to deal.
    2) I need a certain level of clutter and mess where I live
    3) Big family holidays are not my thing. Don't expect me to want to tag along to what ever hell your family goes through on those days.
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    Apr 19, 2009 6:20 PM GMT
    1) I hate the thought of being "attached at the hip" , I enjoy "me" time as much as I enjoy time spent together.

    2) While I appreciate the offer to help, Please stay OUT of my kitchen when I'm cooking.

    3) I do not believe in Marriage.*

    *that is not any kind of dig at anyone that looks forward to being married some day, I'd be the first to bake you a cake.. it's just not for me
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    Apr 19, 2009 6:33 PM GMT
    1. If I focus on something, I tend to ignore everything around me. I need to be violently shaken to snap out of it icon_smile.gif

    2. I'm like an encyclopedia, full of knowledge - but how do I apply it? icon_rolleyes.gif

    3. I'm an Aries. That says enough by itself icon_cool.gif

    If you guess that I torment myself, hmmm... it wouldn't be a stretch... heh icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 19, 2009 6:56 PM GMT
    (1) When I am tired, you need to let me sleep.
    (2) I don´t like noise, fuss and hysterics. Crap happens, but we don´t need to hyperventilate about it, OK? Really. Go and perform elsewhere. icon_rolleyes.gif
    (3) You can cook for me if you like, but the way you help me in the kitchen is by doing the yard work.
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    Apr 19, 2009 7:19 PM GMT
    I am not GAY
    I am picky as heck
    I can be moody
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    Apr 19, 2009 7:41 PM GMT
    Well - here goes:
    * I am fanatically organized and clean - I may as well admit it - and this was more than a couple of slobs from my past could take. Any new guy in my life should be anal about these areas as well or we'll have a train wreck!

    * I sometimes work lots and lots of hours tracking investments (v.c. and r.e.) - and then when I can - I'm apt to take weeks or a month off and travel. Any new guy in my life should have a passport!

    * I can't (and won't) stay around if a guy gets fat or starts smoking/drugging. He doesn't have to look like me - but he should try to maintain a HWP body.

    All of these may sound harsh or controlling - but at least I'm honest - (and very nice about it!)icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 19, 2009 7:53 PM GMT
    do we have to kiss the dog too?
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    Apr 19, 2009 7:55 PM GMT
    Being an open book. I don't worry about such things.

    1. I'm in a gay marriage. I have more than one husband.
    Thats all I cam muster.
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    Apr 19, 2009 7:56 PM GMT
    1. I'm very honest and open. If you don't want to know....don't ask.

    2. I don't do "drama" of any kind. I'll either walk away or ask you to leave.

    3. I have a few fetishes and very physical. So, if you're my man, expect body massages, foot massages, and "accidentally" bumping into you. ** and kisses.
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    Apr 19, 2009 7:59 PM GMT
    May partner will tell you these things as well (and a few more, I'm sure):

    1. I'm messy.
    2. I can be annoyingly optimistic. (But I think that has its benefits.)
    3. I drink from the milk jug. (Unless there's company)
  • handsoffire

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    Apr 19, 2009 8:14 PM GMT
    Hmmm

    1 I love the outdoors. IF you don't this prolly won' be more than friends.

    2 I'm, intensely focused on what ever I am doing. This does not mean I am not paying attention to you as well.

    3 If you want something from me and you're not getting it, ask me for it. I say yes more than I say no ;)


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    Apr 19, 2009 8:27 PM GMT
    1. I am impatient. When you say let's do something (even at a future time) you better be ready to do it right then (or right at the time you said you would do it). I'm horrible at waiting.

    2. You won't like me when I'm hungry. icon_evil.gif

    3. Bear with me when I try something new. I may say "I'm done, I quit," but I never actually stop until I'm sucessful at whatever I'm trying to do. (Not talking about relationships here).
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    Apr 19, 2009 8:32 PM GMT
    1. If you say you are going to do something, do it. If you don't I will call you on it.

    2. I am the marrying kind. If it isn't something you won't consider, move along.

    3. I absolutely do not tolerate lying and cheating. There is no excuse for either. If you feel you can't tell me the truth about something, then we shouldn't consider going any further. And if you have to go somewhere else for what is readily available at home, then have the decency to tell me BEFORE you do it and quite possibly we can part with my respect and friendship for you still in place.
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    Apr 19, 2009 8:40 PM GMT
    1) I am an illegitimate child of Sarah Palin (Bob Dole is my bio-daddy).
    2) I am very, very organized, so messiness is a big turn off.
    3) Mayonnaise scares me. Little white man-eating blobs captured in jars...run!!!
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    Apr 19, 2009 8:44 PM GMT
    1. i like my diet, so don't try to change what i eat, i tend to look at serving size and what all is in food, i'm afraid to eat something that has more than 5grams of fat(health nut with past bad experiences)
    2. i can be moody and at times i need to be left alone or else i will lash out (of course theres ways around it)
    3. i'm into serious relationships and want a looonnnnggggg lasting relationship, love family and love kids (strange for my age but still)


    there should be more than one because i hate being bossed around, ask me nicely and or somehow persuade me to doing something and i will, i hardly ever say no
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    Apr 19, 2009 8:56 PM GMT
    1. Im an open book
    2. look answer above
    3. look answer above the answer above
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    Apr 19, 2009 9:05 PM GMT
    These days, I tend to disclose a little at a time, so I'm not sure how much I'd share if a guy said to me, "Hey! I'd like to get to know you better." That phrase has many meanings, including "I just want you comfortable enough to take off your clothes and have sex with me--just this one time."

    This is a fun game, though. Here are my 3 things:

    1. I enjoy getting to know people, but please know this: I don't want a boyfriend. Being sweet won't make me change my mind icon_lol.gif.

    2. I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs. I can tolerate drinking if it is done in moderation (though what most people consider moderate seems over the top to me). Smoking and doing drugs--of any kind--are a NO NO. I refuse to be around that stuff.

    3. If you are an atheist, we can only be friends. Furthermore, I will respect your beliefs and expect you to respect my Christian beliefs. Simply put, bashing religion won't fly with me.

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    Apr 19, 2009 9:11 PM GMT
    I NEVER sleep in. Even if I get in late, I am always up early and ready to go and that can be especially annoying to people I have lived with.

    Extreme heat makes me irritable and please don't try to cuddle or I will fucking lose it.

    I can't stand towels on the floor, unmade beds, Audrey Hepburn and Marilyn Monroe posters, dishes left out overnight, glade plug ins,true religion jeans, fake plants or those floor lamps that everyone and their mother has.
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    Apr 19, 2009 9:12 PM GMT
    muchmorethanmuscle said
    NCaliGuy said1. i like my diet, so don't try to change what i eat, i tend to look at serving size and what all is in food, i'm afraid to eat something that has more than 5grams of fat(health nut with past bad experiences)



    Goodness, I would advise you to eat just a tad more fat. Literally if you can tolerate the flavor try adding 3 TBSPN of olive oil to your daily regimen.

    Assuming you eat 4x a day, 20g of fat a day is not nearly enough.


    i get enough in all the things i eat.. i just don't like getting a quarter of the days amount in one little bit.. though i know peanut butter is good for you and its fat is natural i don't eat it. i eat eggs though and i do believe they have 5g of fat. i love fish. but we do cook with olive oil and thats where i get most of my natural good fats other than chicken and fish and eggs.
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    Apr 19, 2009 9:13 PM GMT
    1) I'm a smoker (working on making that "former" smoker)

    2) I tend to leave everything to the last minute, but I always pull through

    3) I'm lazy when it comes to cleaning up after myself
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    Apr 19, 2009 9:19 PM GMT
    MeOhMy said1) I'm a smoker (working on making that "former" smoker)

    2) I tend to leave everything to the last minute, but I always pull through

    3) I'm lazy when it comes to cleaning up after myself



    You forget: "I'm always right"

    LOL HAHA! I luvs ya lots meohmy!!!!!!
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    Apr 19, 2009 9:20 PM GMT
    If you make me late to/for something, I wig out

    I want sex everyday, and I mean everyday. I'm insatiable

    I will admit it, having some ridiculously bad things happen to me from 17-22 has made me into an incredible needy person at times, and I can be really hard on myself for no reason because of it. People need to just be patient with me, because you don't erase years of mistreatment in 18 months (it was about 18 months ago when it all miraculously ended).
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    Apr 19, 2009 9:22 PM GMT
    1. I can be demanding and randomly affectionate (yeah they both go together, if I want attention I want attention now)

    2. if I'm hungry and you haven't got food, don't try to cheer me up you'll like to chewed out for it. so either help me or get out of my way

    3. I work on trust, if I trust you, I trust you completely, you break it, your screwed.