peanut butter on the spoon is it a turn off

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    Apr 21, 2009 1:34 PM GMT
    I was with this guy and the sex was going pretty good . But when I pulled out to change position I started to smell something then I went soft i told him I was done but I could not say why should I of told him or what need to say i never went back to the bedroom what do you think I should of doneicon_question.gif Dear Abey........
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    Apr 21, 2009 1:54 PM GMT
    He was the bottom then... icon_neutral.gif yech indeed, but yeah.... you gotta live with the realities! LOL. You are ******* his *** y'know. icon_redface.gif
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    Apr 21, 2009 1:55 PM GMT
    cedrick saidI was with this guy and the sex was going pretty good . But when I pulled out to change position I started to smell something then I went soft i told him I was done but I could not say why should I of told him or what need to say i never went back to the bedroom what do you think I should of doneicon_question.gif Dear Abey........

    First, I hope the spoon had a condom on it. Not only safer, but otherwise the peanut butter experience could be even more gross. Second, you make it sound like it's not your first anal experience, so you must already know there's often at least a little odor, with some slight soiling possible.

    If you really wanna continue having sex with this guy, you're gonna hafta tell him at some point that he needs to cleanse better before sex. If this was a 1-night trick then it's a moot point, and you were correct to save him the embarrassment (assuming he would be) by keeping it to yourself, and just ending it.

    And when your dick goes soft, for whatever reason, it's trying to tell you something, usually that you fundamentally don't wanna be doing something, and/or to be with someone. The Peter Meter is fairly honest & reliable, and isn't easily persuaded by our compromises & rationalizations, so I usually follow its recommendation. You didn't like the experience, and shouldn't feel bad about that.
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    Apr 24, 2009 8:23 AM GMT
    Yes I always use a condom its a must. But if one day I do fine a true love then I just may pull it off but not on my first time or even a long time after I need to be shore. bye the way I never saw him again.icon_eek.gif
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    Apr 25, 2009 8:24 AM GMT
    wait what does this have to do with peanut butter, damn i was fucking hungry till i read this bullshit.
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    Apr 25, 2009 8:29 AM GMT
    it is called and arse dear.. it does happen occasionally.. if it happens constantly or it looks like your trying to fuck a mud hole then you got problems
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    Apr 25, 2009 8:33 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidit is called and arse dear.. it does happen occasionally.. if it happens constantly or it looks like your trying to fuck a mud hole then you got problems



    ew....


    if you eat clean you are clean lol, but fuck that food is too good. Shit on the mo fo damn it
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    Apr 25, 2009 10:55 AM GMT
    That's what I said its not as if i haven't been with anyone its that he was the first one that damn how can i put it shit well shitted you know and that was a turn off for me and i just could not see myself ever going back to him again do anyone feel me . do you all feel lets just pick up the pieces and go on. Keep on seeing the guy and acting as if it never happen.icon_twisted.gif