Masculine Bottom and Feminine Top?

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    Apr 23, 2009 4:57 AM GMT
    Last night I went on a date. It was going well. He seem really nice but a little pompous. On the date, we were playing the question game in which both of answer each other question honestly. We were having some fun until he ask me whether I am a top or a bottom. So I told him a was a bottom and he seem really suprise. He claimed that I seem to masculine to be a bottom. He didn't specify if acted too masculine or I look masculine. So I sarcastically told him that I should "gay it up" a little to make it more obvious. Of course, he told me that he was a bottom. Which wasn't a problem for me but the way he reacted to my answer bothered me. So we didn't discuss the subject any further.
    So my question is this: do you find yourself in the same predicament?
    Are there certain characteristics that defined a person a top or a bottom or is it just a stereotype?
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    Apr 23, 2009 5:21 AM GMT
    it's a stereotype. you have no idea how many times i've been presumed to be a total "bottom." i get a very distinct sense of satisfaction at the look of surprise on someone's face when he's suddenly on his back with his ankles over my shoulders. icon_cool.gif
  • silverfox

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    Apr 23, 2009 5:52 AM GMT
    muchmorethanmuscle said


    You'd make a great bottom in my opinion. I think smaller yet built guys are so amazing to play "play rape" with. icon_twisted.gif



    That's funny because I like the idea of a real lean guy topping muscle.

    Ah i guess to each its own. icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 23, 2009 5:54 AM GMT
    i enjoy both roles; however, "play rape" isn't something i do well. if you want some ass, just ask nicely.
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    Apr 23, 2009 5:56 AM GMT
    sorry to be the one that ruins the wet dream, but i was raped when i was 18. so, as i said, if you want some ass, just ask nicely.
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    Apr 23, 2009 6:02 AM GMT
    see, that was easy...

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    Apr 23, 2009 6:05 AM GMT
    I do like to top some of the time... specially guys who have never bottom before... I just like to take their innocence in a sense... LOL
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    Apr 23, 2009 6:12 AM GMT
    dancerjack saidsee, that was easy...

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    i dont get it
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    Apr 23, 2009 6:15 AM GMT
    i'll look up the c++ coding for it ;-}
  • silverfox

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    Apr 23, 2009 6:25 AM GMT
    This thread was about masculine bottoms and feminine tops....kind of took a turn yes? Bottoms, tops, rape oy!


    Personally, if i were to bottom I could not even imagine a girly man pumping it into me. I am sure I would laugh or look for the hidden camera that my friends must have set up to punk me or something.

    And as for bottoms, I like em rough and tuff. I couldn't sustain an erection if it was a girly man down there either....even if he was the hottest ass.
  • silverfox

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    Apr 23, 2009 6:37 AM GMT
    muchmorethanmuscle saidOne guy I topped awhile back had one of the hottest asses. After we were fucking and getting into it he basically "ordered" me to cum and I did. I was actually impressed on how I could cum 'on command' but it was because of his hot ass.

    He turned out to be an asshole and I couldn't do it with him ever again. Being an asshole is just as much of a turn off as being a super fem guy.



    Hmmmmmm.....are you sure you weren't humiliated knowing that you were "ordered" to cum....and you did so on your bottom's command? I am sure you were taken back a bit after the fact.

    Actually, it is a hot scene.

    I think it is funny that you refer to this hot ass as an "asshole".

    Well yeah, duh! icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif


    Just teasing as I said I think it is hot.
  • emailaddress

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    Apr 23, 2009 7:00 AM GMT
    muscle bottoms are the best!!! fem tops, not so much .....
  • emailaddress

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    Apr 23, 2009 7:08 AM GMT
    actually fem anything just does nothing for me. i like them butch.
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    Apr 23, 2009 7:43 AM GMT
    ya know what turns me on.. guys without prejudiced towards other people and there mannerisms..

    fun is a very narrow window for a lot of guys aint it..
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    Apr 23, 2009 8:07 AM GMT
    miggymah saidI do like to top some of the time... specially guys who have never bottom before... I just like to take their innocence in a sense... LOL


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    Apr 23, 2009 12:59 PM GMT
    muchmorethanmuscle saidNot really. Feminine mannerisms don't equate to what rolls a person plays in bed. If anything, a lot of big muscle guys tend to be muscle bottoms in the bedroom.


    Upon this I base my future happiness

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  • Timbales

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    Apr 23, 2009 1:04 PM GMT
    In my limited experience, I haven't found the masculine/feminine thing to be true. I've found more of a correlation between how dominant a personality a guy has with his preferred role in bed.
  • rnch

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    Apr 23, 2009 1:28 PM GMT
    living in an extremely gay friendly section of new orleans; i often play the mental game of looking at a guy and saying to myself "top or bottom?"

    i can't tell ya'll how many times i have been proven wrong in my assumptions.. icon_wink.gif
  • auryn

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    Apr 23, 2009 5:04 PM GMT
    dancerjack saidsee, that was easy...

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    I don't often bust out laughing from online pictures, but this picture did it for me. LMAO! icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif

    As for the topic...

    "Masculine" bottoms are hot! When you hit it right, you find out just how nelly they are. icon_twisted.gif "Feminine" Tops are fun as long as they don't speak. hahaha I've been with both.
  • rnch

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    Apr 23, 2009 5:38 PM GMT
    [quote] "Feminine" Tops are fun as long as they don't speak. hahaha I've been with both.[/quote] yeh, hearing some fem top squeak/lisp out "take my big dick like a man, bitch" would make me disolve into sex stopping laughter... icon_lol.gif
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    May 23, 2010 8:49 PM GMT
    Really???

    How does a bottom end up on a date with a bottom???

    Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Wait! You're 21!

    It will all come with time. No need to hurry it. In the mean time, I am 100% bottom, and I am NOT feminine. I am not a girl. I am not a lady. I am however a man, and a bottom! :twisted
  • KnuxNole

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    May 23, 2010 10:54 PM GMT
    I think a guy can be top or bottom...just like masculine/feminine, since it's not based on looks. A muscular buff guy can be the biggest flamer out there and be a feminine top, while a more lean guy can have a very masculine personality and be a bottom bitch.

    Stereotypes don't work in life...there are too many shades of gray icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 23, 2010 10:57 PM GMT
    I don't give a crap, as long as it's rough, fun and they mush the hell outta the right spots!!!!!!!
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    May 23, 2010 11:00 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidI don't give a crap, as long as it's rough, fun and they mush the hell outta the right spots!!!!!!!
    Damn dude, you're a ho.
    I think I like you. icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 23, 2010 11:11 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    lilTanker saidI don't give a crap, as long as it's rough, fun and they mush the hell outta the right spots!!!!!!!
    Damn dude, you're a ho.
    I think I like you. icon_biggrin.gif

    ho? I am no ho dear..

    I'm a whore dear... you must buy me a drink first or get me a glass of water, cause going down on a guy, well, I just don't wanna have cotton mouth, it's just not fun for anyone!