gaymometer

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    Apr 24, 2009 4:38 PM GMT
    a girl friend once asked me how she would be able to find out whether a guy she's dating is gay or not; she wouldn't want to take the risk for she had just broken up with a man whom he discovered to be gay after their 5-year relationship, and now she's on a dating spree, wanting to move on from what she referred to as "the greatest tragedy of my life." I told her, I just can feel it, ITALIC TEXT GOES HEREit takes one to know one!

    how do you?
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    Apr 24, 2009 4:50 PM GMT
    Difficult to describe, step-by-step, but my gaydar is fairly accurate, had been even before I came out of personal denial.

    In fact, when my gay mentor, who helped bring me out, first explained gaydar to me, I expressed surprise at the concept.

    "I've always been able to recognize who's gay. What's special about that, can't everyone do it?"

    "DUH!" he replied, "You're gay, remember?" LMAO!

    For me it's everything from posture, vocal inflection, body English, dress, general mannerisms, a glint in the eye, a facial expression. I don't think about it, I just KNOW. Not sure it's anything your straight girl friend could learn, though.

    I suppose if the guy gets hard as a poker when they're naked together, without her touching him, that's a good sign he's straight. If he stays soft, stay away. The Peter Meter is the best gaymometer I know (or hetmometer, for that matter).
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    Apr 24, 2009 5:05 PM GMT
    thanks, i'll copy-paste that to her e-mail
  • DCEric

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    Apr 24, 2009 10:53 PM GMT
    It's difficult to describe. Hmm.... It's actually kind of like pornography, difficult to define, but you know it when you see it.