Guy at the Gym

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    Apr 18, 2007 7:49 PM GMT
    There is the guy that is very cute and young he is like 23 or so. I think he is gay, but not for sure. He always shows uo when i do and wear the baggy shorts, and always shows off his cute boxers, rubbs his chest and always flirts, what so i do please help me...
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    Apr 18, 2007 10:44 PM GMT
    Ask him to spot you on something, then strike up a conversation. See what happens.
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    Apr 19, 2007 12:59 AM GMT
    Yeah...chat him up
    Talk to him about general things
    and if he's amenable
    ask him out for a beer ... you'll get your answers soon enough
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    Apr 20, 2007 5:22 AM GMT
    A song comes to mind: Getting To Know You, Getting To Know You, etc.
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    Apr 20, 2007 8:06 AM GMT
    Sounds to me like he's making it pretty obvious what you should do!
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    Apr 20, 2007 10:15 AM GMT
    Can't get enough of those drunken rambling forum topics!
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    Apr 22, 2007 6:49 PM GMT
    be a man and introduce yourself dude!

    stick out your hand and tell him your name. if there is an awkward silence after the introduction, then just say "I figured since I see you in here every day I'd at least say hello." and smile.

    btw, i know tons of straight guys who flirt with me at the gym, so it's not certain that he's gay. trust me. :)
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    May 28, 2007 5:02 AM GMT
    I'm the average guy... I was working out the other day and saw this muscular guy working out and I was definitely attracted. I'm new to the scene btw... I kept my distance but once in awhile glanced over to check out the scene. He was working on squats so I couldn't help but be glued to his huge muscular butt each time he did a squat. :) I then moved hoping that he would probably follow but he sorta didn't. Later on, he was on the matts doing ab exercises and I took the advantage of using the machine close by so I could see his hot body getting sweaty. I finally got the guts and laid next to him on the matts. It was so hot doing abs together! As he left, he walked by me and we made eye contact. My heart melted!!! Is he gay or straight? I desparately hope to see him again some day, maybe in the showers... ;)
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    May 28, 2007 5:34 AM GMT
    is he flirting or just being a friendly guy? good advice so far. ask for a spot or about a certain exercise he's doing. straight and gay guys do that all the time. get to casually know him in the gym then ask him out for a brewski.

    and to trvrnguyen, i'd be cautious at first. no signs yet if he's gay. if you're working out next to each other ask him some questions about some exercise. try not to act as if your hot for him until you get to know him a bit more.
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    May 28, 2007 7:01 AM GMT
    I agree with most of the comments..you have to look at the signs...check to see if he notices you and looks at you more then a few times thats usually a good indication...grab a machine next to him and see what happens.
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    May 29, 2007 1:21 AM GMT
    thanks guys! This guy is about 5'9" dark semi curly hair, dark skin.... I think he is italian? We all know some Italians are HOT! He has soft features, walks with confidence and strong powerful eyes!