what is the first gay accident you have met ?

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    Apr 26, 2009 9:18 AM GMT
    my best gay accident was happened in the sauna when i discover that one guy who was totally naked is looking at my body then i discover that he is gay
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    Apr 26, 2009 2:31 PM GMT
    I'll have to think about that and get back to you. I can't remember meeting any gay guys purely by accident. My gaydar is very good, so I usually already know, and I mostly go to places where EVERYONE is gay, so no accident about that.
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    Apr 26, 2009 5:08 PM GMT
    Discovered that army coworker, who I played racquetball, ran marathons with was bi. We were watching porn one night at my place, started stroking each other, went from there. He was married with 5 kids. Had a good sex/working/workout relationship until he was transfered.
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    Apr 26, 2009 5:27 PM GMT
    OK, searching my memory, and with sauna as my focal point, I do recall an incident when I was 18, which I wrote about at length here some months ago. In summary:

    I unwittingly stumbled into a college men's nude swim period mistakenly wearing a swim suit, embarrassing me. I returned to the pool naked after another swimmer came after me into the locker room to explain, and then swam up to me in the water to help make me feel less awkward & unwelcome.

    Finished swimming and was chilled, so he invited me into the men's sauna, where he played around with me as we sat there naked, my first experience with another man. I tried to block & rationalize that memory for many years when I was in denial, insisting like most straight men do that if a gay guy is performing things on me, that doesn't make me gay, too.

    So I suppose our meeting in the nude pool was accidental on my part, is that the kind of story you mean? He really approached me.
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    Apr 27, 2009 12:50 AM GMT
    Ha! my first gay experience was "accident". I had just turned 31, and was at a small, local bar in our small town. Totally straight clentele. Had had few beers and was feeling pretty good. In comes this dude that I had known around town for some time, and he takes a seat next to mine. We have couple more drinks, then he leans over and whispers in my ear, "Hey, man, I need an attitude adjustment", and nodded suggestively toward the far side of the room, where the rest rooms were located.

    Well, my heart dropped into my belly, and my ears were buzzing...I had never been approached in that manner before, and was uncertain of how to react. Was the guy trying to fool me into doing something, and then getting word around to our small community? I told him we could not do anything in the bar...hell, there were only three other people besides the bar-tender. Any length of time in the bathroom would be noted..

    He followed me back to my place, about mile into the country from town...

    He was amazed at how quickly I caught on... told him, had watched lot of gay porn...lol....