How do you deal with a hot straight guy that you work with?

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    Apr 19, 2007 1:21 AM GMT
    I have a really hot guy that i work with and he is totally straight i just wanted to see if anyone had a suggestion on what to do so he wont detract me through the day
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    Apr 19, 2007 1:40 AM GMT
    Same way you would deal with a gorgeous gay co-worker! Have you ever heard of the theory that the less attention you pay to him, the more interest he will have in you. Be nice to the guy, but don't do out of your way.

    Does he know your gay?
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    Apr 19, 2007 1:42 AM GMT
    well i haven't told him and im not flaming gay so im not sure but he is just so detracting and i don't want to make him uncomfortable cause he is new
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    Apr 19, 2007 2:34 AM GMT
    Well start off and just be nice to him. Be a friend in a sense. what more can you do?

    Be you! Good Luck.
  • GQjock

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    Apr 19, 2007 11:10 PM GMT
    Well since being in lust with a str8 guy is about as good for you as beating your head against a wall I'd say find something else to "detract" you
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    Apr 20, 2007 3:38 AM GMT
    doesn't it just such when there is a drop dead gorgeous guy, but he's straight? Anyway, like he said just be yourself and be nice. You never know who's what until you try.
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    Apr 21, 2007 5:05 AM GMT
    Seems kind of silly to pass up an opportunity for a friendship with a good guy just because you are unable to control your hormones. Don't be a pervy monkey, most str8 guys will shut down with that.
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    Apr 22, 2007 12:00 PM GMT
    Even if the guy was gay, it does not mean that he has attraction for you. So just go with the flow! Treat him like you would treat all other human beings.
  • dfrourke

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    Apr 25, 2007 12:53 AM GMT
    ...I work with unattractive gay men, straight women, and lesbians...

    ...OK, not really...

    ...what kind of advice can you really give here? I don't date or even consider dating at work so lustful thoughts over any guy [gay or straight] is just not considered...

    ...be friendly...focus on the work you were hired to do...and if you need to...masterbate before work to calm yourself down...

    - David
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    Apr 25, 2007 12:33 PM GMT
    If you want to be friends with him, good for you, go for it. If you just want to work with him in peace and not constantly get distracted by his amazing awesomely hotness, then just a) distance yourself as much as possible, out of sight out of mind all that crap, and 2) just focus on business, there's no need to drool over how hot he is, just make sure he can do the jobs he needs to do.
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    Apr 25, 2007 11:35 PM GMT
    Im guessing that the original poster on here is very young, because all of us eventually get to a point where we "learn" to be professional in our professional lives. You cant compromise your job by doing anything untowards to the gorgeous straight guy and youve gotta remember that youll be working with alot of gorgeous people over the years-- just because theyre gorgeous doesnt mean that they have any interest in you or that you should alter your behavior because of their presence.
    Be professional, act pleasant -be yourself. get over the physical aspect of his presence. Itll get you into trouble if you cant.IF the guys as gorgeous as you think, hes already used to being treated well by the general public, so you treating him well wont be any different than anyone else.If you ignore him hell probably become intrigued by you(yes even str8 gorgeous guys become intrigued when treated indifferently by other men)but if hes straight then it still wont come to anything.
    Do whatever it takes to retain your dignity in your place of business.Also know its happened to probably everyone on this site at some point in our lives. You grow up and it gets easier to know what to do.

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    Apr 26, 2007 12:21 AM GMT
    I assume he is under 23? LOL
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    Apr 26, 2007 3:01 AM GMT
    either become a monk or cut ur nuts off
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    Apr 26, 2007 3:09 AM GMT
    I take that back, becoming a monk never stopped anyone from having sex.

    How about this, grab and kiss him. when he slugs you, you will lose interest real quick.
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    May 28, 2007 5:19 AM GMT
    LOL active!
  • jrs1

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    Jan 06, 2011 2:26 AM GMT
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    I told the straight guy that he was hot and he thought it was a wonderful compliment. we were friends before I said anything and that more than likely held some bearing over his reaction.
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    Jan 06, 2011 3:51 AM GMT
    I make a video of him.
    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1315847