Orgasms ??

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    Nov 04, 2007 1:51 PM GMT

    It wasn't until I was 20 years old and I had slept with a guy I really liked that when I came, I also had all sorts of feelings shooting through my body. so here is the question....can we as men ejaculate but NOT have an actual "orgasm"?

    I had messed around with guys and with myself longer before I was 20...it wasn't until that moment I understood why some guys make loud noises or jerk their bodies.
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    Nov 04, 2007 8:57 PM GMT
    depends on what you call and "orgasm"
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    Nov 05, 2007 12:55 PM GMT
    In short, yes - men can just ejaculate without the full sensation of an orgasm. Just as (for some of us), men can feel the effects of an orgasm without actually ejaculating (it's kind of tantric). Either way, if it feels good, enjoy it.

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    Nov 05, 2007 4:20 PM GMT
    yep definitely. it takes a lot more for me to have an orgasm than when i was much younger (i think my orgasm tanks kinda running on empty somtimes lol). a jerk off or even a quickie doesn't get everything going unless it goes on for a lot longer.
    if im ejaculating without an orgasm it's like im going through all the movements of cumming but without the mental attachment. i feel with just cumming the good sensations are focused more in my groin whereas when i orgasm my whole body is more involved.
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    Nov 06, 2007 1:06 AM GMT
    I definitely think so! Cumming is just cumming, and yah it feels good! But god damn! When I first had an actual "orgasm", I seriously yelped and my body was shaking. I think I'd equate it to a female orgasm?

    I've only ever gotten that when I'm bottoming, though. But holy shit, serious convulsions and moaning and yelling.
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    Nov 06, 2007 11:57 PM GMT
    so guys, how do i get the orgasm? i mean the body jerking, mind went blank or sprarking? I kinda understand that sometimes i cum without the full body jerking response. But sometimes, i do, but don't know how i got there, lol. does it depend on jerking for a long long time to get the orgasm? or cum at 2 or 3 times? or depend on being bottom, and have your prostate massaged? or what? Please share your experience.
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    Nov 07, 2007 2:21 AM GMT
    ebl333, I think it's about prostate stimulation. I'm not sure if it's proven or not, but for me there are DEFINITELY some "g-spots". It's certain angles and certain pressures in areas, particularly the prostate, and when the top hits it, good god you just kind of shudder. On top of that, if theyre going at that spot for a while and you cum while theyre hitting that spot, thats when I get the yelps and convulsions.

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    Nov 07, 2007 4:40 AM GMT
    so only bottom has the orgasm?
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    Nov 09, 2007 3:26 AM GMT
    i think it's easier for bottoms to reach an orgasm

    my experience is that theres isn't always a magic button that you press constantly to orgasm, it's a whole body approach. a lot of guys are very focused on a particular action, fucking, sucking, without engaging any other parts of their partners body. while your dicks occupied let your hands and mouth roam around. if both partners are doing that, it shouldn't be too hard to reach. for me, i like really close contact with the guy im fucking/being fucked, love feeling the body weight on top of me, heaving breathing on my neck, his sweat on my chest.

    i tried to massage my prostate once....i ended up pissing on the bathroom floor haha
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    Nov 19, 2007 1:57 PM GMT
    As a lot of this is headed in the prostate direction. I will mention that I once had a completely soft, no stimulation to my penis whatsoever, hands free orgasm the first time I bottomed for my man. Usually I'm a top, but I like when we switch things up. He was hitting just the right spot and it was the best orgasm I ever had. I did ejaculate as well. I know it's possible to have an orgasm without ejaculating, I guess I prefer the release of ejaculating while having an orgasm.