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  • JESIE

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    Apr 29, 2009 1:16 AM GMT
    I've worked really hard to be were i am at right now...Backtracking to my junior year in H.S. I was at my heaviest...250 lbs. then i worked down to 130 now im back up to 170..and Im very well damn proud of that. But the complexity I have is want to get ripped. However, I think I've come to the conclusion that my body type is, as I like to call it, "thick." Im no body builder, but i have "meat" on me; love handles; you know. some thickness around my sides. It's not so obvious but hey, im not cut with ripped abes with that all-to-sexy "v" shape stomach. I will continue to build muscle and work on having a much more defined body, but if I dont, hey, I tried my best.

    So, my question is:

    is a little thickness kind of sexy? lol
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  • Timbales

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    Apr 29, 2009 1:22 AM GMT
    IMO, sexy comes in all shapes, types and sizes. If someone rejects you because you're thicker in the torso than they think you should be, they aren't worth the time.
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    Apr 29, 2009 1:32 AM GMT
    Sexy just is.. its not a look, its not a shape, its not a 6 pack and its not a big chest.. sexy just is..

    I'm no adonis and some guys think I'm sexy.. I don't look at real ripped up guys and think there sexy.. occasionally they are, but there muscles aren't what make them sexy..

    so if you've gotten to a point where you feel happy with all that you are, that your size feels good to you, that you feel good when you look in the mirror..

    Then that will be more sexy then some insecure guy desperately trying to reach some mythical standard of what "sexy" is "suppose" to be.

    So yes, big boys can and are just as sexy as anyone else that is sexy.
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    Apr 29, 2009 2:07 AM GMT
    Sexy or not, that fat around the middle is dangerous to your health. It is biologically active fat and will fuck with your health.
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    Apr 29, 2009 2:24 AM GMT
    Caslon10000 saidSexy or not, that fat around the middle is dangerous to your health. It is biologically active fat and will fuck with your health.


    Look at his adult pic no 1. He´s not fat, just no visible 8 pack....

    Lilt is right.. sexy is not measured in your body fat percentage.

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    Apr 29, 2009 2:39 AM GMT
    Nothing wrong with a little something to grab onto. I'm proud of my thickness.
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    Apr 29, 2009 2:40 AM GMT
    Sean_85 saidNothing wrong with a little something to grab onto. I'm proud of my thickness.

    I'd grab hold of your thickness....whoop it out ... icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 29, 2009 3:06 AM GMT
    Caslon10000 said
    Sean_85 saidNothing wrong with a little something to grab onto. I'm proud of my thickness.

    I'd grab hold of your thickness....whoop it out ... icon_lol.gif



    Hahah and now reading that back to myself i'm aware of how dirty my post did look.. icon_redface.gif
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    Apr 29, 2009 3:11 AM GMT
    In answer to your OP questions...you might consider some dietary changes and added cardio to your regimen to promote a little leaning out...if that's your goal. Based on your adult photos...I don't see that your body is anything to fret about.
  • upsguy68

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    Apr 29, 2009 3:15 AM GMT
    Sexiness comes in all shapes, sizes, and heights. It is attitude, confidence, and that je ne sais quoi. My definition of sexiness is not necessarily your definition.
  • SirEllingtonB...

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    Apr 29, 2009 5:56 AM GMT
    jesdq saidI've worked really hard to be were i am at right now...Backtracking to my junior year in H.S. I was at my heaviest...250 lbs. then i worked down to 130 now im back up to 170..and Im very well damn proud of that.


    you go! you go, girl! icon_biggrin.gif

    keep up the great work and, to reiterate what everyone above me has already said, sexiness is relative and beauty is in the eyes of the beer holder beholder. Stay active, healthy, and happy icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 29, 2009 6:04 AM GMT
    just do a little HIIT a couple times a week and those love handles will melt right off... it'll keep you lean and keep your cardiac threshold nice and high
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    Apr 29, 2009 10:23 AM GMT
    Personally, stocky = sexier than ripped. But that's just me. icon_razz.gif