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Chainers Posts: 94
Apr 29, 2009 5:34 PM GMT
So this is to satisfy my general curiosity, but how many of you have actually met someone on this site in person, be it for dating or for friendship?
Apr 29, 2009 6:22 PM GMT
*raises hand*
Ducky46 Posts: 2604
Apr 29, 2009 6:24 PM GMT
A perfect record of ZERO!
Alpha13 Posts: 1079
Apr 29, 2009 6:25 PM GMT
DONE THAT
Apr 29, 2009 6:25 PM GMT
I've met several and will be meeting a couple more in the coming month.
Apr 29, 2009 6:25 PM GMT
I was in Toronto for business last year and Surreal Life met me out for a beer. Mickeytopogiggio was here in Syracuse this winter for work and I met up with him and went out for drinks.
UncleverName Posts: 596
Apr 29, 2009 6:30 PM GMT
I've met a couple of guys from here in real life, and will definitely do so again in the future.
Apr 29, 2009 6:48 PM GMT
Met only 3 so far.
Apr 29, 2009 6:52 PM GMT
met Palikari, met in773guy, probably met a few more, definitely will though
Apr 29, 2009 6:53 PM GMT
I have indeed met a few... looking forward to meeting more.
Surfwarrior Posts: 390
Apr 29, 2009 6:56 PM GMT
I asked myself this question the other day,

I have met 9, been in a long relationship with 1 and will be meeting more as the opportunity comes by.


Realjock Rocks!
Apr 29, 2009 7:10 PM GMT
Met zero but a couple have expressed interest.
d4orce Posts: 82
Apr 29, 2009 7:17 PM GMT
Just 1, hopefully more in the future.....
TallGWMvballe... Posts: 1853
Apr 29, 2009 9:21 PM GMT
I have only met one from Los Angeles so far, and one from Santa Barbara that is really a nice guy... and we get along.

Two volleyball players from other areas have played on the team I am on called, L.A. Crush and are wonderful players and good guys!
nyc10016 Posts: 26
Apr 29, 2009 9:35 PM GMT
i have met a couple, and have plans to meet a few more...
Apr 29, 2009 9:35 PM GMT
nobody yet! hopefully i'll meet some kool kats on here 4 convo or da gym.
Apr 29, 2009 9:38 PM GMT
I've met several. I was at a bar a few weeks ago and a guy came up to me and asked if I was an RJ-er. It took me a sec, but I smiled and was proud to wear the badeg, lol. He has a headless shot here, but I don't kwon why, he is a cutie!
HndsmKansan Posts: 5912
Apr 29, 2009 9:39 PM GMT
I've met some really great guys here and we have done threads on the subject in the past. I have several that I talk to almost on a daily basis.
Best site on the net.

somedaytoo Posts: 119
Apr 29, 2009 9:48 PM GMT
None, I must be a freak.
Chainers Posts: 94
Apr 29, 2009 9:49 PM GMT
You and me both man.
GNR7600 Posts: 208
Apr 29, 2009 9:51 PM GMT
hmmmm... about 3 and 2 of them went to my gym.
Apr 29, 2009 9:56 PM GMT
Only 1 and he turned out to be a real self centered asshole
McGay Posts: 5115
Apr 29, 2009 9:59 PM GMT
I met one guy for breakfast once.

He wanted to bring me home to meet his parents. I said no. He got very emotional. I poured orange juice on his feet in a display of testosterone and called him ugly names. He called his parents on his cell, who were very anxious to meet the man who'd finally won their boy's heart. I started acting straight and called him a fag, to which he replied "we're not gonna do this here are we? Well, ok, but it wasn't my ideeeaaaahhh." He pulled his pants off and offered his ass. His butt hygiene was awful and he was in grave need of a butt bleaching. I threw up my scrambled eggs, which looked exactly the same coming up as they did going down. He took my puking as a sign that I was really into it, so, he turned around and threw up right back on me and called me daddy.

He said he'd call.
Apr 29, 2009 10:05 PM GMT
none and never planing to.....till i find the person that suits me
JakeMatthews Posts: 266
Apr 29, 2009 10:05 PM GMT
I have met 2... and would be interested in meeting more.
PSCalif Posts: 479
Apr 29, 2009 10:15 PM GMT
I've met someone from here. I even introduced him to my pet bunny.

Hmmm ... where did that bunny go and who left that pot boiling on my stove?!?
Apr 30, 2009 12:42 AM GMT
Zero. So far.
waxon Posts: 559
Apr 30, 2009 12:46 AM GMT
ive met 2, i still talk to one and plan to visit him when i go back to LA and the other one i only met once, and then there was a guy who i didnt really meet but saw him at school and we said hi cuz we knew we were both on here
Apr 30, 2009 12:49 AM GMT
2 guys I already knew are on here, hope to meet some more for a beer or whatever
Apr 30, 2009 12:50 AM GMT
Zero.
Apr 30, 2009 12:55 AM GMT
somedaytoo saidNone, I must be a freak.


Only one, but at least I'm not a freak; just past the expiration date.
athlftlguy Posts: 24
Apr 30, 2009 12:58 AM GMT
nada
Apr 30, 2009 1:15 AM GMT
J_man said3 but only 1 was to my liking


I sure hope the other two don't read this.
andrewkicks Posts: 10
Apr 30, 2009 2:28 AM GMT
ok i have never done anything with a guy, thats the reason im here. but i feel im putting myself out there too much. can anybody help me out with that? any good advice would be appreciated
Apr 30, 2009 3:27 AM GMT
I've met seven of our R.J. guys in person so far - (Nude Yoga classes, working out, dinners, hikes, some of this/some of that) and I've talked with some more by phone who live out of state - - one of whom I'm flying out to meet very soon
Apr 30, 2009 3:34 AM GMT
Face to Face one!

One the phone...one more!

that is all
calibro Posts: 1348
Apr 30, 2009 3:52 AM GMT
growingbig saidMet zero but a couple have expressed interest.




You know I love ya! How's Px90 going?

@OP, a handful
Apr 30, 2009 3:57 AM GMT
None. But then, SE Iowa isn't exactly overflowing with RJ members.
hobronto Posts: 485
Apr 30, 2009 4:14 AM GMT
A bunch! No serial killers...yet.
Apr 30, 2009 4:41 AM GMT
Yes, I have. And three of them have been incredibly good friends.
Guy101 Posts: 1703
Apr 30, 2009 4:46 AM GMT
Sadly I have yet to meet anyone from here. Heck it's hard just getting a conversation or two out of people here let alone actually meeting them. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHa.
Mash4077 Posts: 26
Apr 30, 2009 5:11 AM GMT
Went to New Oreans Jazz Fest last weekend with guy from this site. Had a great time!!!
REMI Posts: 16
Apr 30, 2009 5:23 AM GMT
i have met 6. WOOT WOOT
sf_thumper Posts: 24
Apr 30, 2009 5:31 AM GMT
I've met two. They both were really cool. Down to meet more! Any more guys in SF that like to go out dancing? :p
GuerrillaSodo... Posts: 2946
Apr 30, 2009 5:35 AM GMT
I've met three so far. Rozqu, he's a really great guy. Muchmorethanmuscle, has actually become a great friend of mine. We hang out pretty regularly. I just recently met trainerkp, he's a hoot and a holler. I think we laughed our asses off the entire time we hung out. I actually knew badmikey, mv03 and CoreyS before RJ.
cbrett Posts: 395
Apr 30, 2009 6:05 AM GMT
I have met 1 so far but wont to meet a few more like briz and aussiefit both in queensland and when i next go oversea's i would like to met a few guys
Realjock rocks
ErikTaurean Posts: 1582
Apr 30, 2009 6:18 AM GMT
none
swimbikerun Posts: 1983
Apr 30, 2009 7:09 AM GMT
I've met two guys from here. I'd be up for meeting more! zoinks
tommyclement Posts: 182
Apr 30, 2009 9:02 AM GMT
Yep, have met. If quality counts for more than quantity then
NJDewd Posts: 355
Apr 30, 2009 1:01 PM GMT
Red_Vespa saidMet only 3 so far.


And I was so lucky to be one! Lifefit1 and I had lunch with Red..My total therefore is two.
jerseyguy Posts: 99
Apr 30, 2009 1:09 PM GMT
I've met one so far and we've become good friends. There are several others I e-mail and IM with on a regular basis. Wish they lived closer, because I'd love to meet them in person.
Apr 30, 2009 1:17 PM GMT
I've met 3 thus far. Had fun time
Csrobbie2000 Posts: 157
Apr 30, 2009 3:32 PM GMT
I met 3 and dated 1 for a while. They are all very nice guys!!
Apr 30, 2009 3:46 PM GMT
I met someone from here, and we dated for 14 mos. He is one of my best friends now.

I also met zdrew before he was on here. AND I told him about this site (you can all thank me later).
zdrew Posts: 2822
Apr 30, 2009 5:58 PM GMT
sickothesame saidI met someone from here, and we dated for 14 mos. He is one of my best friends now.

I also met zdrew before he was on here. AND I told him about this site (you can all thank me later).


Those thank-you's piling up in your in-box yet, sicko? Doing a quick scan of the guys from my area on RJ, I know a few, but I haven't met any of them on this site.
LittleDudeWit... Posts: 1378
Apr 30, 2009 10:43 PM GMT
No one. But I would like to.
Apr 30, 2009 10:54 PM GMT
None!
but maybe that's because I live in Denmark and most RJ'ers are in the US
but hey, the 2009 Outgames is in my city so if any of you are going.....
EricLA Posts: 2306
Apr 30, 2009 11:01 PM GMT
I've met a handful.

And no, that's not a euphemism.

Apr 30, 2009 11:13 PM GMT
GNR7600 saidhmmmm... about 3 and 2 of them went to my gym.

Is this a math quiz? So 5 of them went to your gym?
Apr 30, 2009 11:21 PM GMT
I've met 8 specifically through Real Jock, and there are another 4-5 that I already know but are also RJers. I will probably be meeting more as more opportunities arise. In fact, might meet up with another one next week.
Apr 30, 2009 11:53 PM GMT
Some of us Mid-Atlantic guys have been getting together lately for RJ dinners in Northern Virginia. Looking fwd to another one next month. I've met 5 guys from RJ -- all of 'em seem like great guys. Hoping to include some more new faces this time around.

If any of you fellow RJ'ers plan to be in our area, give us a heads-up. We'll see if we can all get together for a meal or a drink.
May 01, 2009 12:05 AM GMT
I have met a few and look forward to a PDX meetup when I move there next year.
May 01, 2009 12:17 AM GMT
None yet, would like to.

MunchingZombie, look me up when you get to PDX
May 01, 2009 3:21 AM GMT
zdrew said
sickothesame saidI met someone from here, and we dated for 14 mos. He is one of my best friends now.

I also met zdrew before he was on here. AND I told him about this site (you can all thank me later).


Those thank-you's piling up in your in-box yet, sicko? Doing a quick scan of the guys from my area on RJ, I know a few, but I haven't met any of them on this site.


No. What do I have to do to get people to like me??? I'll do drugs! Whatever it takes!
May 01, 2009 5:36 AM GMT
I have tried to approach some of the RJ guys here in Chitown just to meet for drinks or whatever. NOTHING, but I will keep trying.
TallGWMvballe... Posts: 1853
May 01, 2009 5:25 PM GMT
cityguy39 saidI have tried to approach some of the RJ guys here in Chitown just to meet for drinks or whatever. NOTHING, but I will keep trying.


Good luck with that!

I have approached many of the LA guys and they also decline to chat or meet. (IE: CS ___ latrain___ 88 ___Dr_j ___drew__ JAP__)
In several forums asking to meet like during L.A.Pride and hiking Runyon Canyon NO one would respond.

On this site it seems the guys living outside of LA are much less stuck on themselves and more open to meet.

Come on LA guys.... prove me wrong... please.
_chuck_ Posts: 430
May 01, 2009 5:32 PM GMT
I've only been on here a week, so my experience might not be valid.
I did find a few profiles of people I had met in person before joined RJ.
stringman Posts: 118
May 01, 2009 5:35 PM GMT
One so far but new several prior to joining.
May 01, 2009 5:50 PM GMT
HotToddy saidI've met 8 specifically through Real Jock, and there are another 4-5 that I already know but are also RJers. I will probably be meeting more as more opportunities arise. In fact, might meet up with another one next week.


Whoa... I just realized that I know someone personally from RJ. I mean, I knew it, but hadn't really thought about it, because I belong to the 4-5 that he already knew
May 01, 2009 5:56 PM GMT
met 3...SAHEM, you're next
Sep 14, 2009 11:07 AM GMT
I've met one so far. We worked out and had a bikeride together. I live in a smaller town, so it would be nice to meet some more guys on here!
Sep 15, 2009 3:10 AM GMT
Meet 11 so far, 3 by accident (I recognized them)
Sep 15, 2009 3:16 AM GMT
Haven't met any...would like to though....and my gut instinct tells me it proly wont happen.
Sep 15, 2009 3:19 AM GMT
I've known a few before RJ but have not met anyone as a result of RJ.

There are a few I would lie to meet in person but enjoy the online friendships so much, I would be disappointed if it didn't click in person. It sounds crazy but I value the online friendships to risk losing it by meeting in person.
shortmusclegu... Posts: 32
Sep 15, 2009 8:31 PM GMT
Decided to meet my first guy, we chated a few times, then talked on phone, decided to meet in a neutral place, he was visiting my side of the World (me Vegas- him Florida) that was this past weekend, now I'm jumping on a plane this weekend to see him again... Talk about a total click, guess I luckedout on my first one... This could get serious, talk about a normal, down to earth sweetheart of a man and wasn't looking for anything serious as I just gotout of a 11 year relationship.... Hope to add "dating" to my profile soon...
vindog Posts: 961
Sep 15, 2009 8:37 PM GMT
maybe on my trips in the next year I will.....

Cincinnati
Louisville
St Petersburg
Tampa
London
Rotterdam/Amsterdam
Berlin
Barcelona



cthedj Posts: 401
Sep 15, 2009 8:39 PM GMT
Chainers saidSo this is to satisfy my general curiosity, but how many of you have actually met someone on this site in person, be it for dating or for friendship?
Raises hands also!
hockeynick79 Posts: 273
Sep 15, 2009 8:40 PM GMT
MEEEEeeeee
crls64 Posts: 52
Sep 15, 2009 8:44 PM GMT
PSCalif saidI've met someone from here. I even introduced him to my pet bunny.

Hmmm ... where did that bunny go and who left that pot boiling on my stove?!?


That's Funny!

Sep 15, 2009 8:45 PM GMT
I flew to LA and had a great time with a guy I met on RJ.
crls64 Posts: 52
Sep 15, 2009 8:48 PM GMT
And no I haven't met anyone on here either! Not a lot of RealJockers in San Antonio, I quess?!
Sep 15, 2009 10:41 PM GMT
i have made a ton of friends and met some of them in person.
adidas0783 Posts: 189
Sep 15, 2009 10:49 PM GMT
I have lucked out and have met some great guys via RJ...which negated the one douche I met on here.
jrs1 Posts: 1474
Sep 15, 2009 11:10 PM GMT


I've a couple that are in the works to come and visit me ... I'm in Boston now, so there are at least two that are not too far from me. Looking forward to getting up to Toronto - Juddie - and then meeting that sweetheart and a half: MeOhMy.
italianguy63 Posts: 15
Sep 15, 2009 11:15 PM GMT
not a one. the ones I like live to far away, and the ones that like me are 20. lol. i dont get it. And i'm one of the originals on this site when it started a few years ago.
Sep 18, 2009 10:57 PM GMT
nope

bud i'd definitely would in the future!

any body from the south jersey area??
Sep 18, 2009 10:59 PM GMT
I've met 2 people in the span of 3 years being here. Friendship, of course.
kaicho Posts: 100
Sep 28, 2009 3:35 AM GMT
I haven't met anyone from the site yet, but I'm not sure why...

Ever since I got back from my deployment and knew I was getting out, I planned on being a bit more social with local guys to just do guy stuff-- didn't happen.

Looks like I'll have to wait until I head back to Chicago in a few months, before I can really meet people and start to create a social life as a civilian.
Guy101 Posts: 1703
Sep 28, 2009 3:43 AM GMT
I've never meet anyone from any online site but chatting seems to work just fine for me.
RPMSoccer Posts: 475
Sep 28, 2009 3:47 AM GMT
I've known a few already and met about 4 or 5 since I joined this site.
One guy I dated for a while, and he was a good guy. I'm happy with the quality of guys I've met for friends here, too, that's for sure.
Ciarsolo7 Posts: 311
Sep 28, 2009 3:47 AM GMT
Met a guy in person the very next day after signing up here Meeting a great guy I've been in contact with in 2 weeks!
Sep 28, 2009 3:49 AM GMT
I have met like 5. It sucks cuz the ones I WANT to met are not in my area lol, the ones that are in my area suck and were disappointments except for one
bcpm Posts: 128
Sep 28, 2009 3:52 AM GMT
Hmm...I've met a few guys on here...like to meet more down the line...
rightasrain Posts: 39
Sep 28, 2009 3:53 AM GMT
oh... i didn't know we were actually supposed to meet?!
WolfRain Posts: 315
Sep 28, 2009 3:55 AM GMT
Actually made two good friends who are fellow RJers , but I met them through another jock/muscle site before i've joined here.
Both are really sweet guys to get to know.
bcpm Posts: 128
Sep 28, 2009 3:56 AM GMT
rightasrain saidoh... i didn't know we were actually supposed to meet?!


haha...you mean we're not just pictures and words? there's actually living, breathing, biological entities behind these profiles? LOL
jock_n_ca Posts: 9
Sep 28, 2009 3:57 AM GMT
O'fer. Zip. Nada.
sundayswim Posts: 447
Sep 28, 2009 4:38 AM GMT
i've met 3.. i met all when i travelled outside SF.
Sep 28, 2009 4:53 AM GMT
So far I've met eight R.J. guys in person......all great guys - one of whom has become my b.f. We have a lot of great guys here - truly the best guys you could ever hope to meet!
Sep 28, 2009 4:53 AM GMT
I hope to.

Sep 28, 2009 5:00 AM GMT
Jockbod48 saidSo far I've met eight R.J. guys in person......all great guys - one of whom has become my b.f. We have a lot of great guys here - truly the best guys you could ever hope to meet!



Really? where? show me
innerathlete Posts: 94
Sep 28, 2009 5:15 AM GMT
Yep, have met a few - including one from Australia.
RoyBoi Posts: 128
Sep 28, 2009 5:19 AM GMT
i;ve met about 5 now....all turned out to be really nice ;)
Calvin Posts: 541
Sep 28, 2009 6:00 AM GMT
Just one but did not go so well but I plan to see one of my best friends I met on here in early Nov for my birthday
OHhiker Posts: 620
Sep 28, 2009 6:07 AM GMT
5 - I slept with all of them

one was dating
one was hookup
one was a great weekend and tons of text messaging
two were camping buddies - ok I didn't have sex with them, I slept in a seperate tent, but we did sleep at the same campsite


Oct 01, 2009 6:08 AM GMT
OHhiker said5 - I slept with all of them

one was dating
one was hookup
one was a great weekend and tons of text messaging
two were camping buddies - ok I didn't have sex with them, I slept in a seperate tent, but we did sleep at the same campsite




*cough*slut*cough*
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I haven't met any, but I am fairly new to the site.
syd_hockey_79 Posts: 525
Oct 01, 2009 6:28 AM GMT
None, but it's not my primary reason for being here.
raw00L Posts: 146
Oct 01, 2009 6:49 AM GMT
TallGWMvballer said

On this site it seems the guys living outside of LA are much less stuck on themselves and more open to meet.



Ha! Completely agree.

Sometimes I wonder if I come off as too much of a creeper or something.
Oct 01, 2009 2:11 PM GMT
I met my boyfriend on here. We chatted online and on the phone for about six months and helped each other through a couple of family dramas. Then this May he flew out to stay for a few days and we had a fantastic time together. He's in Chicago and I'm near Boston so it's a long distance relationship, which definitely has its challenges. Over the summer we've seen each other for four or five days every month or so. He's coming out again in four days (Yah!) and we're going to make plans for me to start spending more time in Chicago.

Oh, and, yes, I would be very interested in meeting other guys from the site for coffee, drinks, a hike, friendship, etc.
Oct 01, 2009 2:17 PM GMT
OHhiker said5 - I slept with all of them

one was dating
one was hookup
one was a great weekend and tons of text messaging
two were camping buddies - ok I didn't have sex with them, I slept in a seperate tent, but we did sleep at the same campsite





hahaha you go realjock

i've met none! i guess its cause i live in the burbs and im not looking for hookups, just friends!
pjp201 Posts: 131
Oct 01, 2009 2:25 PM GMT
I met a few and was happy to meet them and would meet others. I talk to all of them plus a few others I have not yet met. So far all have been good experiences.