Anybody who has tried to gay a straight guy arround?

  • clof

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    May 02, 2009 8:59 AM GMT
    Well, i should say i'v done that before, but failed, about 2 years back. The guy was one of my best friends, and i know, it sounds evil. Does it?! Hope not.

    Anyway, I didn't plan to do it in the first time, not after i saw some signs:
    1.He was the one who made that kind of sluddy same sex jokes with me. 2.He invited me to go sleep with him in his bed.
    3.He had made a lot of 0 distance actions all the time, which made the girls in our college say that we two were a COUPLE!

    So, i said to my self, maybe it's ok to try him then. But right after i did, he stoped all that intimate stuff with me and told me clearly that he's not GAY! What a friend!!!

    We are cool now, but we don't hang out so much as we used to. Kinda over him now! And he even saw me with my ex together once, with a really weird face on him.

    What abt you guys? Have this kind of experiences?
  • underbearboy

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    May 02, 2009 9:21 AM GMT
    Yeah, in HS I (16) had a friend (18, hot - by my standards back then! - very close, though we were not best friends) 2 years older than me, who when he started thinking I was gay (and after a mutual female friend told him I was gay) was a real cock-tease with me. Several occasions I'd come over to hang out, and he'd come out of shower with a flimsy little towel exposing his dick or ass... or be grabbing his crotch... or want to wrestle. One time wrestling - oh, in our underwear, by HIS choice, of course! - I finally had enough and went for his crotch with my mouth. He was hard of course. After he realized what was happening, he was like "Whoa man, what'ya doing?!" And I remember saying, because I was caught a little off guard, "Man, if you want a blowjob, let me give it to you... you'll like it." But I guess he got scared by that. We remained friends, but I noticed he no longer did anything more provocative around me. icon_sad.gif
  • clof

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    May 02, 2009 9:29 AM GMT
    I always thought straight guys are scared of gay guys, but now i become to think that some of the straight want us to hit on them and are always ready to say no to us after we did it!!!

    Why do they wanna do that? To show that they are charming or what?
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    May 02, 2009 12:24 PM GMT
    every man likes to feel attractive, gay or straight.
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    May 02, 2009 12:32 PM GMT
    I soooo thought I was over the attracted to straight people stage. (like there's a stage icon_rolleyes.gif ) As of last night, guess not. >_< Totally and epically failed as well.
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    May 02, 2009 1:23 PM GMT
    No. But had a straight-guy crush big-time. *goes for the kleenex*
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    May 02, 2009 1:28 PM GMT
    About 12 years ago, my good friend had been in the Marines and we'd lost contact until he got out and about a month before he was to get married. He called me because I was a mechanic and said his truck wasn't running right and could I look at it the next morning.
    He worked as a security guard on the late shift so he would be asleep at and to knock on the door and just come on in. I did and he was sleeping on the couch. He didn't get up right away and the only place to sit otherwise was the arm of the couch, so I did. He got up buck naked, stretched, rubbed his abs and said he was gonna take a shower . Man he looked great! Later when we went to get parts for his truck, he mentioned how the hospital where he was a guard there were lots of gay doctors and male nurses who leer at him a lot. I asked if it bothered him when they did. He shrugged and said he thought it was flattering.
    2 weeks later he called me and asked if I wanted to play golf. I've never tried it, but what the hell. While he was reaching around me to show me how to hold the club correctly he mentioned that I had a stronger body than what I looked like and I should stop wearing loose fitting shirts ( to this day I don't like tight clothes) let the ladies see what I have to offer.
    Again he mentioned being looked at a lot by guys at work and other places and again I asked if it bothered him because he keeps bringing it up...or was he trying to tell me something? He looked at me and said "If i was ever going to do anything with a guy, he'd have to be really good looking."
    I said "Do I qualify?"


    No, what I said was nothing. I wanted to say that, but was still unsure of what was going on and the moment was lost.


    Long story made short.... we never did get naked. He is now on the west coast, remarried.
    Moral of the story? Cross between and elephant and a rhino: Elephino!
    I guess I'm saying "go for it ONLY if you know he is wanting something more than 'grab-ass'.
    Being in the construction area, I see lots of straight men who do what I call 'grab -ass'....grabbing each other on the crotch area, grabbing asses, punching each other on the arm, titty-twisting, arm around the shoulder of a guy only to sucker punch him a second later. None are gay. That I know of. :-)
    So tread cautiously.
  • clof

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    May 02, 2009 2:25 PM GMT
    Fable saidI soooo thought I was over the attracted to straight people stage. (like there's a stage icon_rolleyes.gif ) As of last night, guess not. >_< Totally and epically failed as well.


    Shake your hand, me too, sometimes i have big crush on the straight guys, only a few of them, lol!

  • clof

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    May 02, 2009 2:39 PM GMT
    And StudlyScrewRite, thanks for your kind advice, it's right, most of the "grab ass" guys are not gay. But i just wonder why the straight guys do that, i mean gay things don't freek them out anymore, or what??? And in China, "gay" is still a big word...

    You know what, sometimes i still think they just lure you to hit on them, especially when when they secretly get the info that you are gay...

    huh! what a interesting world!icon_exclaim.gificon_question.gif
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    May 02, 2009 3:55 PM GMT
    Well, we've heard about straight guys dealing with "cock-teasing: females. Maybe, this is the straight guy's way of playing the game, being a cock-tease to gay males.
    Yeah, some straight guy I know loves to get my attention and strut around. But it's just for show.
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    May 02, 2009 4:59 PM GMT
    Oh, good god, this stuff reads like Penthouse Letters. Stop it, all of you! I think I need to go, er, take a shower.
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    May 02, 2009 5:03 PM GMT
    Twice attempted (1 at age 14 and 1 at age 21), and twice successful. Of course, that depends on what success means. I got 'em, but when it was over they went back to women! So, I guess it was just successful for me for three month periods. IMO, straight guys will fuck anything with a hole! When they realized I wasn't some stupid bimbo, they moved on to better prey!
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    May 02, 2009 5:11 PM GMT
    Nah, doesn't work, unless you get really lucky they were be gay all along.

    Straight friends don't mind you trying to bed them, but they won't ever actually let you. Ask my flatmate. icon_wink.gif

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    May 02, 2009 6:01 PM GMT
    These are kinda strange stories, but I like the topic. Straight boys, fuck them and convert them. That's the only way to go. icon_biggrin.gif

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    May 02, 2009 6:35 PM GMT
    Lost_And_Found saidNah, doesn't work, unless you get really lucky they were be gay all along.

    Straight friends don't mind you trying to bed them, but they won't ever actually let you. Ask my flatmate. icon_wink.gif



    The flatmate with the My Little Pony?
    He's just holding out on ya. Don't give up.
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  • Webster666

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    May 02, 2009 6:37 PM GMT
    I'll never understand this...
    Why would you pursue somebody who doesn't want you ?
  • clof

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    May 02, 2009 6:38 PM GMT
    Penthouse Letters??? Is it really that gross, hope not...lol

    And Looknrnd, "IMO, straight guys will fuck anything with a hole!"icon_exclaim.gificon_exclaim.gificon_exclaim.gif
    CLASSIC, but let's face it, straight guys have their own holes...
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  • clof

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    May 02, 2009 6:43 PM GMT
    Webster666 saidI'll never understand this...
    Why would you pursue somebody who doesn't want you ?


    I may wanna answer you by quoting this:

    Mr_Sporty saidThese are kinda strange stories, but I like the topic. Straight boys, fuck them and convert them. That's the only way to go. icon_biggrin.gif



    That's it, BE ACTIVE, and BE POSITIVE icon_wink.gif
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    May 02, 2009 6:59 PM GMT
    Back in my 20's, I did a 3 way with a straight guy and girl. It was kinda weird, she wanted me, I wanted him, and he wanted her so we decided to make it a 3way. The other guy clearly struggled when it came time for he and I to play around (as did I with the chick). The mechanical part was fine but he was completely disconnected from the act emotionally and that was a huge turn off for me. Even odder, afterwards we became pretty good friends. He told all his buddies and wore it almost like a badge of honor. He told me years later that he never regretted it because it confirmed for him that he was totally straight and made it easier for him to accept gay guys as close friends.

    Working in LE, I find myself around hot straight guys all the time. Some I'm attracted to but I'd never make a move on someone just because I thought they were straight.

    Its probably worth mentioning, not everyone rates as polar opposites on the Kinsey scale. I think many men have tendencies in varying degrees and based on their sexual comfort levels might try to discover what it is all about. Sadly, we still live in a society where being gay is looked at as bad or wrong and this creates untold scenarios of inner turmoil, denial, etc. Most situations I've heard about involving friends never turn out well.
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    May 02, 2009 10:19 PM GMT
    Beaux said
    Lost_And_Found saidNah, doesn't work, unless you get really lucky they were be gay all along.

    Straight friends don't mind you trying to bed them, but they won't ever actually let you. Ask my flatmate. icon_wink.gif



    The flatmate with the My Little Pony?
    He's just holding out on ya. Don't give up.
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    Well, I thought this too, until he got married.

    Gutted.
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    May 02, 2009 10:44 PM GMT
    Well...people will tell you that you can't change a man's team.

    Those people are not Katie Holmes.

    Muh ha ha
  • jgymnast733

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    May 02, 2009 10:52 PM GMT
    Yeah, been down that road!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Years ago i worked with a guy who's str8 and liked hanging out with me all the time, i even told him 'I love you' but he never responded.. He did tell me that he was str8 but he'd be with me sexually only if we put on a few pairs of sweats and bulky sweaters so he wouldnt feel anything..He said he was afraid of my big dick...GO FIGURE...
    That encounter ended our friendship and i heard he married some girl from sweden....
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    May 02, 2009 10:56 PM GMT
    I wasn't aware that you can "GAY" anything! lol
  • clof

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    May 03, 2009 4:15 AM GMT
    Beaux saidWell...people will tell you that you can't change a man's team.

    Those people are not Katie Holmes.

    Muh ha ha


    Seriously, i never found Tom Cruise gay, i mean couple of years ago, he looked hot, but not the gay kind of HOT...icon_wink.gif