Social Etiquette for Hooking up--101

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    May 02, 2009 7:09 PM GMT
    ok here goes.. what do you think are the social etiquette if you somehow manage to do a hookup with a random stranger and you go to their house or they come to yours? ... for me.,.... i think there should be a fresh, clean towel for the person to use after you have had that sweaty sex so they can take a shower.
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    May 02, 2009 7:23 PM GMT
    Yep...........clean towels plus an unopened/unused toothbrush.....and don't forget to have clean sheets on your bed...........a sexy manscent on your body is great......on your sheets it stinks.
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    May 02, 2009 7:42 PM GMT
    Whether it is a random stranger (as you mentioned) or even a regular b.f. coming for an overnight stay - here is what I have on hand for him:
    * A nice clean place, soft music, low lights, everything looking just right
    * His favorite things to munch on or drink / plenty of fresh ice
    * Me in perfectly clean and ready order - with a smileicon_cool.gif
    * Clean, freshly ironed Egyptian combed cotton high thread count sheets
    * Plenty of lube
    * Freshly laundered towels and a nice big spa robe for him - post shower
    * O.J., good granola, skim milk, fresh fruit for in the morning
    * WSJ (print or on-line edition) so he can check the morning news
    * Me in perfectly clean and ready order - again - - - - - - - for Round Twoicon_cool.gif
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    May 02, 2009 8:08 PM GMT
    wow.. id be doing all of that if the throw down was that good.
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    May 02, 2009 8:13 PM GMT
    Too many amenities, too high a level of preparation, may lead your guest to wonder what sort of establishment you are running and how frequent is the turnover. I would certainly get that message if offered an unopened toothbrush and a choice of bathrobes in small, medium, or large.
  • rnch

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    May 02, 2009 8:27 PM GMT
    hell, i just give 'em directions to the bus stop and kick 'em out before the sun rises. icon_lol.gif






















    j/k
  • jgymnast733

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    May 02, 2009 8:29 PM GMT
    Well i'd hope if he needed a shower he would say so, having fresh towels with toothbrush/mouthwash and clean sheets is standard... If he needs a douch thats cool too,it's under the sink cupboard.... Thats right take care of everything,, cause when it's time to fuyk,,It's time to fuyk....
    I dont have any problems with the guys i bring home,,they see the set up and there surroundings, they know bettericon_exclaim.gif
  • MarvelClimber

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    May 02, 2009 8:35 PM GMT
    TexDef07 saidToo many amenities, too high a level of preparation, may lead your guest to wonder what sort of establishment you are running and how frequent is the turnover.


    HAHAHA!

    It's good practice to have extra toiletries for guests. So if you have a hookup those things are already in place. Now, as for hook-up etiquette on the other end, if you're not meeting a regular, you should not expect someone to completely open their home to you. If you want to wash up properly then BYOS (bring your own shit).
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    May 02, 2009 8:35 PM GMT



    Whether it is a random stranger (as you mentioned) or even a regular b.f. coming for an overnight stay - here is what I have on hand for him:

    * A moderately clean place, ESPN on TV, t-shirt flung over the lamp, everything lookin like a bachelor lives here

    * Stale chips (fresh bag if he is lucky), beer, slivers ice left in the tray

    * Me (showered within the last 12 hours), horny - with an evil grin

    * 1-7day old sheets (change em once a week whether they need it or not) that have never been ironed, dirty underwear and sports gear tossed in the corner of the bedroom

    * Plenty of lube

    * clean towels and he can use my robe if he wants... i never wear it

    * coffee...milk (hopefully not sour) maybe a banana

    * he can steal my neighbors paper if he is up early

    * Me draggin his ass back to bed for Round Two
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    May 02, 2009 8:42 PM GMT
    I have a gay manners book in storage in Florida...it is very useful there....not.

    *See other thread.
  • DanielQQ

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    May 02, 2009 8:51 PM GMT
    If they're a random stranger chances are they aren't spending the night at my house, nor I at theirs. I will have a clean towel for them to wipe my cum off heh. that's about it though.
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    May 02, 2009 9:03 PM GMT
    WOW, I can't beleive some of you guys go to so much trouble for a hook up.. it's just a hook up.

    I know damn well I'm not gonna vacuum and make the bed for some guy that'll be gone in a few hours.
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    May 02, 2009 9:19 PM GMT
    mattyrec said
    Whether it is a random stranger (as you mentioned) or even a regular b.f. coming for an overnight stay - here is what I have on hand for him:
    * A moderately clean place, ESPN on TV, t-shirt flung over the lamp, everything lookin like a bachelor lives here
    * Stale chips (fresh bag if he is lucky), beer, slivers ice left in the tray
    * Me (showered within the last 12 hours), horny - with an evil grin
    * 1-7day old sheets (change em once a week whether they need it or not) that have never been ironed, dirty underwear and sports gear tossed in the corner of the bedroom
    * Plenty of lube
    * clean towels and he can use my robe if he wants... i never wear it
    * coffee...milk (hopefully not sour) maybe a banana
    * he can steal my neighbors paper if he is up early
    * Me draggin his ass back to bed for Round Two


    I like your style. icon_twisted.gif

    Seriously, some of you go a little overboard for a trick. A fresh toothbrush? He's not staying for the weekend. Kick him out!

    Some not-dirty sheets (see "1-7day old sheets" mentioned above) so you don't seem gross. A clean towel is fair, especially if it's hot sweaty sticky sex, to clean up afterward.

    But that's about it.
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    May 02, 2009 9:21 PM GMT
    Oh, and offer your hookup something to drink, even if it's just water. You'll want to make sure he has plenty of fluids. icon_twisted.gif
  • rnch

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    May 02, 2009 9:22 PM GMT
    for my current bf, i do all the stuff listed by others here.

    for a one time, one night stand...ain't gonna happen.
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    May 02, 2009 9:25 PM GMT
    NakedDevil said
    mattyrec said
    Whether it is a random stranger (as you mentioned) or even a regular b.f. coming for an overnight stay - here is what I have on hand for him:
    * A moderately clean place, ESPN on TV, t-shirt flung over the lamp, everything lookin like a bachelor lives here
    * Stale chips (fresh bag if he is lucky), beer, slivers ice left in the tray
    * Me (showered within the last 12 hours), horny - with an evil grin
    * 1-7day old sheets (change em once a week whether they need it or not) that have never been ironed, dirty underwear and sports gear tossed in the corner of the bedroom
    * Plenty of lube
    * clean towels and he can use my robe if he wants... i never wear it
    * coffee...milk (hopefully not sour) maybe a banana
    * he can steal my neighbors paper if he is up early
    * Me draggin his ass back to bed for Round Two


    I like your style. icon_twisted.gif

    Seriously, some of you go a little overboard for a trick. A fresh toothbrush? He's not staying for the weekend. Kick him out!

    Some not-dirty sheets (see "1-7day old sheets" mentioned above) so you don't seem gross. A clean towel is fair, especially if it's hot sweaty sticky sex, to clean up afterward.

    But that's about it.


    Yeah, I have to go along with you guys....I ain't running a bed and breakfast icon_lol.gif
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    May 02, 2009 9:30 PM GMT
    BWG77 said
    NakedDevil said
    mattyrec said
    Whether it is a random stranger (as you mentioned) or even a regular b.f. coming for an overnight stay - here is what I have on hand for him:
    * A moderately clean place, ESPN on TV, t-shirt flung over the lamp, everything lookin like a bachelor lives here
    * Stale chips (fresh bag if he is lucky), beer, slivers ice left in the tray
    * Me (showered within the last 12 hours), horny - with an evil grin
    * 1-7day old sheets (change em once a week whether they need it or not) that have never been ironed, dirty underwear and sports gear tossed in the corner of the bedroom
    * Plenty of lube
    * clean towels and he can use my robe if he wants... i never wear it
    * coffee...milk (hopefully not sour) maybe a banana
    * he can steal my neighbors paper if he is up early
    * Me draggin his ass back to bed for Round Two


    I like your style. icon_twisted.gif

    Seriously, some of you go a little overboard for a trick. A fresh toothbrush? He's not staying for the weekend. Kick him out!

    Some not-dirty sheets (see "1-7day old sheets" mentioned above) so you don't seem gross. A clean towel is fair, especially if it's hot sweaty sticky sex, to clean up afterward.

    But that's about it.


    Yeah, I have to go along with you guys....I ain't running a bed and breakfast icon_lol.gif


    hmmm you think i should change the sheets more often... I almost always change em after a guy stays over....lol
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    May 02, 2009 9:32 PM GMT
    NakedDevil saidOh, and offer your hookup something to drink, even if it's just water. You'll want to make sure he has plenty of fluids. icon_twisted.gif



    don't worry... he got plenty of fliuds...
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    May 02, 2009 9:48 PM GMT
    Hmm... I keep my guest room stocked well enough that a couple of friends could stay for the weekend without bringing anything. For one thing, it comes in handy if someone has too much to drink. (I live WAY out of town via wind-ey mountain roads.) Also I keep enough stuff in the bottom of a cargo box in my truck, so I can stay somewhere for the weekend without planning.

    Not sure that a random hook-up would get that far though. A complete stranger, I'd meet on neutral ground.
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    May 02, 2009 9:56 PM GMT
    Don't treat him too well. Don't let him think you want more than a hookup. The best etiquette is sending the right message.
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    May 02, 2009 10:02 PM GMT
    DanielQQ saidIf they're a random stranger chances are they aren't spending the night at my house, nor I at theirs. I will have a clean towel for them to wipe my cum off heh. that's about it though.


    I would have to agree with Texas Daniel. A clean towel is really all this whore needs. Lol

    I have had some amazing parting gifts from one night stands come to think of it.

    A 2 free tickets to see Annie( on the 7th row I may add)

    Took me grocery shopping

    Cab fare home

    Free take home porn

    A bottle of Tequila

    Party favors

    There is some guys that exceed expectation. Those guys I will never forget!


    I try to make them feel comfortable, and pay for them to go home atleast if they or coming from far away. A clean towel a beer or wine.

    If they are really, really, good, They get breakfast that morning lol.


    If I'm going to a tricks house I like to spray the trick's pillow or couch with my colonge so they will think about me when I leave. Lol

  • Timbales

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    May 03, 2009 1:35 AM GMT
    Jockbod48 saidWhether it is a random stranger (as you mentioned) or even a regular b.f. coming for an overnight stay - here is what I have on hand for him:
    * A nice clean place, soft music, low lights, everything looking just right
    * His favorite things to munch on or drink / plenty of fresh ice
    * Me in perfectly clean and ready order - with a smileicon_cool.gif
    * Clean, freshly ironed Egyptian combed cotton high thread count sheets
    * Plenty of lube
    * Freshly laundered towels and a nice big spa robe for him - post shower
    * O.J., good granola, skim milk, fresh fruit for in the morning
    * WSJ (print or on-line edition) so he can check the morning news
    * Me in perfectly clean and ready order - again - - - - - - - for Round Twoicon_cool.gif


    can I stay over?
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    May 03, 2009 1:37 AM GMT
    i like where this thread is going........interesting.
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    May 03, 2009 2:12 AM GMT
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    May 03, 2009 3:07 AM GMT
    If it's some random guy you're only going to hook-up with once and never see again, I don't see the need to go through all this trouble. Just keep it simple as mentioned by others. Semi-clean sheets, a clean towel, and some handi-wipes. Forget the shower. We're done.. tell him to get dressed, and GTFO. icon_lol.gif

    If it's a regular fuck buddy or a semi-serious dating situation, I think Jockbod48's suggestions are pretty good. High thread count sheets are awesome! icon_cool.gif

    Also, in case you guys aren't aware. They make disposable one-time-use toothbrushes, with built-in toothpaste. It's about $8 for a pack of 16. Much cheaper than buying a regular toothbrush.

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