5 RJ MEMBERS YOU SHOULD TAKE THE INITIATIVE TO TALK TO.. (but just haven't)......

  • HndsmKansan

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    May 04, 2009 8:02 PM GMT
    Sorry for another "list" or group request, but this one serves a really positive purpose. What 5 (or any number) of RJ members have you not talked to individually (via instant message or RJ e-mail) or maybe just visited with briefly... and have always intended to talk, but it just hasn't happened?

    We have so many great guys here.... some of them I feel like I "know" to some degree even though we haven't talked. You wonder why haven't I talked to this member or that one? Sometimes its only because of initiative.

    I tend to notice those who have posted to threads for a long time or newer ones who have made an impression. I always laugh when someone pops up and I see they have 300 or 400 posts.. who is this I chuckle to myself.....

    So back to the question... name RJ members who you have always wanted to either talk to ... or talk more to.... I have many.. but here is 7 guys:

    1) GQJOCK: This talented Florida RJ member is grounded, knowledgeable and interesting. I've always enjoyed reading his political
    comments and have some appreciation for his left leaning views. His
    vacation recommendation for Puerto Rico is an awesome one...

    2) Bgcat57: We've talked briefly, but I've heard so many awesome things about Bob... you just want to hear more....

    3) 1969er: I've talked to Paul a bit, but not enough.... Certainly someone you want to get to know. Have been impressed with his AIDS money raising efforts, but most of his views are right on the money. When he starts a thread, its always one you want to read.

    4) Creyente: This is one of the nicest men on this site. He's paid me some of the best compliments.. and we've traded a few passing comments, but he seems like a genuinely happy and content guy. Would enjoy hearing more about both he and his partner....

    5)Thecureforeverything: This Chicago attorney definitely has his act together. I have appreciated his business views and input. Would certainly like to hear more about both he and his partner.

    6) ObsceneWish: Another long "posting" guy with some interesting ideas,
    we've probably chatted briefly, but not to any great extent. Some of his
    comments have been pretty interesting.

    7)RuggerATX: Truly an interesting guy... how can you not notice him and his posts.....


    You?

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    May 04, 2009 8:12 PM GMT
    once people get on my radar I say hi. Therefore, no-one, though the "who do you wish had replied to your email" question is different.

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    These 5 RJ members threads are the new Guy Above You threads.

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    May 04, 2009 9:21 PM GMT
    Here are my ten - - - - guys I admire - for their brains, looks, personality, profile, Forums contributions, and just their whole packages - but whom I haven't had a chance to e-mail or talk with by phone..........yet:
    *SurrealLife
    *Tazdevil
    *CoolB944
    *SamerPhx
    *Menssano
    *Thirdbeach
    *NakedBuddy
    *Flexonyou
    *SquareJoe
    *Readynow101
  • HndsmKansan

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    May 04, 2009 9:58 PM GMT
    Jockbod48 saidHere are my ten - - - - guys I admire - for their brains, looks, personality, profile, Forums contributions, and just their whole packages - but whom I haven't had a chance to e-mail or talk with by phone..........yet:
    *SurrealLife
    *Tazdevil
    *CoolB944
    *SamerPhx
    *Menssano
    *Thirdbeach
    *NakedBuddy
    *Flexonyou
    *SquareJoe
    *Readynow101


    You should definitely talk to Samer, Gregg, he's a pretty nice guy.....
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    May 04, 2009 10:11 PM GMT
    This list is gonna grow as members come to my mind...

    Olden ... this man is adorable ... he would be great to hang with as a friend
    bgcat57 ... I think we share some rough road in our lives
    surreallife ... politically knowledgeable ... his insights would be fascinating
    munchingzombie ... after seeing his reading list on Goodreads, he could talk to me forever (Tearoom Trade: Impersonal Sex in Public Places ??? ... icon_lol.gif )
    ShawnTX ... fascinating knowledge and insights in areas beyond me ... and witty to no end
  • Thirdbeach

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    May 05, 2009 1:48 AM GMT
    I think I should talk/type/email/text everyone more than I do now. Being social is one of the reasons for websites like this one.

    ps.. Thanks Jockbod! You're already on the list of guys I'd date if they lived closer or if I travelled more to the States.

    pps.. You're already on that date list also HndsmKansan.
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    May 05, 2009 1:57 AM GMT
    what if after I mention them they still have no intention to talk to me? thatd be so awkward...
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    May 05, 2009 2:05 AM GMT
    When did real jock become a popularity contest?
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    May 05, 2009 2:16 AM GMT
    charlitos saidwhat if after I mention them they still have no intention to talk to me? thatd be so awkward...


    Always happens to me. Sigh.
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    May 05, 2009 2:25 AM GMT
    Lostboy said
    charlitos saidwhat if after I mention them they still have no intention to talk to me? thatd be so awkward...


    Always happens to me. Sigh.


    Me three! icon_razz.gif

    I just say "Hello" to who ever sparks my interest at the time.
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    May 05, 2009 2:27 AM GMT
    jprichva said
    Sean_85 saidWhen did real jock become a popularity contest?

    When was it ever not? icon_eek.gif


    haha this is so true. I used to be a popularity whore. Now Im just like meh, whatever.
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    May 05, 2009 2:27 AM GMT
    charlitos saidwhat if after I mention them they still have no intention to talk to me? thatd be so awkward...



    haha welcome to my america icon_sad.gif
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    May 05, 2009 3:21 AM GMT
    In no particular order:

    Zdrew
    Liltanker
    Timberoo
    Lostboy
    IguanaSF
    ShawnTX
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    May 05, 2009 1:48 PM GMT
    mFit saidIn no particular order:

    Zdrew
    Liltanker
    Timberoo
    Lostboy
    IguanaSF
    ShawnTX


    Great list! icon_razz.gif

    Also Caslon's list. If you haven't talked to those guys already, do so. They don't bite. LOL

    I don't have a list I'm afraid. I have an ongoing "Don't mesage first" policy, something to do with what charlitos said. icon_razz.gif
  • TallGWMvballe...

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    May 05, 2009 5:37 PM GMT
    There are many people here that I have chatted/emailed with that are really nice guys and quality men but I confess that I too, admire what many post and write in their profiles but simply don't take the time to compose a good starter convo.
    Lately, several guys I have written to me and I want to thank them.

    Anyone is welcome to write me anytime about anything.... I am very open and don't prejudge based on how hot I think you are in my eyes to be worthy of a response like some guys have said. icon_smile.gif

    -- Ron
  • Timbales

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    May 05, 2009 5:48 PM GMT
    mFit saidIn no particular order:

    Zdrew
    Liltanker
    Timberoo
    Lostboy
    IguanaSF
    ShawnTX


    Hi wave.gif
  • TallGWMvballe...

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    May 05, 2009 5:59 PM GMT
    Timberoo said
    mFit saidIn no particular order:

    Zdrew
    Liltanker
    Timberoo
    Lostboy
    IguanaSF
    ShawnTX


    Hi wave.gif



    Tim, you would be on my list but we have already had a few nice Email exchanges. icon_smile.gif

  • Timbales

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    May 05, 2009 6:03 PM GMT
    TallGWMvballer said
    Timberoo said
    mFit saidIn no particular order:

    Zdrew
    Liltanker
    Timberoo
    Lostboy
    IguanaSF
    ShawnTX


    Hi wave.gif



    Tim, you would be on my list but we have already had a few nice Email exchanges. icon_smile.gif



    We did. I'm not really a list person, but it's flattering to be thought of.
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    May 05, 2009 6:19 PM GMT
    Sean_85 saidWhen did real jock become a popularity contest?


    MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY!! icon_lol.gif

    But I guess some people care about this stuff.
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    May 05, 2009 6:21 PM GMT
    Wait, there are others on this website besides me?
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    May 05, 2009 6:26 PM GMT
    turtlesarecool saidWait, there are others on this website besides me?


    No, that's just the devil whispering as you dance with him in the pale moonlight.
  • Medic911

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    May 05, 2009 6:47 PM GMT
    Awww man, I would like to end up on someone's list... *sniffle*

    Anyway, I guess I don't have any to put down because if I see you and want to talk to you... I just do.


    -Taylor
  • TallGWMvballe...

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    May 05, 2009 6:52 PM GMT
    Medic911 saidAwww man, I would like to end up on someone's list... *sniffle*

    Anyway, I guess I don't have any to put down because if I see you and want to talk to you... I just do.


    -Taylor


    Don't feel bad Taylor, I will talk with you, icon_smile.gif
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    May 05, 2009 7:23 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan said
    So back to the question... name RJ members who you have always wanted to either talk to ... or talk more to....


    There's plenty...I'm just not on here as much as I used to be.
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    May 05, 2009 8:04 PM GMT
    I can't keep it to five. Also I've divided my list into two groups.
    First group that immediately comes to mind because of truly deep, funny, personal and edifying conversations, I recommend:
    jprichva
    Sedative
    matt45710
    Caslon10000000
    Jockbod48
    GuyNextDoor
    DancerJack
    SouthernGuy



    The next group, I've had limited direct conversations with, but definitely have great respect in the same categories as above but mostly based on forum posts.
    HndsmKansan
    GQJock
    Squarejaw
    RuggerATX
    zdrew


    Then there's the whole group of guys I've just insulted by inadvertently leaving off these lists.