Giving Head

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    Nov 06, 2007 10:25 PM GMT
    So I'm new to all this and wondering if any dudes have advice on giving head. What's the best way to do it? Should I take it "ALL" in? Do you jack the base and just suck on the head? How do you keep the teeth away? Should I be doing something with my other hand?icon_redface.gif A little embarrasing, but I need to know.
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    Nov 07, 2007 1:27 AM GMT
    Frankly my favourite part of sex, always has been always will be. How do you keep the teeth out of the way? Mmmm, it came pretty quickly to me, basically you need to use the muscles that control your lips to spread them over your teeth. Try to imagine having no teeth at all if that helps!

    In terms of going down on a guy, that depends on the guy. Some like a lot of attention on the head, others like you to go down all the way, then go up and down. Yet others like you to really suck the head (thus the term cock-sucking, it came about for a reason). Don't forget to lick the underside of the cock that can be a real turn on.

    When giving a blowjob you may want to try all of the above to mix things up. The guy's reaction to what you are doing will definitely give you hints to what he likes. I sometimes try and do things I have never done before just to see how my partner reacts (the tongue can do amazing things!).

    Finally don't forget the balls either, a lot of guys like that area to be sucked or licked, just don't suck too hard it can be uncomfortable for some.

    A last piece of advice, ask the guy, he will be quite willing to tell you what he likes. If you are unsure if he is HIV- you may want to put a rubber on him for safety sake (see my other post about safer oral sex).
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    Nov 07, 2007 2:15 AM GMT
    I know I like it when the whole thing is engulfed, deepthroating if you will.

    And yah... teeth haha, I guess just wrap your lips around your teeth, but make sure theres alot of saliva on you lips or else the might come away from your teeth during the whole rhythm of it.
  • GQjock

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    Nov 07, 2007 11:24 AM GMT
    LOL...
    kinda like giving advice on how to fly a plane
    one of those things that no matter what someone tells you - you need to test it out for yourself
    and you do what gives you and your partner the most pleasure
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    Nov 07, 2007 2:47 PM GMT
    GQJock, like that comparison, I learned giving head the best way possible, with lots of practice with other guys!
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    Nov 07, 2007 4:53 PM GMT
    Not sure about lot's of guys..... Not a whore. lol. Although if it's for the sake of education.....icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 07, 2007 6:03 PM GMT
    Hey lots of practice with one guy works as well. If you like giving head you will learn quickly!
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    Nov 07, 2007 10:36 PM GMT
    and try not to gag
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    Nov 07, 2007 10:47 PM GMT
    can't you ask your brother - I thought you said you had an older brother who is gay...although I guess that's a lot to assume, that just cuz he's older he'd have advice. Guess it's just one of those things that you have to figure out as you go. G'luck
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    Nov 08, 2007 3:59 AM GMT
    just ask the guy to tell you what he likes...the dirty talk can be hot, LOL!
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    Nov 08, 2007 5:06 AM GMT
    definitely figure out if you have a strong gag reflex. I do and the first time I tried to deep throat... well let's just say I know where to stop now icon_biggrin.gif

    Speaking of that, anyone know how to kill the gag reflex? Partially... as I realize it's an important part of keeping me alive icon_biggrin.gif

    As to what to do, if he's uncut, be careful. If you suck too hard while holding back his foreskin you can cause minor ripping along the inside of the foreskin. And while he probably won't feel it too much during sex, it's very very agitating afterwards. icon_biggrin.gif For most uncut guys I'd say let the skin move normally, don't try to hold it back. Also if jacking him off while sucking the head, again be careful of pulling too far back.

    For general tips on giving head, be aware of what your tongue can do icon_twisted.gif I usually do 10-15 minutes on the dick in many different fashions, and then will switch to the balls. The go back to the dick, and while the balls are still wet, gently stroke them with one or both hands. The saliva generally helps my fingers slide smoothly and softly over his balls icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 08, 2007 4:35 PM GMT
    Great advice. Oh and nickster, I dont think asking my big brother is a good idea. He's a very proffesional type who would roll his eyes at me and tell me to behave.icon_neutral.gif
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    Nov 12, 2007 4:26 AM GMT
    My tips:

    No teeth

    Tounge Action

    Remember to breath

    Tease with tounge too

    Head is most sensitive part

    Don't forget the twins

    Have fun at it.
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    Nov 13, 2007 7:37 PM GMT
    My Bestfriend, A girl/roomate showed me how to give head by using her bisexual boyfriend as the Dummie. So she gave him head infront of me, then she did one trick on him, stoped then told me what she did, and how she did it and then told me to go for it. Then we just kept going from there with new ticks each time we went down on him. Then we went down on him together. Plus she tought me how to control my breathing while sucking, Her boyfriend help me out some too because he was a big guy and I never giving head to a large cock like that before. So Then the next day she told me to give him head while he was sleeping and to remember what I learned from the night before and to then time how long it took for him to bust.

    Well... Lets just say I still think her for her classes.
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    Nov 13, 2007 7:41 PM GMT
    I'll show you how to suck a Long, Fat Cock anytime if you want. You can be the Dummie. JOKEicon_lol.gif
  • swimbikerun

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    Nov 15, 2007 3:51 AM GMT
    I don't like it when a guy has a scruffy face and decides to sand paper the head of my cock!
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    Nov 15, 2007 4:05 AM GMT
    Do everything to it that you would do to a cherry freeze pop.
    A cherry freeze pop: you can't bite it...you can't stick it down your throat...you can't slobber all over it (yuck, hate that)...and you can't talk with your mouth full!
  • duglyduckling

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    Nov 15, 2007 4:57 AM GMT
    As Samantha from Sex and the City said it best...

    "You men have no idea what we are dealing with down there...

    Teeth placement and jaw stress and suction and gag reflex...

    And all the while, bobbing up and down, moaning and trying to breathe thru our noses...

    Easy, honey, they don't call it a job for nothing!"

    LOL

    The quote on YouTube:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A312dp9US18
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    Nov 15, 2007 3:22 PM GMT
    I like that! LOL! Giving head is like a job you have to enjoy, just without the pay.icon_lol.gif
  • MikemikeMike

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    Nov 15, 2007 5:35 PM GMT
    Bolt,

    rent a porns or 3!

    If not I might have to show you!

    Mike3
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    Nov 17, 2007 8:25 AM GMT
    Oh mike, you're such a goof! lol. icon_smile.gif

    Although I guess practice makes perfect....icon_wink.gif
  • Timbales

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    Nov 17, 2007 2:47 PM GMT
    am I a bad gay if I admit I really don't enjoy giving head?
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    Nov 17, 2007 3:27 PM GMT
    What else is there?
  • GQjock

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    Nov 18, 2007 1:17 PM GMT
    LOL...
    I like that practice comparison
    I'm gonna try that...
    next time I get next to a cute guy I'm gonna say...

    "You know...I'm icon_wink.gifgettin a little rusty.." icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 18, 2007 7:25 PM GMT
    Sooo funny that you mention that GQ Jock, cause about a year ago a friend of mine who was gay told me he was bad at giving head and his boyfriend told him to practice on ME!! At this time I was completly straight and shocked by his forwardness. I of course just laughed it off, but I knew he was being serious. We never bring that up, it's way too embarrasing...icon_redface.gif