who amongst you had a girlfriend?

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    May 09, 2009 1:29 AM GMT
    everytime i meet new friends, and i tell them that i'm gay, they always ask me if i ever had a girlfriend. i never had any. i have a lot of girld friends but i'm just not into the thought of having someone intimately. just wondering if anyone of you here had any...
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    May 09, 2009 1:52 AM GMT
    Yea, I have. I was even engaged once.
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    May 09, 2009 1:55 AM GMT
    Only a couple in high school. Never had sex with any of them though. Only have done it with dudes
  • DCEric

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    May 09, 2009 2:00 AM GMT
    Had? She was preggers.

    /So she claims.
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    May 09, 2009 2:00 AM GMT
    Hey guys, I've done the female stuff (for a lot of time), and I love the penetration fuck. But I'm having trouble with the rear stuff. I don;t think I'm ready for male penetration. Perhaps I'm an old fart, but I need coaching with the guys. You know best.

    Tommy
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    May 09, 2009 2:05 AM GMT
    I've had three girlfriends that lasted more than a year each. Each one was a puzzle unto herself. I hate things that i cannot understand. . .
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    May 09, 2009 2:07 AM GMT
    ErikTaurean saidYea, I have. I was even engaged once.


    Hmmm well now indeed...have you mentioned this site to her?icon_redface.gif

    For me...I am looking for a cool one!

    I am not sure I can have a relationship with a dude..icon_idea.gif
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    May 09, 2009 2:09 AM GMT
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    ErikTaurean saidYea, I have. I was even engaged once.


    Hmmmwell now indeed...have you mentioned this site to her?


    I was 22 at the time, fresh out of college. Interestingly enough, she was the one who thought I might be gay! LOL. Still friends today and I am god father to her 4 boys. And yea, she knows about real jock......LOL.
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    May 09, 2009 2:36 AM GMT
    My mom is trying to set me up with this divorced chick..shes cute and all...but more drama...NOT!!
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    May 09, 2009 2:42 AM GMT
    Yessir. Up till last year I had a couple girlfriends, one of whom I lost it to. I was finally tired of lying and getting asked "Does this make me look fat?" Then I did what every gay man can and is supposed to do with staight women, I told her the truth (while simultaneously coming out). The rest of the night wasnt really fun to say the least.icon_lol.gif

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    May 09, 2009 2:43 AM GMT
    Yep, had a couple. Tried for a number of years to be the son my parents really wanted...
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    May 09, 2009 3:05 AM GMT
    DarkMatters saidI've had three girlfriends that lasted more than a year each. Each one was a puzzle unto herself. I hate things that i cannot understand. . .

    Wow guys are like the 3D puzzles in my opinion LOL. I've had many gf's and actually enjoyed them a lot while it lasted.
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    May 09, 2009 3:14 AM GMT
    I'm still married to my wife of 22 years.
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    May 09, 2009 3:58 AM GMT
    GNR7600 saidYessir. Up till last year I had a couple girlfriends, one of whom I lost it to. I was finally tired of lying and getting asked "Does this make me look fat?" Then I did what every gay man can and is supposed to do with staight women, I told her the truth (while simultaneously coming out). The rest of the night wasnt really fun to say the least.icon_lol.gif



    love that!!
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    May 09, 2009 4:39 AM GMT
    GreyBeard saidHey guys, I've done the female stuff (for a lot of time), and I love the penetration fuck. But I'm having trouble with the rear stuff. I don;t think I'm ready for male penetration. Perhaps I'm an old fart, but I need coaching with the guys. You know best.

    Tommy

    This is mildly disturbing.
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    May 09, 2009 4:46 AM GMT
    Well, as a matter of fact, most of you who have read my posts on here know that although I consider myself Gay, I'm technically bi, in that I enjoy sex with women, and have had girlfriends in the past.

    But, the purpose of this reply is to mention only one: Eva.
    Eva and I met in 1980, and stayed together all these years as "significant other" to each other, even though I've had a few boyfriends in that time, and have a wonderful man in my life now.

    Eva died this week, after suffering a massive heart attack a couple of weeks ago . She was 56. She and I were each other's Gemini twin; her birthday was June 2, mine is June 18.

    I am glad that she had a chance to meet and briefly get to know my BF. She liked him very much, and thought he and I were great together. He liked her too, and he has been right there for me this last couple of weeks that she was in a coma and we had to drive 3 hours each way to see her. D, if you read this, you have been so giving and generous to me, both during this time and in general, and I will strive to earn the love and respect you've given me.

    Eva and I meant more than just BF/GF to each other. We were each other's family in many respects. Even though we didn't live together (we're both VERY solitary and territorial) she was a MAJOR aspect of my life, and as much as I love my BF, I'm quite beside myself over losing Eva. I know that, in time, the pain will become bearable.

    I guess I just wanted to share this with you because, in my world, even if one is Gay, one can still have a loving, meaningful, and yes, sexual, relationship with a member of the opposite sex without it being a betrayal to what it means to be Gay. Eva allowed me to do that, and at the same time gave me two wonderful step-children, who are now themselves young adults. Eva and I were totally open to each other about our relationships, and as a result, had a much stronger relationship than some married couples I've seen.

    She was a totally giving person, but unfortunately many people (especially men) took advantage of that and never gave anything back in return. But, as much as it could get her down, she was always ready to help others, and gave of herself above and beyond the call of duty or friendship.

    She was a wonderful, bright spot on Earth. I'll miss her terribly.

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    Eva and I Thanksgiving, 2008
  • Sparkycat

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    May 09, 2009 4:47 AM GMT
    Girls! Yuck! Why would any gay man want to date a woman? Most women are self-absorbed, controlling bitches. And they don't have dicks.
  • Bunjamon

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    May 09, 2009 4:52 AM GMT
    Sparkycat saidGirls! Most women are self-absorbed, controlling bitches.


    Wow icon_eek.gif, that's one wholly unfair blanket statement. Where would gays be today without their girlfriends, i.e. their friends who are girls? Some of my best friends are girls. Friendship knows no gender.

    I have never seriously dated a girl, and I've only ever made out with a girl, but insinuating that doing either of those things is disgusting? That's going too far.
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    May 09, 2009 5:03 AM GMT
    girls...eww..im still afraid that ill catch the cooties...
  • metalxracr

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    May 09, 2009 5:09 AM GMT
    Aww, sorry to hear about your situation zeebyaboi! may she RIP

    To answer the question... I have had a few girlfriends. Only 2 were quite serious, but the entire time I knew I preferred boys, but didn't know how to act on it.

    After messing around and dating the first guy, I decided I was completely gay and was not tuned on by girls anymore after I had saw how amazing boys were.

    However, as of lately, I've been thinking about girls a lot for some reason. I don't stress over it though, or think about what I want do next. I'm just going with the flow... whatever happens, happens. But I am still enjoying boys!!! icon_biggrin.gif