So i have a question or some food for thought lets say about anal...

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    Nov 07, 2007 8:48 PM GMT
    Almost all my relationships i have been in we were both tops with no btming @ all.. I have always been fine with that.As long as we both get off who cares how, it was intimate and romantic wich is all i need! But people say o well ur not having "sex" if ur not Btming??? Is "Sex" only about anal?? What do u Guys think? Do u feel u need to have anal to have a commited healthy relationship?
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    Nov 07, 2007 9:45 PM GMT
    It's really up to the two people actually involved in the relationship.

    If you and your partner are cool with no anal, then that's fine for you two. But if you or your partner wants to have anal and the other doesn't, that is when problems arise.

    The debate about anal is the only gay sex we can have is old and stupid. As long as you and your lover are comfortable with your relationship, and sex lives, then everyone else can just butt out.
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    Nov 08, 2007 3:00 PM GMT
    Yea so after a long night with the new boi who im turned off by already.(im kinda of like Sienfeld, i always find something to turn me off), I was thinkin bout my post.... I LIED... I relaized i do want,need a btm...lol I feel like an ass to actually tell some one i dont want to hang out or be with any more bc of sex... But its truu... Am i a bad person?? Will he think i am bad person?? UGHH BOYZZ...
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    Nov 08, 2007 6:06 PM GMT
    no your not a bad person, he may think you are, but you gotta find someone that makes you happy. And if that means going to find someone that has no interest in anal then so be it. Just make sure he understands why your breaking up with him.
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    Nov 13, 2007 6:35 PM GMT
    My personal opinion is that you do not HAVE to have anal sex to have sex......
    I personally do not practice anal sex. To me it is not a preference, yet, I like to see pics and videos of guys performing it.
    Sex between two people is to be a time of pleasure and enjoyment of each others personality and body.
    I could write more, but am pressed for time -
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    Nov 19, 2007 1:50 PM GMT
    I don't think anal sex is a necessity, but I will say that I was in a relationship where there was no anal, and it wasn't as deep and connected as the relationship I'm in now. Anal sex requires comfort and trust, and really deep relationships have that. As long as neither goes seeking a partner outside to fulfill the urge to top I guess it could work. I can only offer my opinion from my experience. I know guys will say they don't need to do anal, but how many will say it doesn't feel incredible and that they desire that?
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    Nov 20, 2007 10:22 PM GMT
    Sex is more than just anal intercourse. Many methods, many styles, many outlooks on it. It is whatever is comfortable between you and your partner and whatever pleasure the two of you derive from the experience.
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    Dec 09, 2007 8:09 AM GMT
    i had 2 relations till now and in them i never had anal sex icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 21, 2011 10:42 AM GMT
    I really don't like it. I might be on top if someone really wanted it, but it really turns me off. There are other ways to have sex, hence oral 'sex'.
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    Oct 21, 2011 7:25 PM GMT
    And, the thread is ALIVE again!