Why you should date an ugly person

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    May 14, 2009 7:32 AM GMT
    Okay, as a decently ugly person, I feel that I need to start emancipation for the ugly. Being ugly is not a choice yet it blows that we just happen to be ugly. We could try to be more attractive by working out, cosmetics, etc, but we could only get so far.

    Therefore, first thing first, I would like to make a list of reasons "Why you should date an ugly person". Here's my starting lists:

    1) We're used to the world looking down on us, so we're mentally stronger!

    2) When we're on a date, our dates wouldn't have to worry too much because they could be sure that no-one's hitting on us.

    3) We're the most loyal boyfriend a hot guy could ever have. We know that we're lucky enough to even have a date.

    Well, now let's all continue the list!! At the end of the day, I hope to see more hot guys dating ugly guys. Also I hope there could be more people saying "I'm ugly and I'm proud of it!", or, "I'm ugly, and there's nothing wrong with it"

    Ok now, let the list continues.... Be critical and creative.
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    May 14, 2009 7:43 AM GMT
    Oh btw even if you're a hot guy but have had experience with an ugly date, please write down your positive experience.
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    May 14, 2009 8:01 AM GMT
    Reminds me of this song. icon_lol.gif

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    May 14, 2009 11:07 AM GMT
    blablablabla said
    3) We're the most loyal boyfriend a hot guy could ever have. We know that we're lucky enough to even have a date.


    That's is not true. I've dated "ugly" men before, and I know first-hand that some can, and do, cheat. It's likely due to the fact that they think they're ugly and unworthy, or they are seeking some form of subconscious revenge on anyone and everyone simply b/c of their low self esteem, or they have adopted the squirrel mentality, where they horde sex like nuts b/c they never know when it will come along again.

    Isn't this a man thing? I don't think being ugly has anything to do with it.

    ... fucking squirrels
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    May 14, 2009 11:32 AM GMT
    This thread is crap. Ugliness is in the eye of the beholder, and unless you've got a cleft palate or some other disfiguring deformity, I highly doubt you're physically atrocious, and find it fairly ridiculous to refer to yourself as ugly. I'm sure you look at it as "embracing your ugliness" and think that you're being empowering, but you're really just demeaning yourself and trying to find justifications for something that's probably not true.
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    May 14, 2009 12:16 PM GMT
    blablablabla

    3) We're the most loyal boyfriend a hot guy could ever have. We know that we're lucky enough to even have a date.

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    I think this is one of the saddest things I've ever read.... it reminds me of a
    dog that is loyal to its master even though the master treats it terribly.

    Its like "the ugly guy can be treated like dirt and will still be loyal"...
    I know I'm probably reaching.. but I'd have never made a statement like #3.

    A couple of things... First.. anyone is lucky if they are dating someone else (regardless of looks) who treats them with appreciation, loyalty and respect.

    You can have "hot physical guys" who have ugly personalities or "unattractive" physical guys with fantastic personalities.........

    and of course hot guys with great personalities and unattractive guys (physically) with crappy personalities. Where do they fit into your discussion?
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    May 14, 2009 12:44 PM GMT
    Ugliness has to to with a man's inner being, not his outer appearance. An unfortunate set of features is genetic mischance, not ugliness.
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    May 14, 2009 12:48 PM GMT
    TexDef07 saidUgliness has to to with a man's inner being, not his outer appearance. An unfortunate set of features is genetic mischance, not ugliness.


    Yup I can think of a number of extremely ugly guys with great bodies and handsome faces.
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    May 14, 2009 1:11 PM GMT
    Yep this is depressing!

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    May 14, 2009 1:15 PM GMT
    On behalf of all the happy ugly people of the world, I disagree with everything the OP said.
  • zakariahzol

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    May 14, 2009 2:07 PM GMT
    How do you measure ugly..or beautiful for that matter. I dont get it
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    May 14, 2009 2:49 PM GMT
    i have dated some stunning looking guys and found out the hard way they are bloody ugly on the inside..........concieted, cheaters,rude, condescending, arrogant.........i have also dated average and less than average guys....and you know what they can be the same.......beauty comes from within, how you percieve others and treat them.

    there is always something redeaming about every human being.
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    May 14, 2009 2:51 PM GMT
    I don't think that I'm ugly or pretty, it doesn't matter.
    My question to the OP is this:
    "Would you date a guy that you think is ugly?"

    Because your first post sounds like you're just trying to reach out to guys that are more attractive than you, and if that's the case you are ignoring your own advice.
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    May 14, 2009 2:57 PM GMT
    Well, I think there are a number of factors one has to consider, and well, I'd be lying if I said that a persons physical qualities aren't a very important aspect of daily life, influencing how people react and respond to you. Studies show that "beautiful" people get better treatment, make more money, are promoted faster, and get more opportunities for dates and tricks.

    That said, as someone who worked as a model, I can say first hand that models are some of the most INSECURE people on the planet, despite their looks. So, while important, I don't think one should let their looks influence how they live their life, and anyone who judges a person on their looks alone is superficial and not worth getting to know anyway.
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    May 14, 2009 3:05 PM GMT
    Why would I date a guy that I find to be ugly (either physically or on the inside), and one's man ugly is another's beauty, when I know I'll just dump him three months later due to said ugliness

    That does not make sense
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    May 14, 2009 3:23 PM GMT
    so why isnt there any pics of the OP?
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    May 14, 2009 3:30 PM GMT
    well the only way i would consider a person ugly is if they were a miserable sonna bitch on the inside. I dont ever look at someones appearnace and say "Woah hes ugly" everyone has different tastes, there are many guys that i think are adorable that my friends think theres something wrong with me for

    we all have different tastes for different reasons so every1 can get sum luvin icon_smile.gif
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    May 14, 2009 3:30 PM GMT
    I believe GOD created everyone beautifully, whether its inside or outsideicon_wink.gif
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    May 14, 2009 3:36 PM GMT
    Everyone agrees that looks are not one type or thing but rather vary by the observer. That said I think that the only time 'ugly' people are at a disadvantage in the dating realm is when surrounded by the shallow and superficial. When that is the case I don't really find that to be a bad thing. I'll make an example using myself (and realize this could end poorly). I don't think I am anything special just a normal looking guy with a friendly personality. Here in Atlanta I feel many times I get looked at with disdain because I don't have that beloved 6 pack (Didn't have it when I was a state swimmer in High School, Didn't have it when I was in the Marines, Don't have it now) or the latest expensive name brand clothes or car or whatever. It use to bother me at first because i knew their was more to me than that. But now I couldn't care less because I know that those that judge on those merits are the ones lacking and I feel sorry for their narrowed views. I've forgotten where I was going with that but I hope it made sense.
  • gsh1964

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    May 14, 2009 3:36 PM GMT
    I think we should only date within our same status.

    If your ugly, you should only date ugly.

    If your fat, you should only date fat.

    If your pretty, you should only date pretty.

    and so on.....

    We should never date outside our culture or status... mixing it up, is a bad thing!!!

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    FYI, This is a stupid topic
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    May 14, 2009 3:38 PM GMT
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    May 14, 2009 3:41 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan said
    blablablabla

    3) We're the most loyal boyfriend a hot guy could ever have. We know that we're lucky enough to even have a date.

    .


    I think this is one of the saddest things I've ever read.... it reminds me of a
    dog that is loyal to its master even though the master treats it terribly.

    Its like "the ugly guy can be treated like dirt and will still be loyal"...
    I know I'm probably reaching.. but I'd have never made a statement like #3.

    A couple of things... First.. anyone is lucky if they are dating someone else (regardless of looks) who treats them with appreciation, loyalty and respect.

    You can have "hot physical guys" who have ugly personalities or "unattractive" physical guys with fantastic personalities.........

    and of course hot guys with great personalities and unattractive guys (physically) with crappy personalities. Where do they fit into your discussion?


    Hey I'm talking about PHYSICAL ugliness, NOT personality. I know for a fact that ugly people are more likely to have better personality than hot people.
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    May 14, 2009 3:41 PM GMT
    OP's name says it all.
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    May 14, 2009 3:43 PM GMT
    McGay saidOn behalf of all the happy ugly people of the world, I disagree with everything the OP said.


    Well it's not that everyone has to agree with, why don't you help me out on continuing this list?
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    May 14, 2009 3:44 PM GMT
    zakariahzol saidHow do you measure ugly..or beautiful for that matter. I dont get it


    Eh, I thought about this, and maybe here's one way..

    You know you're ugly when you get MORE messages on manhunt when you DON'T have any of your pictures up.

    Get it?