When your mind is not there

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    Apr 21, 2007 3:48 AM GMT
    Do you ever think of someone else when you are having sex?
  • Controtion

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    Apr 21, 2007 4:16 AM GMT
    lol. drunk sex count? then Yes
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    Apr 21, 2007 4:55 AM GMT
    This is perfectly natural, man. There's no way i can stop the freeflow overload of images and thoughts that run through my brain at all times. Just be happy you're having fun with someone, and if you slip away into your own little world once in awhile, well, that's kinda hot.

    Wouldn't bug me to find out people did this if they were having sex with me, and I have a huge ego.
  • hotversguy

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    Apr 21, 2007 6:36 AM GMT
    just the one?
  • GQjock

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    Apr 21, 2007 9:23 AM GMT
    ... just be careful to keep your mouth shut
    nothing ruins the moment faster than calling out someone else's name :P
  • OptimusMatt

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    Apr 21, 2007 9:43 PM GMT
    I think I can honestly say I haven't...had thoughts about other guys while having sex with someone. I HAVE thought about homework though.
  • Kharlo109

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    Apr 21, 2007 9:52 PM GMT
    I've never thought about anyone else besides the person I'm having sex with at the moment...HOWEVER, there have been times when the sex with some guys was SO boring that my mind was on anything BUT sex.

    I don't know, someone told me that if I'm not enjoying it I need to tell the other person but I don't know how to go about it without sounding a jerk (what am I supposed say? "Sucking doesn't imply that you should LITERALLY suck like a Hoover dude!" ?)

    O_O
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    Apr 22, 2007 4:16 PM GMT
    when i'm in a relationship and i start to get too used to the same person, sometimes the only way i can cum is to think about other people when we're having sex.

    i'm pretty sure most people do this. :)
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    Apr 22, 2007 5:49 PM GMT
    Actually it's a sport called Rodeo Sex.

    When you're having sex with someone, say someone eles's name and see how long you can stay on.

  • GQjock

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    Apr 23, 2007 11:40 PM GMT
    Ohh...Ralph..
    NO! George... Whoa!!! :)
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    Apr 24, 2007 12:32 AM GMT
    "Actually it's a sport called Rodeo Sex"

    I've heard of this sport. But I hear it along the lines of frat brothers pick the fattest chicks they can find, then in the middle of boinking her, they say something like "damn, you are the fattest pig I've ever fucked!" and then they see how long they can hang on before being bucked off. It's sick and twisted, but when I first heard this story I fell on the floor laughing.
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    Apr 28, 2007 3:29 AM GMT
    Yes, I do, like JohnnyFreestyle said.
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    Apr 29, 2007 2:24 AM GMT
    Guys, If you do slip into fantasy you very normal and you do not require therapy.

    The brain processes millions of images per second, minute - whatever ( I forgot, I was just thinking of someone else ) Let go, have fun and enjoy!
  • SoDakGuy

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    May 01, 2007 4:19 PM GMT
    I've actually put together a list for my groceries a few times, I was that bored.
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    May 03, 2007 10:38 PM GMT
    GOSH YES! In fact one of the first guys I was with (the whole thing was a mess) my head was hanging off the bed and I'm looking at the clock upside trying to figure out what time it was and thinking, "I wonder if Bryan would want to go to dinner..."
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    Jul 11, 2007 6:40 PM GMT
    tofustud up there ^^^^^^^^ already said it best! years ago a guy i had dated for about a year was deeply hurt when we discussed this, because i was honest about it. he got really pissed--just insecure, i guess, since the threat was only imaginary! it's funny how we create our own worst nightmares because we take issue with something trivial!