those of you with bf's/husbands: when did you guys change from just fucking to making love with each other?

  • rnch

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    May 15, 2009 1:59 PM GMT
    just wondering.....
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    May 15, 2009 6:19 PM GMT
    rnch saidjust wondering.....


    Since we don't go to bars/clubs anymore and go home drunken & fuck like rabbits, we actually cuddle, lay in bed watching a movie and just *play around! It has to come with time with where the relationship is, you can't really force these mutual feelings. icon_wink.gif
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    May 15, 2009 6:26 PM GMT
    Never. I mean, yeah there are those chick-flick 'expressions of love' moments, but the day there are no more of those 'just wanna throw you down and fuck' moments, there's no real passion left in the relationship to make love over.
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    May 16, 2009 12:25 AM GMT
    I would have to say after that first week we spent together going at it like rabbits something started to click and I got this feeling like I didn't want to leave this guy and go back home. We lived an hour apart at the time. I can remember leaving one Sunday afternoon and having a hurting feeling almost like starting to cry but holding it back kind of feeling. I knew then I had crossed over into loving this guy. Today we celebrated our 17th year together. We bought a set of tires for his car. Ha!! How romantic. icon_wink.gificon_lol.gif
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    May 17, 2009 12:45 AM GMT
    Just went over two years with my guy. We have both commented on the fact that fucking seems more...our feelings for each other have had us "making love" from the first weekend we spent together. And those feelings only grow deeper, and the sexual/emotional tie's stronger, each time we are together. It is hard to describe the closeness we share, or the intenisity of our orgasms.

    As we live 75 miles apart, I can relate to an earlier posting, noting the feelings when I leave him. And i have not "almost" shed tears. The tears have fallen on the ride home, more than once

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    May 17, 2009 12:55 AM GMT



    zdrew, ya big lug!

    saying this, "Never. I mean, yeah there are those chick-flick 'expressions of love' moments, but the day there are no more of those 'just wanna throw you down and fuck' moments, there's no real passion left in the relationship to make love over."

    ...truly had us chuckling. From day one it's been lovemaking, the wild 'just wanna throw you down' stuff came later when we were comfortable enough in each others skin to thoroughly let loose. And NO WE'RE NOT TELLING WHAT HAPPENS THEN; IT'S A BIG FAT SECRET! icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif


    When it all comes down to it, there's no program or schedule - for some it starts off with intense wild sexual encounters and works its way into a deeper meaning, for others it's like us. Then there's all the wonderful shades of gray in between!


    smooch smack and a big spank for you and your guy -us
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    May 20, 2009 9:29 PM GMT
    Well, we met in college, were friends first; had a mutual crush on each other (but nobody made a move). By the time we actually ended up horizontal together, I think we were both in love, so we started out making love and sort of graduated to sweaty, grunting fucks. 33 years later, we still do some of both.