Is he bi?

  • beaujangle

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    May 16, 2009 11:12 AM GMT
    I met a straight guy and we both had a little too much to drink. He was waiting for his girlfriend and then I started massaging him. He said 'oh yes' and I kept on. We later massaged each other. Nothing more.

    What do you think? Do you think he enjoys it?

    Also, am I in trouble? Do you think he'll tell his girlfriend?
  • GQjock

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    May 16, 2009 11:26 AM GMT
    Jeez ... what the hell did you Massage?
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    May 16, 2009 12:12 PM GMT
    um.. I massage lots of straight guys.. think they might all be girls? think they might have cum in there panties and left wet spots everywhere?

  • beaujangle

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    May 16, 2009 1:10 PM GMT
    GQjock saidJeez ... what the hell did you Massage?


    Neck & shoulders first, then thighs. He pushed my hand to his inner thighs & kept saying 'oh yes' .....
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    May 16, 2009 1:12 PM GMT
    sounds hot, next massage his ass and frontal buddies.
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    May 16, 2009 1:20 PM GMT
    What is wrong with a straight guy enjoying a back rub/massage from a gay guy? He didn't have a problem with it, why should you?

    I think the problem is the sexual tension that you have with him. Get over it.

    I mean, a straight guy is comfortable enough to hang with a gay guy...even if you get naked with him in the shower, what's the problem?

    I think the problem is the gay guy getting so turned on he doesn't know how to handle it....no need to act on it. Learn how to. You just may develop better friendships with straight guys.
  • Bunjamon

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    May 16, 2009 4:24 PM GMT
    I got a quick massage last night from a woman. I was in heaven! And I think I even moaned and closed my eyes at one point. I'm still as gay as I was before, though. No question there.

    I also have the habit of reading into guy's body language a little too much. It's usually just wishful thinking, so I bet that's what you're experiencing.
  • Tiller66

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    May 16, 2009 5:00 PM GMT
    Well you know sometimes str8 guy like to see how the gay guys will act
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    May 16, 2009 5:27 PM GMT
    Even if you sucked his dick, it still wouldn't make him bi necessarily. Men like to feel pleasure. A massage is just a massage. I know people that just love to give them, and love to receive them. Straight man on straight man massages are quite common.
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    May 16, 2009 5:37 PM GMT
    str8icon_question.gif i think everyone is Bi-curiousicon_eek.gif
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    May 16, 2009 5:51 PM GMT
    masculine31 saidstr8icon_question.gif i think everyone is Bi-curiousicon_eek.gif


    Agreed. icon_razz.gif
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    May 16, 2009 5:57 PM GMT
    What everyone else said...that and drinking shuts down the parts of your brain which control inhibitions and judgement.

    beaujangleWhat do you think? Do you think he enjoys it?


    This line especially screams wishful thinking.

    Not trying to a dick about it, it's just something that I'd chock up to being part of a night of drinking. No further analysis needs to go into it.
  • 2theTEE

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    May 16, 2009 5:59 PM GMT
    Wait until the next time you both get drunk together again and see what happens. You'll be closer to getting your answer, maybe.
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    May 16, 2009 5:59 PM GMT
    Do him in the butt; then you'll know.
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    May 16, 2009 6:21 PM GMT
    I dont know man. If a guy is enjoying a massage from a gay guy he just met, on his inner thigh...sounds like he is into you. A back massage is one thing but inner thigh? But, if the dude has a girlfriend its best to leave him to your fantasies.
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    May 16, 2009 6:30 PM GMT
    Have we not learned to stop trying to figure out guys' motives by now? The only way you'll know if a guy is gay or bi is to ask and get an answer, or to be in bed with him or not. And posting the stories on here won't provide the answers.
  • Tiller66

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    May 16, 2009 6:35 PM GMT
    You got that right
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    May 16, 2009 7:26 PM GMT
    If you stick it in his butt and he likes it, he's probably bi. icon_rolleyes.gif