4610m saidHi i'm 21 years old, only been with one guy off and on. One time in our relationship I did let him fuck me without a condom. Later I found out he was cheating on me with a girl. After our relationship i've experienced some itching around my anus maybe only like once a day and it only lasts for about 5 seconds. I check down there daily and never see any bumps or anything. I have gotten an HIV test and i'm negative. But I'm wondering is there an STD or what?
First, let me say that everyone who has browbeat you for not using condoms during casual sex is 100% correct. I think that gay men need to encourage each other to have safer sex in all casual encounters and guys who enjoy bottoming need to stay strong in the face of pressure from a top to go bare.
But, what you're describing doesn't sound like anything serious. A little itching around the asshole is not likely to be anything. That said, if it is persistent go see a doctor. There are many other STIs, bacterial infections, fungus, etc. that can cause itching.
Being a hypochondriac myself, I can't imagine how you've stayed away from the doctor this long.