What is the WORST thing a guy could say when he is breaking up with you.

  • silverfox

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    May 21, 2009 10:43 PM GMT
    Well for me it would be,

    "Hey, look it has nothing to do with you...."

    Really. That would make me feel even worse!




    How about you?

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    May 21, 2009 10:49 PM GMT
    nuffin really, he's breaking up with me.. if he's angry I know he's just looking to hurt me so anything he says wont really hurt.. if he's carm and very collected about the whole thing, then again I wont be too hurt because he's generally not looking to hurt me.

    But the one time someone tried to use to "its not you, its me" my immediate response was "bullshit, don't insult me"
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    May 21, 2009 11:48 PM GMT
    Many years ago,someone told me that we were seeing to much of each other..I responded "Well you can't miss something you really never had". But I am not bitter...(guessing that he had someone else)
  • HndsmKansan

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    May 21, 2009 11:53 PM GMT
    I think for me it would be a statement about me that really wasn't true, but said out of anger... like... I thought you were really.....

    The reality is I am really... but in that moment its the easiest thing to
    stick in my face. Actually its never happened.
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    May 22, 2009 12:16 AM GMT
    "I don't know if I ever really loved you to begin with" - OUCH

    And yeah, I say that from experience icon_neutral.gif
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    May 22, 2009 12:17 AM GMT
    I know this is going to ruin your trip to Japan to see me while I'm here for 4 months, but...

    Yup, from experience
  • DuggerPDX

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    May 22, 2009 12:32 AM GMT
    Once when I was very young and was breaking up with a guy a few years older than me and much more cerebral I told him that it was because he was thinking too much.

    Now that I'm older and wiser I wonder if I think too much...
  • Timbales

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    May 22, 2009 12:33 AM GMT
    "I've been seeing someone else who's better than you."
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    May 22, 2009 12:35 AM GMT
    There's always that all-time breakup favorite, "I love you, I'm just not in love with you."
    Can there be a greater insult to your intelligence than that?
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    May 22, 2009 12:49 AM GMT
    Haha, well i broke up with my ex when he came out with the phrase, "you never buy me anything anymore" haha. I turned around and said "Ummm....Yeah, we are not together anymore"
  • rod_c

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    May 22, 2009 1:01 AM GMT
    Timberoo said"I've been seeing someone else who's better than you."


    OUCH!

    Well... last time i broke up, my ex said he wasn't getting as much sex as his friends were... and that we needed to think where our relationship was going.

    Wonder what would've happened if he had stayed instead of running off with another guy icon_rolleyes.gif

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    May 22, 2009 1:03 AM GMT
    Does it really matter? You are getting dumped, the scenario for those upset by it is devastating regardless.

    In my experiences, I took a huge breath of fresh air and reveled with my free time again.
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    May 22, 2009 1:10 AM GMT
    This isn't from personal experience but one of my friends was told to "Get AIDS and suffer, painfully, for the rest of his pathetic life."

    I thought that was a bit extreme considering he didn't do anything except move away because of a job.
  • inmidair

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    May 22, 2009 1:13 AM GMT
    "I'm pregnant with our baby."
  • bigguysf

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    May 22, 2009 1:25 AM GMT
    I think "I'm over you" would probably not feel so good icon_eek.gif
  • Timbales

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    May 22, 2009 1:26 AM GMT
    inmidair said"I'm pregnant with our baby."


    I'd be so excited, I'd be buying onesies.
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    May 22, 2009 1:33 AM GMT
    "Yup, my ex was right about you."
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    May 22, 2009 1:35 AM GMT
    The worst thing a guy can ever do / way when breaking up with you is orchestrate it so that it is all just "implied" that it is over, thereby avoiding the need to say anything at all.

    THAT is the worst thing ever!!! *sniff sniff....


    Or so I heard... icon_razz.gif
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    May 22, 2009 1:36 AM GMT
    mickeytopogigio said"Yup, my ex was right about you."

    Ouch, that would actually probably kinda hurt..
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    May 22, 2009 1:37 AM GMT


    Silence is the worst...nothing to go on or assist in gaining closure.
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    May 22, 2009 1:38 AM GMT
    To say nothing, of course. A cold and painful rejection.

    In Portuguese we say "sair à francesa" ("to leave in the French manner" - without saying goodbye)
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    May 22, 2009 1:39 AM GMT
    I agree. . . someone who says nothing or almost nothing and just sort of cuts you off. That's probably the worst.
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    May 22, 2009 1:42 AM GMT
    LittleDudeWithMuscles saidI agree. . . someone who says nothing or almost nothing and just sort of cuts you off. That's probably the worst.


    Lmfao...this happened to me a few months ago...icon_eek.gif and then he comes back last nite *(on-line)* of courseicon_lol.gif Beggingicon_rolleyes.gif
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    May 22, 2009 1:47 AM GMT
    A close friend of mine had a boyfriend of two years that went out for milk and disappeared off the face of the planet. My friend is still seeing a psychologist about this. If I ever, EVER, see that guy again I'm going to cave his fucking skull in.
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    May 22, 2009 2:13 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    mickeytopogigio said"Yup, my ex was right about you."

    Ouch, that would actually probably kinda hurt..


    Yeah. I have to agree. Damn!