May 23, 2009 3:57 PM GMT
Or do they really? Or can they honestly be that clueless?
I'm talking about all those guys who seem to be universally on everyone's Hot List. I imagine their mail boxes must be full all the time with the RJ generated message telling them they have been hot listed...must be nice to be so popular.
I'm just wondering what these guys really think. Do they look at themselves in the mirror and think "Damn I'm Hot...and I know it! Or do they really think to themselves "I don't get it, I don't really know why others think I'm so hot".
Since I know I'm not the kind of HOT that I'm asking about, I definitely fall into the latter category, and am always extremely flattered and surprised if a guy adds me to their Hot List. I honestly think I'm just okay looking. I'll have days when I'm content with my appearance and other days when it's like ugh, I don't want to go out at all today!
It's a funny thing really...our obsession with youth and beauty. Both things which we really don't have any control over. We all can't stop the aging process, and we're born "looking" the way we look. Personally, I think there is an attractiveness in everyone, even if it's not necessarily all that obvious. At least I always try to find this quality in others. No one is "ugly" in my book, but obviously some people are lucky enough be born more "attractive" than others, however you want to measure that, and they generally catch a few more breaks in life in general because of it.
Do I seem envious? Yeah, definitely a little sometimes. It would be a cool experiment if I could trade bodies with one of you HOTTIES for a day just to know what it would be like…maybe on a more permanent basis even…heheh. This site is a bit of an anomaly though, because most people look "average" whereas most guys on here are into a “gay fitness, health & life”; generally living a healthy lifestyle which promotes exercise, eating well and looking good. And damn there are a lot of you on here…truly an inspiration!
I do understand that the concept of HOT is in the eye of the beholder, as they say...