Wow, great topic because I wanted to start this but didn't know how to get it across properly.
Last night I was at a wedding. The bartender was very attractive and I noticed him right away. I won't stare because that is creepy and I wouldn't want that directed at me either.
Well as the night progressed, I'd try to find him to get a peek. He was really really cute and in great shape. Each time I would look for him, more than 60% of the time I found him looking at me. Later in the night, I wasn't waiting long at the bar for a drink and yet someone ordered a drink from behind me. This guy apologized and I said that it was no problem, and let him continue to order. The bartender looked at me and said "what can I get you?" I told him and he made the drinks for me and the man behind me. He handed the first drink to me and his eyes kinda lingered at me and he was smiling. Sorta that "you can tell the truth in the eyes" deal.
I was really happy about how he treated me and went back to my friends on the dance floor. I whispered in my best-friends ear that the bartender she had the hots for all night probably wasn't on her team. She leaned into my ear and said "the thing you don't know is that he already took my number".
It wasn't until latter did I think that she said "took" not "asked for". But the fact remains- she made a connection with him and I didn't. Who knows..maybe he was looking at her the whole night. The world is STRAIGHT! I am not. I guess I am horrible at reading the signs....i dunno...I swear he kept making eye-contact with me all night...so wait....HOW DO U READ SIGNS AGAIN? I wish I had help...I feel so embarrassed.