Does being a virgin mean I could still be straight?

  • Little_Spoon

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    May 25, 2009 5:50 AM GMT
    Is there a chance I'll end up not liking sex with men, even though I find so many sexually attractive.

    I mean I think I'd thoroughly enjoy getting it from a guy.
    (Being a top is less appealing to me.)

    What are the chances that I won't enjoy it?
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    May 25, 2009 5:59 AM GMT
    absolutely no chance in hell!

    You'll try your first guy and it'll be so freakin hot you'll cum in short order and be ready to go again almost immediately..

    If you feel gay, your gay, you'll like it, maybe not anal, maybe you'll be a top, maybe you'll find a guy's cock inside you the most arousing thing you've ever felt in your life..

    But you'll still be gay, cause you'll still want that guy
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    May 25, 2009 7:54 AM GMT
    DanielH saidIs there a chance I'll end up not liking sex with men, even though I find so many sexually attractive.

    I mean I think I'd thoroughly enjoy getting it from a guy.
    (Being a top is less appealing to me.)

    What are the chances that I won't enjoy it?


    Being a virgin doesn't mean that you're straight, it just mean that you're innocent and not ready yet. You will know when you're ready to lose that cherry. icon_cool.gif

    Well, just be careful the first time you do it *bottom for a guy. Do it with someone who know what he's doing. Chances are you'll love it. icon_biggrin.gif
  • GQjock

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    May 25, 2009 10:06 AM GMT
    I'm assuming that you masturbate, right?

    So who do you fantasize about being with while you're abusing your body?
    Is it a man or a woman?

    If it's a man? I'm sorry to break the news to you .... YOU'RE GAY!
  • Klutch84

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    May 25, 2009 12:03 PM GMT
    Ugh, don't you hate it when someone gives THEIR life story when all you did was ask a yes or no question?

    Anyway, your sexuality isn't determined by WHOM you sleep with, it's determined rather by WHOM you WANT to sleep with.
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    May 25, 2009 2:09 PM GMT
    DanielH saidWhat are the chances that I won't enjoy it?

    At the risk of incurring the wrath of Shifty84 for drawing upon my own experiences, I once faced a bit of your dilemma, only at an older age. Everything turned out great.

    I had already decided I was gay, a late-bloomer, but I knew my first gay sex would be a test of sorts, even though I didn't want it to be. I faced 2 problems: first, I didn't want to admit nor appear to be an incompetent novice at my age, which might turn off the other guy.

    Second, I wondered if I might freak out, or simply turn coward. I'd heard stories of that happening to older guys like me. I needn't have worried.

    I took to cock like a duck takes to water. And I guess what I lacked in experience I made up for in enthusiasm, cause that other guy claimed I was really good, and we tricked several more times over a couple of weeks, until I realized he was cheating on a partner.

    My first gay sex with him, BTW, remains the most mind-shattering of my entire life. And it started an intensely horny period for me that lasted nearly a year, during which I couldn't get enough gay sex. I theorized it was some kind of delayed rebound effect or something, because my teen years had been so sexually repressed.

    Don't worry, I think if you choose the right guy you will definitely enjoy it. This is one time when you probably should let your dick head do more of the thinking for you, and not complicate things by over-analyzing. Choose a nice guy, make it safe, and have fun! icon_biggrin.gif
  • Klutch84

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    May 25, 2009 4:19 PM GMT
    muchmorethanmuscle said
    Shifty84 saidUgh, don't you hate it when someone gives THEIR life story when all you did was ask a yes or no question?

    Anyway, your sexuality isn't determined by WHOM you sleep with, it's determined rather by WHOM you WANT to sleep with.


    I basically said "YES" to the question. I'm not going to apologize that you lack the level of intelligence to interpret my brief yet detailed input.

    But hey...let's all answer "yes" or "no." No other input is needed. That makes for a really exciting read.


    This wasn't directed at you personally, I see this trend occurring in threads ALL over. I do have a high level of intelligence but that issue isn't on trial here. Way to show yours by insulting mine (which I did NOT do to you at all). Although you didn't answer his question at all in your post, who seems to lack intelligence? Connect the dots homie (READ the title of the thread). Plugging your personal story doesn't make your answer more valid. He asked if being a virgin meant that it's a possibility for him to be straight. I said "no" because it's not who you sleep with but rather who you WANT to sleep with which decides your sexuality.

    BTW - Notice how lilTanker, SexySwimmer and GQJock all ANSWERED THE QUESTION without a life story. Uh...yeah.

    I'm done, apologies to ol' boy DanielH for hijacking his thread.
  • Klutch84

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    May 25, 2009 4:25 PM GMT
    muchmorethanmuscle saidIt's cool that you're a virgin. I didn't put out until I was 21. I basically went out to have sex with a guy I didn't know just to know what all the fuss was about.

    Since I gave it away so easily the first time I basically threw myself into a downward spiral of lecherous whoredom. There was no hope for me after that first trivial encounter. icon_razz.gif

    I think if you start seeing someone who will be patient with you that whatever you do sexually will be great because you've developed some feelings for that person.


    Before you edit your post, where is the yes or no answer that you'd supposedly given? I'm tired of all these attention-whores...
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    May 25, 2009 4:42 PM GMT
    Shifty84 said

    Before you edit your post, where is the yes or no answer that you'd supposedly given? I'm tired of all these attention-whores...


    Wow. Someone wants to be hated.

    "I basically threw myself into a downward spiral of lecherous whoredom"

    On the other hand, YOU interest me strangely.

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    May 25, 2009 4:43 PM GMT
    DanielH saidIs there a chance I'll end up not liking sex with men, even though I find so many sexually attractive.

    I mean I think I'd thoroughly enjoy getting it from a guy.
    (Being a top is less appealing to me.)

    What are the chances that I won't enjoy it?


    Just make sure that your first few times are with someone who is patient, kind and doesn´t have erectile problems. Makes it easier all round.

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    May 25, 2009 4:48 PM GMT
    I enjoy all of the "life stories"
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    May 25, 2009 5:10 PM GMT
    Drun saidI enjoy all of the "life stories"


    I enjoy many of them. I am not interested in them when they are all I, I, I, me, me, me. Like how much someone weighed in High School.
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    May 25, 2009 5:14 PM GMT
    Lostboy said
    Drun saidI enjoy all of the "life stories"


    I enjoy many of them. I am not interested in them when they are all I, I, I, me, me, me. Like how much someone weighed in High School.


    agreed
  • Little_Spoon

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    May 25, 2009 6:53 PM GMT
    I like to read the stories real jock tells, as long as they apply to the subject presented.

    I don't want to ask a question like I did now and get told a story about how they lost a ton of weight.

    Most of us already have that story under our belt to begin with, don't need someone else to tell us.
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    May 25, 2009 8:55 PM GMT
    The guys lost their focus regarding this topic icon_smile.gif Shifty84 has quite an explosive personality icon_smile.gif ( i think everybody should be free to answer the way they think its best, even if that means telling a story about their own life and experinces, this even makes the topic a lot more fun).

    DanielH: being a virgin has nothing to do with being straight or gay, like SexySwimmer and GQjock said.

    Its all in your mind. If you feel atracted to guys then you are gay, if you also are atracted to girls..then u are lucky..to get both of them icon_smile.gif and if you are atracted only to girls.then you are straight icon_smile.gif (i seriously doubt it..since you are already here).

    So..have fun being gay icon_smile.gif and dont worry about it. (especially dont feel sorry because of it, live your life the best you can)

    P.S. are you still a virgin? icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 25, 2009 8:56 PM GMT
    noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
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    May 25, 2009 10:39 PM GMT
    turk saidnoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo


    Any conclusion on your sexuality? straight gay bi?
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    May 26, 2009 1:18 AM GMT

    Question:....Does being a "pussy" virgin mean I still might be straight even though I've been laid numerous times by men?

    I mean it's kinda like saying you like apples only when you've never really tasted an orange. icon_question.gif

  • DrobUA

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    May 26, 2009 6:52 AM GMT
    haha sounds like wishful thinking to me. Being a virgin doesn't make you straight or gay or anything for that matter. If the thought of getting fucked by a guy turns you on there's a %99.9 chance you are a homo. I've never fucked or been fucked by a guy and I sure as shit ain't straight.
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    May 26, 2009 7:04 AM GMT
    If the thought of getting down on your hands and knees while a guy gives you a bit of tail turns you on..

    Your gay

    If the thought of sticking your winky in her binky turns you on

    You straight

    If the thought you sticking your winky into her binky while you get a bit of tail.. does it for you.. you could be straight..

    If the thought of vegetable porn really does it for you though.. you need to get laid..
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    May 26, 2009 2:08 PM GMT


    Heavens to Mergatroids guys!!


    How do any of you get know anyone on here without life stories? Should people share their experiences in life by speaking in third party narration?
    Should everyone stop and give out commanding type advice without reasons to back it up (such as 'this is what happened to me') ?

    ...or is there an osmosis button on the site or my keyboard I'm not seeing?

    LOLOLOLOLOL


    If you see a post of someone sharing personal history that you don't want to read, feel free to scroll past it. icon_wink.gif



    Now everyone go grab a coffee...

    -Doug



  • Nayro

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    May 26, 2009 2:22 PM GMT
    muchmorethanmuscle said[quote][cite]Shifty84 said[/cite]

    This wasn't directed at you personally, I see this trend occurring in threads ALL over.

    BTW - Notice how lilTanker, SexySwimmer and GQJock all ANSWERED THE QUESTION without a life story. Uh...yeah.
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    Hypocrite.....plain as day hypocrite bullshit. Notice how you contradict your ass in those two statements above.

    What does it matter when you really care for a person. Read:

    "I think if you start seeing someone who will be patient with you that whatever you do sexually will be great because you've developed some feelings for that person."

    My answer may be different from others but don't sit there behind your keyboard and trivialize my 6 sentence response as being equivalent to sharing my life story.

    I was appreciating the fact that Daniel was still a virgin and I was honoring that part of him and basically suggesting that he take his time to find out. Not to rush. Most gay guys I know started having sex in their early teens. There's no rush. Make your first time special.




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  • wellwell

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    May 28, 2009 2:02 AM GMT
    DrobUA saidhaha sounds like wishful thinking to me. Being a virgin doesn't make you straight or gay or anything for that matter. If the thought of getting fucked by a guy turns you on there's a %99.9 chance you are a homo. I've never fucked or been fucked by a guy and I sure as shit ain't straight.




    ...Likewise; virgin & def not str8 !!