Calling a guy after him giving u his number

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    May 26, 2009 9:00 PM GMT
    when a guy gives u their number how long do u wait before calling them?
    1 week? 1 day?
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    May 26, 2009 10:16 PM GMT
    depends on the guy.. if he's a shag, couple of days..

    if hes someone to day, couple of days maybe to set up a date

    if he's a guy that you got to talk to, really clicked with and he's just your ever waking thought...... couple of days.....

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  • mctrinh84

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    May 26, 2009 10:52 PM GMT
    owenowen saidwhen a guy gives u their number how long do u wait before calling them?
    1 week? 1 day?

    with you, is to call right away babie! hot fuck.
  • GQjock

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    May 26, 2009 11:25 PM GMT
    If he gave you his number You call when you wanna call

    If you wanna make it prim and proper wait 3 days
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    May 26, 2009 11:31 PM GMT
    You should call the next day and say hi, set something up for a day or three away. Its not polite to wait a week to call.
  • EricLA

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    May 27, 2009 12:17 AM GMT
    I agree with GiaMatti. I don't believe in the game playing of waiting 2 days, etc. Sure, I'd wait a day and set a date to meet, two at the most. If someone called a week later and didn't offer up a good excuse, I'd move on -- he's just not that into you.
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    May 27, 2009 12:37 AM GMT
    I agree, call the next day if you're interested.

    What would you think if someone made you wait a week - same as the rest of us, I suspect: that they're not interested.

    It doesn't need to be a game, it's just human interaction.
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    May 27, 2009 1:03 AM GMT
    Spare the drama. If you're interested, get on the horn and let the other person know.

    Keep
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    May 27, 2009 2:00 AM GMT
    Call when you want to talk to him.

    If you want to talk to him the next day, please dial the number! Dialing a number a day after having received it doesn't scream DESPERATION. It's a phone call, not a marriage proposal. Besides, you can delete his number at any time.
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    May 27, 2009 3:18 AM GMT
    3day rule!!!
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    May 27, 2009 3:23 AM GMT
    The next day. Oh, wait..........I don't have any numbers to call.
  • calibro

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    May 27, 2009 3:27 AM GMT
    lilTanker saiddepends on the guy.. if he's a shag, couple of days..

    if hes someone to day, couple of days maybe to set up a date

    if he's a guy that you got to talk to, really clicked with and he's just your ever waking thought...... couple of days.....

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    I'm still waiting for that call from you icon_rolleyes.gif

    I tend to just send a text the next day with a little message. If he responds and seems communicative, then I'll say something like heading into the gym, but I'll call you when I get out.
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    May 27, 2009 3:27 AM GMT
    whoever cares how long you wait to call is not worth the time. call whenever you feel like it.
  • InsatiableBlo...

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    May 27, 2009 3:28 AM GMT
    I hate how people have invented this whole game of when to call, when not to, etc.. If you guys click just call him!
  • SFNavigator

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    May 27, 2009 3:30 AM GMT
    3 day rule? What the hell is that? If the guy gave you his number, he wants you to call him. PERIOD. Get on the phone and call him, if nothing more than to thank him for givin you his number.
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    May 27, 2009 8:37 AM GMT
    Usually it's a day or 2.

    I'll give you 3 examples.

    I gave this guy my number at a mall and he said he'll call me within like 3 days something. It turns out he called a week later and offered some lame ass excuse like he was out of town or helping his roommate moved or something. So after that conversation, I just never pick up the phone when I screened his calls. I think in the end, I'm not that into him anyway to begin with, so it's perfectly fine for me to *delete him. icon_rolleyes.gif

    This one guy gave me his number, he's cute as hell and he was a little drunk that night. I called like a couple hrs later, he gave me his address, I came over and I fucked him. I'm thinking *okay, this is hot but you're too easy! Next! I don't keep contact with him after that either. I guess we both were horny and just need some actions that night. icon_wink.gif

    I put up an ad online, this 1 sane guy answered. He seems nice and cool, we switched numbers/emails, he called me the next day. He sounds nice on the phone, I agreed to meet for coffee. We drank coffee, talked and "cuddle" innocently first couple dates and the rest is history. He is my current BF now. icon_biggrin.gif

    So yeah, use your best judgment in each situation and decide if it's cool just to call, to chill and to get to know him better. Good Luck. icon_biggrin.gif

  • emailaddress

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    May 27, 2009 9:29 AM GMT
    SexySwimmer saidUsually it's a day or 2.

    I'll give you 3 examples.

    I gave this guy my number at a mall and he said he'll call me within like 3 days something. It turns out he called a week later and offered some lame ass excuse like he was out of town or helping his roommate moved or something. So after that conversation, I just never pick up the phone when I screened his calls. I think in the end, I'm not that into him anyway to begin with, so it's perfectly fine for me to *delete him. icon_rolleyes.gif

    This one guy gave me his number, he's cute as hell and he was a little drunk that night. I called like a couple hrs later, he gave me his address, I came over and I fucked him. I'm thinking *okay, this is hot but you're too easy! Next! I don't keep contact with him after that either. I guess we both were horny and just need some actions that night. icon_wink.gif

    I put up an ad online, this 1 sane guy answered. He seems nice and cool, we switched numbers/emails, he called me the next day. He sounds nice on the phone, I agreed to meet for coffee. We drank coffee, talked and "cuddle" innocently first couple dates and the rest is history. He is my current BF now. icon_biggrin.gif

    So yeah, use your best judgment in each situation and decide if it's cool just to call, to chill and to get to know him better. Good Luck. icon_biggrin.gif




    Typical of games everyone seems to be playing these days.


    Call whenever you feel like to, think with your brain, not your ego.
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    May 27, 2009 9:31 AM GMT
    If some guy gives me his number i text him back immediately with mine - thus throwing the ball back in his court. if he wants to pursue anything he's got my number and can take the initiative - which i can then decide to respond to (or not).
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    May 27, 2009 9:47 AM GMT
    I don't care when the guy calls. If I'm free I'll chat, If he would like to make an appointment... great! I don't have allot of time in general so I don't pay much heed to the time frame, from the moment of giving out my number... I guess, should I ever decide to actually pursue someone from my side... The same rule would apply. I'll phone when I have time. Just don't expect it
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    May 29, 2009 4:40 AM GMT
    Oh be sure and call him right away - and call every hour on the hour. Leave lots of messages - text him all day too. Go past his house or apt. and check it out. See if his car is there. Park across the street and look up into his windows. Go ahead and just knock on his door - everybody likes surprises. Be real - let him know exactly how you feel about him. Don't hold back - if it feels right - just DO IT!icon_lol.gif


    (No, no, no - I'm just jokin' ya! Don't do any of this shit!)
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    May 29, 2009 4:41 AM GMT
    chuckystud saidSpare the drama. If you're interested, get on the horn and let the other person know.

    Keep
    It
    Simple
    Stupid


    Agreed. (and I like the 'hidden' kiss) icon_razz.gif
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    May 29, 2009 1:14 PM GMT
    I have no problem telling a guy that I will call you when I get home or later on that evening. Have done it and we were on the phone for hours! It was good.
    If he picks up fine, if not I just leave a message.
    There is a window period for the callee to return the call that is within 24 to 72 hours.

    If you want to talk to the guy good lord call him. Like Black Muscle Gent said "it's just a phone call". Now if you are blowing the guys phone up that's a whole other issue. I don't understand guy who freak out over the art of making a phone call.

    I don't get it.

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    May 29, 2009 1:30 PM GMT
    If he gave you his number on his own, I would call within the day UNLESS he was drunk, then maybe a couple days or so.

    IF you had to ask for the number a couple days.

    Also certain situations I will just text instead.
  • cowboyupnorth

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    May 29, 2009 1:54 PM GMT
    I do not believe in playing games so if you like him call the next day and set something up later in the week.

    Sometimes when you want to be chased you do not get caught. Life sometimes moves fast and if you do not call for a few days who knows who might beat you to the punch.
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    May 30, 2009 4:34 AM GMT
    Mmmmmh, i didn't know there was a rule for this icon_eek.gif

    That said, I agree with the people who said they dislike the game of "Don't seem too interested..." if I'm interested I show it.

    The two times it has happened, I actually asked the guy. The first said "past-tomorrow" (it was a Wednesday) the other said whenever I wanted, but he was SO drunk I hesitated to call fearing he wouldn't even remember me!