MunchingZombieWhy would you have to have an open relationship?
Did he bring up this topic or is this something you thought up?
We had talked about it, and I said that one day, when i was comfortable in the relationship, I wouldn't be opposed to the idea at all. So he put it up on facebook as "open relationship" and won't change it back.
I want him to wait, i'm not ready for it. We've only been together for a month, and at the moment I want him to be exclusively mine until we've solidified at least.
I guess I'd go through with it if I felt like my opinion mattered. But he's not budging on the matter, he's saying right now, regardless of what i think.
The writing is on the wall, but you don't want to read it. Don't be naive.
My guess is that you are already in an open relationship. Simply put, he's probably already out there fuckin' whomever he wants.
You've been dating the guy for only 30 days. You're still strangers to each other. You're only 21. In one year, you'll be totally different person. So will he. You two might not even like each other anymore.
If I were you, I'd prepare to say good-bye to this one.
Lastly, YOU DO NOT OWE ANYONE AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP! We're talking about your emotional and physical health; you should not compromise either. it would be different if you both wanted an open relationship. You obviously don't.
Forgive me if I'm harsh. It's just that I have no respect for selfish boyfriends who focus solely on satisfying their sexual desires. He's saying your opinion does not matter.
What are you waiting for?