guys in exclusive, comitted relationships: how long before...

  • rnch

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    May 28, 2009 11:58 AM GMT
    you and your bf gave up on condoms and started barebacking each other?

    ( i suspect this has been asked before here............)
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    May 28, 2009 12:54 PM GMT



    Yes, it has. It was pretty simple- we didn't do anything that required a condom until we were very, very sure of each other. It can't be measured with just time.
    It also has to measured with proven trust, and we had both to go on.

    Roughly two years for us.


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    May 28, 2009 1:43 PM GMT



    This also has to be said, that we DO NOT recommend bare-backing to anyone else. We've been told time and again that we're the exception to the average, so have to grudgingly go with that ( even though we persist in thinking that we can't be THAT unusual, we're just plain Bill and Doug), therefore we can't advise anyone to take a risk...
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    May 28, 2009 1:47 PM GMT
    My partner and I have been together 3 years and we still use condoms every time. Both of us wouldn't want it any other way. icon_cool.gif