Rejected or Ignored.

  • Little_Spoon

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    May 29, 2009 12:32 AM GMT
    I'd rather be Rejected than ignored.

    Finding hope to be false is more painful than quick rejection.
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    May 29, 2009 12:35 AM GMT
    rejected. ignoring is rude.
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    May 29, 2009 12:36 AM GMT
    I have had both...and really who cares...MOVE ON!! FAST!



    Oh so many hottie's and so much pain and drama here on the site. Don't think about it to much. It happens to the best of us....now there is nothing a good blow job can't cure...that's one good reason to have a BF or FB or partner...or now days a new husband!!~
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    May 29, 2009 12:46 AM GMT

    I'd rather ignore being ignored or rejected.
    Most of the time though, people that do either, are doing you a serious favor.
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    May 29, 2009 3:04 AM GMT
    GuiltyGear said
    I'd rather ignore being ignored or rejected.
    Most of the time though, people that do either, are doing you a serious favor.


    My thoughts exactly.
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    May 29, 2009 3:16 AM GMT
    I've been both rejected and ignored. They both suck. icon_sad.gif
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    May 29, 2009 3:24 AM GMT
    online? ignore, don't care to know their reasons for rejecting me.
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    May 29, 2009 3:33 AM GMT

    Actually, ignore is better because it doesn't involve being told off, you just sorta get the picture and all on your own, like the strong confident gay man you are.

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    May 29, 2009 3:42 AM GMT
    samiphx said
    RumbleStud saidrejected. ignoring is rude.


    I agree... If someone is not interested and ignoring or rejected other person is very rude. He need to tell that guy he is not interested. Then move on. I really hated it when someone ignored me or rejected me. I'll beat yo ass. lol


    well with the internet - that's a helluva lot of ass beating would seem to me icon_razz.gif
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    May 29, 2009 3:43 AM GMT
    As a 'turkeybutt' I once knew used to say, Keep it movin'.
  • silverfox

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    May 29, 2009 3:48 AM GMT
    I would rather be rejected....it takes some effort to reject someone.

    It doesn't take much to ignore someone.

    I would rather make the dude WORK if he is going to be ditching me.icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif
  • MSUBioNerd

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    May 29, 2009 4:15 AM GMT
    Being rejected is a lot better than being ignored--at least then you know where things stand. Ignoring someone just leads to needless complication.
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    May 29, 2009 4:34 AM GMT
    Neither is fun, but given the choice, I would rather be rejected. At least I have some sort of idea what the problem or issue is.
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    May 29, 2009 4:34 AM GMT
    I'd rather be rejected. Telling someone you're not interested just seems like a courtesy depending on how you do it. There's a right and rude way to reject someone.
  • TallGWMvballe...

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    May 29, 2009 6:32 AM GMT
    Runninchlt saidI'd rather be rejected. Telling someone you're not interested just seems like a courtesy depending on how you do it. There's a right and rude way to reject someone.


    I totally agree.... So many people simply don't respond at all... I would much rather hear sorry but we are not a match or sorry not interested or words like that if they really don't want to meet.
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    May 29, 2009 6:41 AM GMT
    I'll take rejection -- you have closure, you deal with it, you move on.

    Being ignored is much worse -- it leaves you confused, wondering, not knowing when or if you will ever see or even speak to the person again. You can't get closure...you can't even get any answers. For me, it is torture
  • DrewT

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    May 29, 2009 7:03 AM GMT
    rejection! always always always better than being ignored.
  • barriehomeboy

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    May 29, 2009 7:12 AM GMT
    Did u make that up yourself danielh or copy it from somewhere? It's very profound.
  • barriehomeboy

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    May 29, 2009 7:17 AM GMT
    But anyway, rejection is quicker. Being ignored is slow uncertain torture.
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    May 29, 2009 7:35 AM GMT
    I never get noticed long enough to be rejected so I have no basis for comparison.icon_cry.gif
  • barriehomeboy

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    May 29, 2009 7:38 AM GMT
    Anyone over 25 shares that feeling Guerilla. There really are lots of younger guys looking though. They are just looking away when you are watching.
  • barriehomeboy

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    May 29, 2009 7:42 AM GMT
    And I just looked at your pix. You get noticed dude. Don't doubt it.
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    May 29, 2009 7:57 AM GMT
    there's nothing wrong with being rejected but it really sucks to be ignored.

    I think that at the same rate we get rejected we also reject others. Everyone goes for what they find attractive which tends to be a combination of personality and physical appereance. So we should respect what other's like so others can respect what we personally like. You can be rejected and still develop a good friendship(as long as the other person wasnt rude or mean), however its a totally different story when you get ignored...
  • barriehomeboy

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    May 29, 2009 8:01 AM GMT
    ok dude. You have never been rejected. Honestly! How can you comment?
  • barriehomeboy

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    May 29, 2009 8:01 AM GMT
    charlitos I mean