Do you enjoy being IMed on realjock by people who want you to show them your stuff?

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    May 29, 2009 10:26 PM GMT
    I haven't been on this site for very long at all, but I keep getting IMs from people (mostly with no profile picture) wanting to know how my day is going... then they immediately go for that age old question- "top r bottom?" "uncut r cut?" "wanna c2c"

    And as a young gay guy that explores the internet and has a Camfrog account, I'm pretty use to the question; however, I kinda don't appreciate the fact of some random person wanting to show me his stuff... randomly lol.

    Anyways, it's not a thing that I, personally, would like to do at all!!! So the question- do you guys enjoy or are flattered by these questions? :3
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    May 29, 2009 10:29 PM GMT
    I turned off the Real Jock IM.

    If they send me an email and we carry on a conversation therein maybe I'll give them my yahoo messenger ID
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    May 29, 2009 10:53 PM GMT
    No I donĀ“t. Block them.

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    May 29, 2009 11:02 PM GMT
    I turned off my RJ IMs because of this annoyance, too. My RJ friends & I email.
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    May 29, 2009 11:35 PM GMT
    My instant messenger stays on since I go into chat quite a bit, but as soon as that request comes across, not another letter is typed. They are blocked.
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    May 29, 2009 11:50 PM GMT
    Learned early on to turn off the IM thing.

    And if you don't want a bazillion 'unlock privates' offers, you'd better keep all your pics in the public gallery.
  • silverfox

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    May 30, 2009 2:07 AM GMT
    I don't get the whole IM thing, I don't get the whole cam thing, and I certainly don't get the whole chat room thing....

    I guess there are guys that don't get the whole forum thing icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif
  • jlly_rnchr

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    May 30, 2009 2:15 AM GMT
    I don't like it. I was "cam attacked" two too many times with instant messaging, and after that, I turned it off.

    Also not a fan of guys never having spoken to me and unlocking their private photos for my viewing pleasure. I don't need to see that, especially if I've never spoken a word to you or vice versa.

    Maybe I'm a prude.
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    May 30, 2009 2:18 AM GMT
    Turned my IM off recently and enjoy the peace.
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    May 30, 2009 2:21 AM GMT



    We've been evening recipients of an exploding cigar IM lately. One second we were discussing kids books and writing, the next I received a reply that was aggressively sexually explicit and asked about a threesome. icon_rolleyes.gif

    Don't these guys read profiles first? Then he accused me of being deceptive. Then when I repeated back to him what he'd just said, he claimed I'd just insulted him, so I cut him off and shut down IM for the night.


    Whatever.

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  • swimbikerun

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    May 30, 2009 2:23 AM GMT
    Soulasphyxia saidI haven't been on this site for very long at all, but I keep getting IMs from people (mostly with no profile picture) wanting to know how my day is going... then they immediately go for that age old question- "top r bottom?" "uncut r cut?" "wanna c2c"

    And as a young gay guy that explores the internet and has a Camfrog account, I'm pretty use to the question; however, I kinda don't appreciate the fact of some random person wanting to show me his stuff... randomly lol.

    Anyways, it's not a thing that I, personally, would like to do at all!!! So the question- do you guys enjoy or are flattered by these questions? :3
    Turn on your IM for my answer.

    Seriously though, I turned it off a looong time ago. It's disconcerting, especially when it's someone you haven't even chatted with previously.
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    May 30, 2009 2:24 AM GMT
    Hey everyone wants to see your JUNK...so...LOL

    I get 3 a day~
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    May 30, 2009 2:24 AM GMT
    I turned of my IM a long time ago. I got annoyed at all the picless people wanting to start a convo. It's just strange lol
  • RSportsguy

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    May 30, 2009 2:44 AM GMT
    Never been asked, but I think I would not like it especially if they do not have a pic in their profile!!
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    May 30, 2009 2:49 AM GMT

    It doesn't bother me. They usually are too young to get mad at. I know when I was there age all i wanted to see were guy parts too. However, depending on my mood, I either close the window without speaking, try to have a meaningful conversation (which is usually impossible), or if they have a cute pic or are funny/charming, I'll send my privates to them. A couple I cammed for. Guys, really, it's a question. Answer yes or no, but don't turn your messenger off, you might be depriving yourself of a very good connection that way. Youth usually means immaturity and maybe a lack of tact, but younger tend to be more straight forward and simply ask for what they want. Being so reserved and uptight in my old age, I can sorta admire that quality.



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    May 30, 2009 2:53 AM GMT
    My normal response in "No thank you." If they persist a second time, "No, seriously. I am not interested". Strike three gets you "Fuck off you stupid piece of shit. What part of 'I'm not interested in waving my junk at you' can you not get through that cretinously misshapen skull of yours?".
  • DrewT

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    May 30, 2009 2:56 AM GMT
    Gosh no. I just say no, and they go away. icon_smile.gif
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    May 30, 2009 2:57 AM GMT
    It has happened to me. I will say I would not mind if it was a hot guy, but it's always the overweight guys that hide there faces.icon_wink.gif
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    May 30, 2009 3:00 AM GMT
    Sure if I am here and they want to see some of me...why not..good way to let you know I am real and I do have a flopper...LOL

    Who gives a holy flying cocks ass


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    May 30, 2009 3:03 AM GMT
    Can't say I've really been asked. Accidentally buddied someone and they wanted to chat. Guy turned out to be really nice, wish more people I tried to talk to were like that. I've pretty much given up on singles sites for that reason. Put so much effort into trying to get someone to like or at least be friends with me that it began to dominate my time. Now I tend to just let things happen on their own and focus on the things I want to do.

    I'd be flattered though if a guy here asked. Wouldn't necessarily do it though, prefer to at least break the ice first. What happened to basic chivalry? lol
  • adidas0783

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    May 30, 2009 3:07 AM GMT
    I do not mind the RJ IM. It all depends on who is IMing me and what the opening message is.

    I am down with having a good chat about anything really - life, music, movies, gym, ect.

    As far as CAM goes. Yes, I will with guys that I have talked to for a while on here, are respectful and generally a good person. Sure, I might flex for them icon_rolleyes.gif. The same goes for "unlocking" private photos.

    However, when I get IMs from Sketchy guys on here who have NO profile picture or has an obviously fake picture I do not respond. If the conversation starts out with "can I see your cock, ass, hole, spunk, ect." or "want to cyber?"...I block them and that is it.
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    May 30, 2009 3:40 AM GMT
    they are always from fucking asia
  • EricLA

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    May 30, 2009 3:43 AM GMT
    If that's there only interest, then no. And I find it laughable how many guys that ask don't have a cam of their own or theirs "just" broke.
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    May 30, 2009 3:44 AM GMT
    onstagebuffnaked saidthey are always from fucking asia


    I get them from pinoys
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    May 30, 2009 3:46 AM GMT
    I get kind of offended b/c I'm nobody's piece of meat. I usually just say no thanks politely and close the window. I'm not rude but I'm not about to flash for some random