Jun 03, 2009 8:27 AM GMT
I have known my friend for 3 years we met at work at didn't say anything to each other for the first 5 months . One day I asked if he wanted to hang out and he said yes . After that he kept inviting me to hang out and introduced me to all his friends and we eventually started hanging out everyday. The whole time I have known him he has never had a girlfriend he said he liked this girl and invited me over to her house and we went and nothing happened . After that they stopped talking and she ended up getting a bf and having a baby. We still hang out everyday and now wrestle everyday, with often pauses where we just sit really close or he is just on top of me . But i have asked if he is gay and he said no. I asked if he was a virgin and he said no, but i have a friend who is out of the closet(unlike me) who asked him the question when he was a litte tipsy. His response was delayed and eventually a yes. I asked him the next day why he said that and he said he was just kidding . He likes to put on porn when we hang out and he has pictures from maxim on his walls and seems like a normal guy . All our friends make jokes that we are married a lot and he calls me honey and sweetie as a joke or refers to me as his boyfriend. He always asked if i am gay and i usually say no i ask him if he is gay and he says no. He has told my friends that im gay and always tells me i am but i am still kinda uncomfortable .Yesturday when we were wrestling he finished with looking in my eyes and told me to just me be myself . There is a lot of eye contact but i dont really know gaydar so i need help.