Buffhunk64 saidCould someone please give me some insights on training a guy with the gay mindset. Okay, maybe it's not a 'gay mindset', but I have noticed most of the gay guys I train or have trained lack motivation to do a workout, a lack dedication in keeping to a program and a general lack of determination to get in better shape. They are timid, submissive and lack drive. What is it? I spend more mental energy with this group of clients than with any other. Insights someone? Fellow trainer? Anyone?
Lots of fairies are just that: fairies. Low esteem. Lazy. Self-loathing. Whiny. Tell them to shape up, get with the program, or get rid of them, unless you're desperate for all that crap.
You can guide a person into, through, and beyond, their comfort zone, but, a whimp is a whimp is a whimp and if they won't work to change, you're wasting time.
If you're in it for the money, take their money, listen to them, and repeat, otherwise, get rid of them. No trainers need losers for clients. Most trainers want success stories and some guys are just not trainable.