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I know in hetero couples, general rule of thumb is no fucking until 3rd date...how about in homo world?

I am not sure about the rest of the "homo-world" but I typically don't have sex on the first date. The first date is more get to know the person you're going out with... see if any chemistry/attraction exists. The second date is a follow-up to the first, clear up/answer questions-- dig deep into the other person. The 3rd date usually... usually leads to fun or a breakup.

if i'm really into him, all the way

the question is how low can you go?...lol!

Dude, we're men. We fuck when we feel like it. We don't pretend that horniness is ruled by social graces like those people with holes do.

What's wrong with sexing on the 1st date?? I say, get it out of the way! 'Cause if you're not sexually compatible then FUCK it!!!

not always

more often than not

I wouldn't.

Depends on the date circumstances, and the vibes. But no rule there shouldn't be sex on the first meeting, as I've done more times than not myself.

"dirty sanchez", "hot lunch" and "tossing salad" and "angry dragon" ONLY on the first date.




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I'm much too classy for anything else until date number 2.

a1972guy saidWhat's wrong with sexing on the 1st date?? I say, get it out of the way! 'Cause if you're not sexually compatible the FUCK it!!!

Agree 100% !!!!!!!!

I go as far as I want in combination with how far he'll allow. You don't always want to sleep with every guy on the first date. Unless it's going to be the only date, lol.

_chuck_ said

I wonder if that's a lunchbox, or a sex toys kit? How old IS that creature???

yea with half of my friends and experiences that im not proud of.. lol.. alot of the gay community fucks then goes on a first date... haha not saying all cuz there are some good old guys out there.. that wont do anything till months... i currently am talking to a guy.. we have been for 2 months.. never had sex... we recently started to jo together.. lol. but we want to wait till we know we want each other... now i think thats too long.. butits working for us..

Such prudes!!

FirefighterBlu3 saidif i'm really into him, all the way

This is funny, I am exactly opposite. If I really like someone....like you are BF potential or more.....then I go slower.

coolarmydude saidSuch prudes!!

Why so judgemental? Different strokes for different folks, dude!

silverfox1 said

FirefighterBlu3 saidif i'm really into him, all the way

This is funny, I am exactly opposite. If I really like someone....like you are BF potential or more.....then I go slower.

exactly.. he can wait if hes into you!! it has nothing to do with being prude.. penetration is sacred... its cheesy but true.. im no virgin.. lol.. but with time and experiences.. good or bad.. ive learned to respect myself.. i would never throw my stick at anybody with in a 3rd date.... and anyways our third date was our 3rd day.. weve seen each other everyday since weve meet...

yeah...if you are both feeling the heat. The way things are going you never know if you will ever get another chance.

Bunjamon said, "Why so judgemental? Different strokes for different folks, dude!"

This coming from qbanjock: "alot of the gay community fucks then goes on a first date... haha not saying all cuz there are some good old guys out there"


And you call me judgemental?

coolarmydude saidBunjamon said, "Why so judgemental? Different strokes for different folks, dude!

This coming from qbanjock: "alot of the gay community fucks then goes on a first date... haha not saying all cuz there are some good old guys out there"
And you call me judgemental?

He's generalizing, not judging. You're actively calling people who won't put out on a first day prudes, which is unfair because it's not true.

qbanjock said, "it has nothing to do with being prude.. penetration is sacred..... ive learned to respect myself.. i would never throw my stick at anybody with in a 3rd date...."



Here we go...

"sacred": Who says that homosex, let alone any sex between consenting adults, is a religious act?

NO way was i being judgemental.. because guess what IM GAY... and ive had a hook up or two in the past that turned into a relationship.. im saying from my experiences.. and my friends... most that i know.. NOT ALL... have sex before alot more is know... that is not prude.. thats just respecting yourself.. why give yourself away...

I just go with the flow...and it is different with every guy, but sex on the first date for me is usually an indication that it may be the only date.

coolarmydude saidqbanjock said, "it has nothing to do with being prude.. penetration is sacred..... ive learned to respect myself.. i would never throw my stick at anybody with in a 3rd date...."



Here we go...

"sacred": Who says that homosex, let alone any sex between consenting adults, is a religious act?

and no its not religeous.. its just the fact that ok.. this guy was just inside of me or i was just inside of him and we barely know each other.. besides STDs... even with a condom.. you have things like herpes and syphilis.. that bothers me... true different strokes for different folks... so if you do... i dont have a problem.. my friends do it.. its just not me...