Jun 08, 2009 9:02 PM GMT
and shes pissed.. now what...this morning i was the best son ever...now im nothing.
RunintheCity saidGive her a little time and space.
Answer her questions honestly and within reason.
Stay true to you and seek appropriate help should you need it.
onstagebuffnaked saidthe more time she's pissed about it the less time she is loving you.
is that the mother she wants to be?
at least she's only pissed and didn't disown you.
sucks. good luck.
DCEric saidIt will likely take her months to adjust. Possibly years. What you need to do is remain calm, but stick to your guns- you are who you are. ...and remind her that you love her. Her acknowledgment of who you really are will almost be as hard as it was for you. Answer her questions honestly, and when she is ready refer her to PFLAG.
Lastly remember that the hardest part is done for you. She knows.
tereseus1 saidThe sad thing is..i only wanted her approval...just hers.
tereseus1 saidi do feel like a huge weight was taken off my shoulders.....but shes still angry and saying things i wont even repeat. Allot of hateful things. We are of a Jamaican cultural background so its a whole nother ball game. And she said she suspected from 2004....just needed to get confirmation. The sad thing is..i only wanted her approval...just hers.