Living up to standards

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    Jun 09, 2009 1:17 AM GMT
    Ever had a guy date you and then tell you that you were below his standards? Or have a guy try to change you?
  • Pheo

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    Jun 09, 2009 1:52 AM GMT
    Yep. Three times.
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    Jun 09, 2009 1:55 AM GMT
    Pheo saidYep. Three times.


    It's bullshit
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    Jun 09, 2009 3:20 AM GMT

    I told a guy he was beneath me once. Ofcourse,....he was...beneath me.
    He was a frog, but when I gave him the kiss off....he turned into a prince, ya'll...a prince!



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    Jun 09, 2009 3:25 AM GMT
    GuiltyGear said
    I told a guy he was beneath me once. Ofcourse,....he was...beneath me.
    He was a frog, but when I gave him the kiss off....he turned into a prince, ya'll...a prince!





    HAHA
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    Jun 09, 2009 3:38 AM GMT

    adaminmarietta saidOr have a guy try to change you?



    ...................
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    Jun 09, 2009 3:45 AM GMT
    have a guy try to change me, I dumped him. icon_neutral.gif
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    Jun 09, 2009 3:45 AM GMT
    Just by example I made a guy feel like he was below me...I guess technically he was in some ways but I DIDN'T CARE ABOUT THAT STUFF! I was diggin on his broke, unemployed, uneducated, chain smoking, alcoholic behind and NEVER threw any of his flaws in his face...But at the end of the day I think he wanted a guy that would put him down so that it could drive him to make improvements...
  • Hunter9

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    Jun 09, 2009 3:52 AM GMT
    that's pretty ridiculous for a guy to say that to you.

    i would never tell a guy who is "below me" that he is in fact below me... my actions would speak for themselves and he would eventually get the idea... people need to have a bit more class in the dating scene
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    Jun 09, 2009 3:55 AM GMT
    Fact is the guy who did this to me had a lot of mental issues and no car, no friends. I have a car, loving family and friends, and am the sweetest guy. But he didn't like it that I lived with family and I was laid off in November. He didn't even help with gas money as I drove him around
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    Jun 09, 2009 4:09 AM GMT

    so why did it matter to you that he broke it off that way? Maybe, he did it because he thought he wasn't good enough for you and rather than tell you that, he decided to make a believer out of you.



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    Jun 09, 2009 4:11 AM GMT
    GuiltyGear said
    so why did it matter to you that he broke it off that way? Maybe, he did it because he thought he wasn't good enough for you and rather than tell you that, he decided to make a believer out of you.





    Well i didn't know about the mental thing
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    Jun 09, 2009 4:17 AM GMT

    Did you diagnose this "mental thing" or did a doctor?

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    Jun 09, 2009 4:20 AM GMT
    I notced the last time we were together and he had scared on both wrists from trying to commit suicide. His mother was murdered by his father
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    Jun 09, 2009 4:38 AM GMT

    DRAMA
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    Jun 09, 2009 4:40 AM GMT
    GuiltyGear said
    DRAMA


    trust
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    Jun 09, 2009 4:42 AM GMT
    Man, you are well rid of him, whatever he said!
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    Jun 09, 2009 4:43 AM GMT
    whats so bad is he told me about real jock, haha
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    Jun 09, 2009 4:49 AM GMT
    Well at least you got something useful out of him!
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    Jun 09, 2009 4:50 AM GMT
    antelope saidWell at least you got something useful out of him!


    Yes I did, hopefully this site will motivate me to lose this weight
  • GQjock

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    Jun 09, 2009 11:15 AM GMT
    If someone EVER said that to me


    WHO DA HELL???? icon_confused.gif