do white likes asian man?

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    Jun 10, 2009 12:16 AM GMT
    where are good points about asian man?I don't know
  • mctrinh84

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    Jun 10, 2009 7:23 PM GMT
    asians have some big cocks nowadays! lol...icon_smile.gif
  • Delivis

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    Jun 10, 2009 8:43 PM GMT
    huh?
  • kjomart

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    Jun 20, 2009 4:07 AM GMT
    hell yeah white guys like asian guys. i'm not a big guy, so guys that think i'm cute and just "the right size" for them...and that turns me on. i've dated guys that are 6'4" to guys that are my height. the guys i've dated or have flirted with me have always said that they like asian butts and their tight bodies. here's to a toast to us asian males, and a toast to you white guys who find us hot. yes, i'm single...hehe
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    Jul 18, 2010 8:05 PM GMT
    DON'T HATE ME FOR SAYING THIS BUT:

    I know being different in the gay community is very very difficult if your not white and don't look like an Abercrombie & Fitch model but you MUST learn to STOP giving white gay people all the power and options.

    White gay men ARE NOT the "prize" or the "best" a gay Asian or black, Latino can hope to date or fuck, they are simply another option...NOT THE ONLY OPTION !

    All of you black and Asian guys who keep begging to date or fuck a white guy will come to an ugly reality very soon... MOST WHITE GAY MEN DO NOT WANT TO DATE YOU...some may want to experiment, just fuck or use you to boost their ego by enjoying all the attention you give them but NOT DATE.

    THE ONE'S WHO LOOK LIKE AF MODELS WILL NEVER EVER DATE OR MARRY YOU. ...fuck or get fucked by you ... yes.. but not date or marry. the social stigma and curse or racial stereotypes is simply too much for this type of gay white man

    Its NOT because WHITE GAY MEN ARE RACIST, its because they, just like you have been basically brainwashed about what is hot and what is beautiful. Its easier.. not easy...just easier for them because they have been born white. If your born white, then they already fulfill 90% of what gay society says is hot or beautiful. The other 10% is wardrobe and going to the gym. Its in that 10% that you.. the Asian and blacks work so hard to compensate for the fact that you are not white but it never succeeds... and white people know this.

    To be fair, you'll find a few white guys on here eager to write "yea, Asian are hot, or I would date an Asian" but they do this because they in part believe they are doing you a favor. Some of them may seriously be interested in dating or fucking an Asian or black person but the truth is... those white guys who do, are really NOT the type of white guy that you are looking for.. are they? be honest....plain Jane's, older(15 years older than you), average looking, over weight, or too skinny... trust me, they know their not an AF model... in fact, they couldn't get a "really hot" white guy either... which is why their so willing to date or fuck you... they don't fit the social standard of beauty either... even though their white.

    What is so SAD is that every guy who starts these pathetic thread about "white people not being attracted to black or Asians or whatever" you are young... very young ( like under 25) which means your still trying to figure a lot of shit out.

    As racial minorities you face levels of self hatred and rejection that most white gay men will never understand, your attraction to white guys or more fittingly your need to have one of them want you is based on your need for social approval... not necessarily attraction or lust to white guys. Asian men are beautiful, hot and fuckable for a lot of reasons.

    So relax, go easy on yourself.
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    Jul 18, 2010 8:39 PM GMT
    Keith773.
    I'm afraid I kind of do hate you for saying all that. It sounds like utter crap to me.
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    Jul 18, 2010 8:59 PM GMT
    oooh we´ve not had a race flame war for months....

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    Jul 19, 2010 3:44 PM GMT
    To fastness: icon_lol.gif
    I realize the fact that I made perfect sense is hard for YOU to take. People like yourself find it really difficult to accept obvious and uncomfortable truths. Comments like yours confirm I'm telling the truth and raises some awareness (I hate that word:shockicon_smile.gif

    I'm tempted to insult you right now.. it would be so easy for me to do but I realize you've only critized my words...not me. So try reading my comment again, relax a bit and good luck

  • ProveMe2010

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    Jul 20, 2010 2:39 AM GMT
    fastness saidKeith773.
    I'm afraid I kind of do hate you for saying all that. It sounds like utter crap to me.


    Utter crap? Really?
  • mellowmuscle

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    Jul 20, 2010 3:21 AM GMT
    I think there is a lot of validity to Keith773's point. The most important message I relate to and what I believed in even before this thread came up has to do with self-love. It's hard enough being gay, but gay and a minority? That's twice as hard IMHO. It's still marketed in gay media that white is beautiful and that is the standard by which everything else is measured. Case in point, is go to any gay dating or hook-up site and you'll see profiles that say "WHITE ONLY" or flip it and even less PC is "NO BLACKS/HISPANICS/ASIANS/ETC". This is often on the white guy's profile, that he only wants to date or hook up with others like himself. I'm not saying those particular people are racist. I think it's more about wanting what is considered desirable and what we're told is sexy and attractive. But it's certainly not open-minded. What's even sadder though is the minority gay who buys into this gay white male prize propaganda and doesn't find anyone other than someone who is white attractive, not even their own race. It's like they have no value or self-respect for themselves.

    I'm mixed myself, so I often find it intriguing the reactions I get from men who show or don't show interest in me. I'm pretty open-minded when it comes to race. To me, attractive is attractive. I don't break it down into color preferences. It's interesting when I come across someone who says they are only into other white guys and yet they'll proposition me. Does that mean I look white enough? Or maybe they are a little bit more open-minded after all? It's too bad race has to be such an issue within our community, especially when we are all a minority to begin with and should be treating eachother more sympathetically. Change comes slowly it seems.
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    Jul 20, 2010 4:01 AM GMT
    Keith, we read this, which we found particularly galling,

    "To be fair, you'll find a few white guys on here eager to write "yea, Asian are hot, or I would date an Asian" but they do this because they in part believe they are doing you a favor. Some of them may seriously be interested in dating or fucking an Asian or black person but the truth is... those white guys who do, are really NOT the type of white guy that you are looking for.. are they? be honest....plain Jane's, older(15 years older than you), average looking, over weight, or too skinny... trust me, they know their not an AF model... in fact, they couldn't get a "really hot" white guy either... which is why their so willing to date or fuck you... they don't fit the social standard of beauty either... even though their white."

    ...and extremely distasteful and untrue. You have some kind of personal axe to grind and you insulted a great many people who do, in fact, love others of different races, are involved in interraccial relationships, and are members of RJ.

    -Bill and Doug
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    Jul 20, 2010 4:29 AM GMT
    there was already a topic about this ughhh

    no i dont like asians,i would never date one or look at one..im just upfront about it..sue me
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    Jul 20, 2010 4:59 AM GMT
    TO OP: All you really need to do is go to craiglist.com. Post your ad and you'll find out the answer if whites do like asians. Or you can post your pictures on dating sites. I bet you'll get at least 10+ emails. The fact is...Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, they say. Some guys are into bikers, younger, mature, bears, cubs, olders, etc. The list goes on.

    I've been to Seattle and the white guys there love Asian men. In San Francisco as well. In Orange County, California, majority of white men like other white men. In Chicago, it seems like they go for black.

    There are some truth in what that one guy said about white going after white guys, such as in Orange County, CA. But, that's just a small county. And you do find white guys with Asian guys there. So maybe he based his opinions off his county and where he grew up. But if he get out of his little nest, he'll find out that there are lots of white guys that go for the color.

    Basically, what it comes down to, if you're asian and want a white guy, just go for it. Just be yourself, be confident and you'll get yourself a white guy. If that's your preference. It's your life, it's how you make of it. There's always someone out there in the world for another person.

    lovecube saidwhere are good points about asian man?I don't know
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    Jul 20, 2010 7:46 AM GMT
    Keith773, You are 100% CORRECT. What you said is so truth about Asian guys who want to date a white guy.
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    Jul 20, 2010 3:11 PM GMT
    There are so many blank and fake profiles (and sometimes not) trolling on RJ now that if this place were a lake the fish would be extinct. icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 21, 2010 4:05 PM GMT
    To: meninlove and TheGuyNextDoor:

    You guys are GREAT! really, in your own way your great BUT you are TOO OLD TO BE SO NAIVE. I'll be very blunt and say I don't believe you. I don't believe your angry or offended by my statement. I think your hurt because its true and a hard reality for you to accept.

    I am completely aware that interracial relationship exist in the gay community.. duh.. and duh again. I celebrate them and encourage anyone...ANYONE to find love where you can get it. As they say in the hood... "Get in, where you fit in"

    But white people in interacial relationships need to stop pretending their "color blind"... in fact.. they are the opposite of color blind.

    THIS IS FUNNY: You guys are most offended by the part of my statement that probably applies to you THE MOST. I am simply sharing what I see and enjoying the site so relax a bit. READ MY STATEMENT AGAIN, PLEASE. Now think about all of your white friends who are dating a racial minority. Is their bf at least 10 years younger or more? Does his bf seem to act more "white" than his racial background? Did your white friend start "dating" Asian and black guys after they reached the age of 40? I could go on but my point is that there IS a profile or a type of white guy willing to date racial minorieties and vice a versa.

    Lastly, You know nothing about me and you hav'nt asked me any questions so for to you assume I have a "personal axe to grind" is premature,naive and laughable... I'm laughing right now... honestly.icon_lol.gif NONE of my statements where mean-spirited or in poor taste. If your so offended... ask yourself why?
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    Jul 21, 2010 7:36 PM GMT
    Ok, we'll play Keith,

    "Now think about all of your white friends who are dating a racial minority. Is their bf at least 10 years younger or more?"

    Nope, out of about 26 couples, only two are the age difference you describe.


    "Does his bf seem to act more "white" than his racial background?"

    ..about a 70% - 30% split on this one. Most of the whites are busy assimilating their bf's culture and learning (or learned )their language.



    "Did your white friend start "dating" Asian and black guys after they reached the age of 40?"

    Yes, one we know of in fact did just this when his white lover died suddenly. The Asian man that his Mom hired to play piano at his lover's funeral showed up at a wedding our friend was at 2 years later.

    He'd been dumped by his middle eastern lover a few months before and our friend took him out for dinner that night after the wedding. The rest is pleasant history.

    You see, behind every 'appearance of things' there is a story.

    ....and the world is greater than you know.
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    Jul 21, 2010 7:38 PM GMT
    What made us a little pissed is your sweeping generalizations that are mean-spirited, and there's quite enough of that kind of bigotry on here, thanks.

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    Jul 21, 2010 7:53 PM GMT

    Keith said,

    "To be fair, you'll find a few white guys on here eager to write "yea, Asian are hot, or I would date an Asian" but they do this because they in part believe they are doing you a favor."

    Jaded much? Try getting to know guys on here before slamming them this way. You don't know them.



    "Some of them may seriously be interested in dating or fucking an Asian or black person but the truth is... those white guys who do, are really NOT the type of white guy that you are looking for.. are they?"

    Now how would you know what the OP is attracted to?


    "be honest....plain Jane's, older(15 years older than you), average looking, over weight, or too skinny... trust me, they know their not an AF model... in fact, they couldn't get a "really hot" white guy either... which is why their so willing to date or fuck you... they don't fit the social standard of beauty either... even though their white."


    This is plain ignorance. Show us some links to profiles (of guys that like Asians) that you claim are so ugly and unlovable.

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    Jul 21, 2010 9:53 PM GMT
    I have to agree with meninlove with this one..

    No, I don't hate you Keith for making your opinion but I am irritated with your ignorance and blatant hypocritical comments. You claim to be such a proud non-judgemental guy but even your profile shows your true colors "What do you guys do in this town besides getting fat"

    We all have our preferences but I don't believe that all white men don't want any other race for a relationship.. That's not demonstrating a very open mind.. And oddly enough, I think you'll find that most of the men on this site prefer masculine and in shape guys. And what about blacks wanting to date only other blacks? It's all preferences man...

    Oh and I also believe that it doesn't matter if you're white, black, Hispanic or whatever, or an AF model or an unshaven bum, it's hard being gay period. We all have our own shit to go through..

    The real sad thing is that you are the one who believes that 90% of the gay community thinks being white is the ultimate vision of beauty. If you would join the progressive thought of equality, we could help each other rid society's made-up roles for gender, race, age class, etc. You are right in saying that most of society is led to believe certain norms for beauty but those won't change if we keep feeding it negative assumptions..

    Your comment to fastness was especially disgusting. What if I were to sit here and tell you that I truly realize the truth behind what I'm saying would be hard for YOU to realize? Ya know? Since you're black and wouldn't understand my, a white man's, viewpoint. That's ignorance at its finest..
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    Jul 21, 2010 10:04 PM GMT
    Of course Keith's comments don't apply to everyone, but it does apply to many, maybe most, of the white "jock" types. I see it all the time. He's just daring to speak the ugly truth. Don't shoot the messenger.
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    Jul 21, 2010 10:45 PM GMT
    To meninlove: Your responses are great and I'm having a lot of fun reading them... reallyicon_biggrin.gif

    BUT why are YOU responding to my comments? Why do YOU care? According to your own profile and pics you and your husband are White so my comments where not for YOU. If you’re so serious about this topic then you should be asking yourself why no other racial minorities are responding in opposition to my statements. The only people upset about what I said are the white guys... and you shouldn’t be... really. I understand my comment was hard to take but I repeat.. I WAS NOT "MEAN" or bigoted. I know the definition of this word... do you?

    You seem to keep skipping over parts of my comments only to focus on the parts you feel most offended by. Please be smarter than this and take into account ALL of my comments as a whole. Also, I can't possibly know every gay man in America... and I'm not talking about ALL white guys or ALL Asians and blacks. What I'm describing is a common... a common... A COMMON experiance among gay racial minorities. I am not talking about everyone. You should not be offend if this does not apply to youicon_razz.gif

    It seems I've given you something to think about. Well here's some more for you think about: I find it interesting and strange that you are able to "report" the number of interracial couples you know in such detail. This is strange to say the least. Its a red flag in my book and makes me think you made up your ... ummm .... findings. Next, I was being mostly rhetorical. I thought that was obvious...my bad. But since you’re so serious about this; I challenge you to find ANY racial minorities born in America who will completely reject my statements and instead agree with your statements.

    If you are serious enough to objectively ask (even some RJ members) other racial minorities about their experience dating, fucking, meeting white guys, you'll quickly hear a common theme from them all that will point you back to what I've already said. Again there IS a profile or type of guy who will enter into an interracial relationship. Don't hate me for sharing what I see. If you are willing, you'd see the same.

    You seem so set on defending white people or white guys in interracial relationships and there's really no need. White guys are beautiful and wonderful and so much more than just being white.. just like all of us. I never said anyone was "unlovable" or "ugly". Those are your words, NOT MINE. Btw: there's no need to report back to me or RJ what you discover. It would be impossible to know if you’re being truthful anyway...so don't bother.icon_rolleyes.gif

    I have no personal angst here.. This idea is so funny to me that I honestly felt complemented that you would think I am troubled by any of this icon_smile.gif Believe me when I say.. I LOVE WHITE GUYS.. You’ll have to take my word on thisicon_razz.gif
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    Jul 21, 2010 10:53 PM GMT
    Oh, we know you like white guys.

    The hot list never lies, and there's a few guys on here that forget this.

    Why did what you post bother us? You insulted a great many men that we know.

    As for numbers etc that we reported. What do you think we've been up to in the 16 or so years before we met each other and the 21 years since we met each other? Living in a cave in isolation?
    Er, no.

    -Doug

    You also forgot to tell the op that you probably wouldn't date an Asian that didn't look like the few in your hot-list.


    You should have spent more time on our profile and spent more time on this site and you'd have found out that Doug is the first generation of his family (both his Mom's side and his Dad's side) born outside of Jamaica and has an extremely mixed race background.

    -Bill (I'd be the white guy)
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    Jul 21, 2010 10:57 PM GMT


    PS if you have issues with our credibility, they're your issues.


    Now back to our poor OP, who only asked what others thought the good points about Asian men are.


    lovecube, this is Doug. Let's rescue your topic.
    Good points? The same as any race. Intelligence, handsomeness, warmth, character, sense of humour, depth, desire to help your fellow man, ability to love and love deeply.

    Anything else?


    Are you asking about men of a specific Asian culture? Chinese? Korean? Vietnamese? Indonesian?

    -Doug
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    Jul 22, 2010 1:12 AM GMT
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    Stop asking this type of questions, the definitive answer is SOME do SOME don't.
    And why specifically white men?icon_rolleyes.gif