i am trying all those things, but it sucks because thoughts about him still come up at the most random, quiet, private, unexpected moments. and then that hurt resurfaces and i feel as if i am back at square one. i feel like i am being punished for something, for caring so much about someone and then getting blown off. and we were only friends. good friends, i thought.
i have tried listing all his negatives, which only was 3 things, but they pale in comparison to how great he made me feel when we were together. and i tell myself "he does not like me, he does not feel the same way, so i have to get over him" over and over. it helps some. but like i said, the hurt invades my private moments when i least expect it, and makes it that much worse.
so if any one has any other suggestions on how i can get over him, i would appreciate more tips.