after a long hiatus.....

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    Jun 12, 2009 2:07 AM GMT
    I went out on a date last night! it was with a guy i met at my favorite place to get drinks. it turns out he was the friend of an acquaintance.

    we had a chance to talk and get to know each other over dinner, talked about our families, growing up, career paths, motivations, etc. we watched a movie after dinner with some wine, and ended the evening nicely with a hug. He walked me to my car, which i thought was sweet of him.

    i've been out of the dating pool for a while, this is a good first date, right? icon_question.gif
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    Jun 12, 2009 2:11 AM GMT
    Grats man!

    Hope it all turns out well for you.

    Keep your feet on the ground though. Install a spycam inside his house, and a tracker in his car. Do a thorough background check, and most importantly. . .

    google his name

    You're all set! icon_biggrin.gif


    But really, good luck!
  • Timbales

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    Jun 12, 2009 2:16 AM GMT
    Sounds like an awesome date to me. When are you going out again?
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    Jun 12, 2009 2:19 AM GMT
    Only YOU can say whether this was a good first date, because only you felt it.

    By description, it sounds great
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    Jun 12, 2009 2:20 AM GMT
    Thanks guys! He's a nice guy, has a bit of a goofy side to him too which i thought was cute.

    we didn't make solid plans to go out again, think it was an oversight......actually, that's part of the reason i put this thread up too. I've been out of practice with dates and stuff, I'm wondering if this was a major oversight.
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    Jun 12, 2009 6:04 AM GMT
    Good? Nah....It must have been a GREAT first date and I am sure the both of you are looking anxiously towards the second date!icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 12, 2009 9:16 AM GMT
    AdriantheRN saidI went out on a date last night! it was with a guy i met at my favorite place to get drinks. it turns out he was the friend of an acquaintance.

    we had a chance to talk and get to know each other over dinner, talked about our families, growing up, career paths, motivations, etc. we watched a movie after dinner with some wine, and ended the evening nicely with a hug. He walked me to my car, which i thought was sweet of him.

    i've been out of the dating pool for a while, this is a good first date, right? icon_question.gif


    Cool, cool, sounds like a good date. I, however, have 2 questions: be honest and answer me if you can.

    1/ Did you or him try to *get Physical beside the hug (like groping or holding hands ... etc)?

    2/ Was there any sexual tensions/sparks that you saw or he saw, do you feel like there is chemistry?

    ........I can't help but thinking about the scene in that movie "He's just not that into you". Brace yourself for the 2nd date/phone call! icon_biggrin.gificon_cool.gif
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    Jun 12, 2009 9:16 PM GMT
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    Cool, cool, sounds like a good date. I, however, have 2 questions: be honest and answer me if you can.

    1/ Did you or him try to *get Physical beside the hug (like groping or holding hands ... etc)?

    2/ Was there any sexual tensions/sparks that you saw or he saw, do you feel like there is chemistry?

    ........I can't help but thinking about the scene in that movie "He's just not that into you". Brace yourself for the 2nd date/phone call! icon_biggrin.gificon_cool.gif


    Havent seen the movie, but i heard it was good. actually, i was just thinking about that line today, i haven't heard from him since we went out, so, i've just assumed/accepted that he's just not that into me.

    Next! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 12, 2009 11:09 PM GMT
    AdriantheRN said
    SexySwimmer said


    Cool, cool, sounds like a good date. I, however, have 2 questions: be honest and answer me if you can.

    1/ Did you or him try to *get Physical beside the hug (like groping or holding hands ... etc)?

    2/ Was there any sexual tensions/sparks that you saw or he saw, do you feel like there is chemistry?

    ........I can't help but thinking about the scene in that movie "He's just not that into you". Brace yourself for the 2nd date/phone call! icon_biggrin.gificon_cool.gif


    Havent seen the movie, but i heard it was good. actually, i was just thinking about that line today, i haven't heard from him since we went out, so, i've just assumed/accepted that he's just not that into me.

    Next! icon_biggrin.gif


    Awh, I hope to turn out to be wrong ! but its ok! other fishes live in the sea.
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    Jun 13, 2009 1:25 AM GMT
    SexySwimmer said
    AdriantheRN said
    SexySwimmer said


    Cool, cool, sounds like a good date. I, however, have 2 questions: be honest and answer me if you can.

    1/ Did you or him try to *get Physical beside the hug (like groping or holding hands ... etc)?

    2/ Was there any sexual tensions/sparks that you saw or he saw, do you feel like there is chemistry?

    ........I can't help but thinking about the scene in that movie "He's just not that into you". Brace yourself for the 2nd date/phone call! icon_biggrin.gificon_cool.gif


    Havent seen the movie, but i heard it was good. actually, i was just thinking about that line today, i haven't heard from him since we went out, so, i've just assumed/accepted that he's just not that into me.

    Next! icon_biggrin.gif


    Awh, I hope to turn out to be wrong ! but its ok! other fishes live in the sea.



    haha, you know what's funny tho? I literally just a got text back from him a few minutes ago saying he had fun and would like to do it again. Boys are weird. LOL
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    Jun 13, 2009 1:43 AM GMT
    AdriantheRN said

    haha, you know what's funny tho? I literally just a got text back from him a few minutes ago saying he had fun and would like to do it again. Boys are weird. LOL


    He's takin it slow. icon_razz.gif Means he likes you, rather than just trying to get into yer pants. At least I hope so. Heh. Best of luck!
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    Jun 13, 2009 2:17 AM GMT
    Sedative said
    AdriantheRN said

    haha, you know what's funny tho? I literally just a got text back from him a few minutes ago saying he had fun and would like to do it again. Boys are weird. LOL


    He's takin it slow. icon_razz.gif Means he likes you, rather than just trying to get into yer pants. At least I hope so. Heh. Best of luck!


    You're right dude, that could be possible. I'm just being realistic/not expecting too much. But it's a nice thought!
  • jrs1

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    Jun 22, 2009 2:54 AM GMT
    yay! that's an awesome first date. the patient guy ... * swoons *
    good for you. =]
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    Jun 22, 2009 3:10 AM GMT
    It sounded good to me. More importantly, it sounds like you are excited about it!
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    Jun 22, 2009 3:39 AM GMT
    well was there a 2nd or 3rd date or no?
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    Jun 23, 2009 6:47 AM GMT
    oh wow, this thread is still alive! LOL...i'm surprised, icon_biggrin.gif

    so far, i haven't heard from him. I have been initiating the contact in the last 2 weeks, and doesn't reply back until the day after, i think it's safe to say that he's not into me. I haven't heard from him since.
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    Jun 23, 2009 7:30 AM GMT
    yep, the guy that says you are hot but never responds to texts in any reasonable manner. Don't you love to be kept hanging? lol Two out of my last 3 dates were like that....unfortunately or fortunately we had sex on the first date.
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    Jun 23, 2009 7:42 AM GMT
    What is a date? I haven't been on one in sooooooo long. icon_sad.gif
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    Jun 23, 2009 3:52 PM GMT
    Alpha13 saidyep, the guy that says you are hot but never responds to texts in any reasonable manner. Don't you love to be kept hanging? lol Two out of my last 3 dates were like that....unfortunately or fortunately we had sex on the first date.


    actually, it would have been a nice parting gift to have sex, LOL. sorry that happened to you, Alpha...guys are odd creatures, haha. they show interest, and when you get reeled in, they suddenly back off.

    oh, and MadeNUSA, there was no second or third date.
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    Jun 23, 2009 4:11 PM GMT
    AdriantheRN saidit turns out he was the friend of an acquaintance.

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    Don't you love how the gay world is as big as an ant's ass?!?!?!?!?! I DO!!!
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    Jun 23, 2009 9:24 PM GMT
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    AdriantheRN saidit turns out he was the friend of an acquaintance.

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    Don't you love how the gay world is as big as an ant's ass?!?!?!?!?! I DO!!!



    it's CRAZY is what it is! actually, my previous boyfriend turned out to be the friend of the first gay friend I ever had. that was so random
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    Jul 13, 2009 10:21 AM GMT
    That kiddie song "It's a small world after all" rings in my head! hahahah!!!
    Congrats, p'reh! Keep us postered. icon_biggrin.gif