adaminmarietta said1. Date a drag queen?
2. Date a man who was in worse shape than you?
3. And explain why you answered the way you did. Name the pros and cons...
1. no. 2. yes.
3. female, and anything trying to emulate or impersonate, doesn't appeal to me at all. there are no pros. when people ask why not? it's hard for them to understand sometimes. i.e two examples. a twinky-boy and a very obese guy. "would you, as a twink, ever find attractive or date someone morbidly obese? no. okay." most people can accept and understand easily. now, "would you, an overweight guy, find attractive or date a slim toned guy?" if he answers no, most people would falter and wonder why he doesn't think the twink is attractive.
much of the gay community emphatically pushes us to expect female emulation or impersonation as the norm and we should desire them. this site being realjock, has a rather skewed proportion of guys that probably think otherwise but switch to a pride event and we're in the minority.
i don't find flamboyance or femininity attractive, at all. take a guy who physically turns me on a LOT - then turns and does a 30MPH wrist flap and hip swish, and my lust disappears faster than a kid at michael jackson's front door.
i date a man in worse shape than me right now. although it's not much of a difference between us. one of the couple is always in worse shape than the other. however i suspect you meant drastically worse shape. in that regard - probably not. i want someone that can generally keep up with me in life. in or out of the gym.